Everyone is good at birth, but because of the different learning environment in the process of growing up, there are differences in temperament. If you haven't received a good education since childhood, your kind nature will degenerate. In order to keep people from becoming bad, the most important way is to educate children wholeheartedly. During the Warring States Period, Mencius' mother moved three times in order to give Mencius a good learning environment.
Once Mencius played truant, Meng Mu cut off the cloth on the loom to teach his son. In the Five Dynasties, the Yanshan people had a good way to educate their sons. His five sons were all very successful and made a name for themselves in the imperial examinations. It is the father's fault that he only provides food and clothing for his children and has not received a good education. Only education, not strict requirements, is laziness as a teacher. It is very wrong for children to refuse to study hard. If a person doesn't study hard when he is a child, he won't know the truth of being a man and have no knowledge when he is old. Jade will not become a beautiful object unless it is polished and carved. People who don't study and don't know manners can't become talents.