In 207 BC, after Liu Bang led his troops to Xianyang, he visited Qin Gong. But he saw the magnificent palace and countless things in every office, which he had never seen before. Everywhere he went, many beautiful imperial secretaries bowed to him. The more he looked at it, the more novel he felt and the more interested he became. So, I plan to live in the palace and enjoy it. Fan Kuai, the ministry of Liu Bang, found that Liu Bang was going to live in the palace, so he asked him, "Does Pei Gong * * * mean that Liu Bang wants to own the world, or just want to be a rich man?" Liu Bang replied: "Of course I want the world." Fan Kuai said sincerely, "When I entered Qin Gong, I found there were countless treasures inside, and there were thousands of Chinese beauties in the harem. These are the reasons that led to the demise of the Qin Dynasty. I hope that Pei Gong will return to the overlord quickly and never stay in the palace. " Liu Bang dismissed Fan Kuai's advice and prepared to live in the palace. Sean, the counselor, said to Liu Bang, "The king of Qin has no choice. The people rose up and defeated Qin Jun, so Pei Gong came here. You should be diligent and thrifty, and get rid of the tyrant who harms people for the world. Now I just entered Qin, and I want to have a good time. As the saying goes:' Advice is unpleasant to the ear, but it is good for behavior; Poison tastes bitter, but it is good for the disease. "I hope Pei Gong will listen to Fan Kuai's advice." Hearing this, Liu Bang finally woke up, immediately ordered the treasury to be sealed and closed, and then returned to Badu with a great army.
Analyze suggestions when they are most needed.
Sincere advice sounds uncomfortable. Inverse: not smooth.
[Language] "Six Books of Zijia": "Confucius said:' Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness; Advice is unpleasant, but good for behavior. " "
[Discrimination] Loyalty; Can't write "clock".
The theory that a good medicine tastes bitter and is good for the disease.
[antonym] Sweet words
[Usage] Often used with "good medicine tastes bitter". Generally used as predicate, object and clause.
Subject-predicate type
An example of advice that is hard to listen to.
In the history of China, Wei Zhi, the prime minister in the early Tang Dynasty, was famous for daring to speak frankly to the emperor. Whenever there was something wrong with Emperor Taizong, Wei Zhi would argue and persuade him. Even if Emperor Taizong lost his temper because of this, he was not afraid, but still boasted.
Emperor Taizong admired and feared Wei Zhi. After Wei Zhi died of illness, Emperor Taizong said sadly: "A person can see whether his clothes and hats are properly dressed by looking at copper;" Taking history as a mirror, we can know the reasons for the rise and fall of the country; Looking at people as a mirror, you can find out whether what you are doing is right or wrong. Now that Wei Zhi is dead, I have lost my most precious mirror. "
Why did Emperor Taizong regard Wei Zhi as his mirror? There is a reason for this.
As a teenager, Wei Zhi was born humble, lonely and poor, and once became a monk. He likes reading, delves into ancient books and is knowledgeable. At the end of the Sui Dynasty, Wei Zhi took part in the uprising against the tyranny of the Sui Dynasty. Later, he took refuge in the Tang Dynasty established by Tang Gaozu and worked for Prince Li. Because of his outstanding talent, Wei Zhi was highly valued by the prince.
Later, his second son launched the "Xuanwumen mutiny" and killed his younger brother Li. Yang and Li Keen Shimin knew that Wei Zhi was a talented person, so they summoned him in person.
As soon as Li Shimin saw Wei Zhi, he was very angry and asked him, "Why do you want to alienate our brother?" The ministers present thought that Wei Zheng would be killed.
However, Wei Zhi calmly replied in a very confident tone: "If the Crown Prince had listened to me earlier, he would certainly not have ended up like this." After hearing this, Li Shimin was moved by Wei Zhi's fearless strength and integrity, and admired his personality from the heart. So instead of punishing him, he was reused.
Soon, Li Shimin acceded to the throne. He was Emperor Taizong. Emperor Taizong appointed Wei Zhi as * * * official position, advised the emperor, and later promoted him as prime minister. At the beginning of the founding of the People's Republic of China, Emperor Taizong made great efforts to govern the country and often summoned Wei Zhi to discuss the gains and losses of governing the country with him. Wei Zhi is ambitious, brave and fearless, and boldly remonstrates with the spirit of seeking truth from facts. During his decades in office, he remonstrated with Emperor Taizong more than 200 times in order to make the people of the Tang Dynasty rich and strong. Every time, Emperor Taizong carefully considered his suggestions and tried to adopt them.
On one occasion, Emperor Taizong violated his regulations, and only adult men aged 18 should perform military service. He decided to recruit tall men aged 16 and 18 to join the army. After the order was issued, Wei Zhi strongly opposed it. Emperor Taizong was so angry that he was sent for and reprimanded.
Wei Zhi is not afraid. He protested seriously and said, "Now you take all the strong middle-aged men out for military service. So, who will farm the land? Who will do the work? You often say that when I become a monarch, I must first keep my word, but the laws of the country clearly stipulate that only the strongest men need to perform military service. Why don't you follow them? Don't you lose credibility in front of ordinary people? "
Wei Zhi's words calmed the anger of Emperor Taizong. He sincerely said to Wei Zhi, "Mr. Wang is really a mirror of my country and me! At first, I thought you were too stubborn and unreasonable, but now I feel very reasonable after listening to you. There are different government decrees, and the people are at a loss and cannot govern the country well. " Therefore, Emperor Taizong immediately ordered to stop recruiting China men for service and rewarded Wei Zhi.
Wei Zhi, who dared to speak out and remonstrate, not only made immortal contributions to the country, but also became an example for officials in past dynasties to follow.
Advice that is most needed is least valued.
1. Good medicine is bitter, but it can cure serious diseases; Although advice is the most unpleasant, it can help you correct or not make mistakes.
2. Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action.
He is rebellious, not to mention advice when most needed is least heeded. I think you said it through the oral part.
Advice when most needed is least heeded, students' criticism sounds sharp, but it is good for you to correct your shortcomings.
It's not that I haven't advised him, but the advice is terrible and he won't listen. what can I do?
Although the suggestion is terrible, I still have to say what I should say for the good of the company.
7. The teacher criticized our mistakes. Although we don't like listening, the advice is hard to hear. We should accept teachers' criticism with an open mind.
8. Advice is least valued when it is most needed, and advice is least valued.
9. I know these words will make you unhappy, but advice is hard to hear, so I hope to think more.
10. Teachers' criticism and education are for students' future. As the saying goes, advice is when most people are least heeded.
1 1. Although the suggestion is ugly, I still want to say what I should say for the good of the company.
12. The world is very upside down. Everyone found the rules and principles that Master said hard to accept. When master tells the truth, he is loyal, and he thinks that master is too tight and can't stand it!
13. We should seriously deal with the differences and frictions between friends, give advice when most needed is least heeded, and make a calm analysis so as not to lose friends.
14. The teacher criticized our mistakes. Although we don't like listening, suggestions are the most unpleasant, so we should accept the teacher's criticism with an open mind.
15. When it is most needed, advice is least taken seriously, and advice is least taken seriously.
16. I know these words will make you sad, but advice is most unpleasant, please think more.
17. Sometimes you have to obey, sometimes you have to criticize; Criticism is no easier than obedience: suggestions are hard to hear, and people who speak with their conscience have no good life.
18. As I have the responsibility to maintain monetary and financial stability in Hong Kong, even though some people may find the advice unpleasant, I think these warnings should be issued when necessary.
19. Because you helped me, I can only grovel in front of you, but I can't sincerely point out your mistakes and make you progress, young man. The most unpleasant suggestions are conducive to action.
20. Qin Xiang desperately broke into the inner palace, and he plausibly said: Advice is when most people are least heeded.
2 1. Actually, some words are hard to hear, but they make sense. "Advice is beneficial at the most unpleasant time", so don't make personal attacks! China people always hope that the country is good, and there are few bad guys and traitors.
22. Especially some negative opinions, as the saying goes, "Advice is when most people are least heeded". As a manager of an enterprise, it is necessary to keep a low profile and accept good words in order to release emotions, communicate emotions, reduce communication costs and realize the benign development of the company.