Selected from Confucius' Family Words, Volume II, Eight Thoughts, and from Han Poetry Biography, Volume IX: "The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop, and the son wants to raise it."
Selected from Confucius' Family Language, Volume II, Thought is Eight.
Confucius left, and it was sad to hear crying. Confucius said, "Drive, drive, there are sages before." To, and then the tall fish also, was brown sickle, crying by the roadside. Confucius drove the car and said, "No funeral, why are you crying?"
Gaoyu said: "I lost three things, learned little, traveled to princes, and later lost one." Noble my ambition, idle my affairs and lose two; If you are honest with your friends, you will lose three. The tree wants to remain quiet, but the wind won't stop; the son wants to serve his parents in their old age, but they are no more. Those who can't chase, the year is also; Those who go and don't see it are near. Please resign from now on. "Die immediately.
Confucius said, "Disciples know enough." So the master resigned and three out of ten people adopted relatives.
When I used to sigh that my children should be filial, my parents had passed away. The wind is endless, which is the helplessness of the tree; It is the helplessness of the dutiful son to stay around. Later generations used "the sorrow of the wind tree" as a metaphor for the pain of bereavement. The original words came from Gao Yu, not Confucius. But it has always been regarded as the language of Confucius. This mistake is a bit like the famous saying "food, color and sex are also important". Many people regard the source of this sentence as Confucius. In fact, this sentence comes from Mencius. The person who said this was neither Confucius nor Mencius, but a penitent.
All virtues are filial piety first, and filial piety must be timely. What do you mean?
Filial piety is now.
Don't wait until the old man dies to regret it.
What do all the virtues of filial piety mean?
Filial piety is the most important of all virtues.
Filial piety is the first thing in life, and filial piety is the source of all kinds of behavior since ancient times.
Children should be filial, and unfilial people are heinous.
Parents know the ocean deeply, so don't forget to repay the relatives in your life.
In the world, filial piety is the greatest, and filial piety is the end.
Parents should use good meals first, and parents should wear good clothes first.
Don't teach your parents to suffer, and leave them alone.
Be careful in getting in and out of support, and it's not tiring to serve you day and night.
Parents are not disobedient. Tell them to remember their words.
Dare not answer the phone slowly, sincerely respect and smile.
There must be a sequence of big things and small things, and you must not specialize in it.
Always be considerate of your parents, don't teach them to care.
I'm not allowed to go to the treasure bureau money field, and I'm not allowed to play in Huajie and Liuxiang.
Save your life and prevent diseases, and you can't be greedy for money and money.
How can it be safe to do evil and provoke parents to scold?
Come to ask each other every morning and ask them if they are hot or cold.
Don't go anywhere at night, wait on your parents and have a good sleep.
Parents should be cool in summer and warm in winter.
Parents have three meals and three refreshments a day.
I'm afraid of my eating disorder, and it's hard to regret this disaster.
Hugh said he worked hard, and his parents worked hard first.
People get older every day, and parents get older every year.
Advise people to be filial in time, although there are many brothers.
This article advises filial piety to meet a bosom friend, and it is time to do filial piety without delay.
The kindness of parents is as deep as the sea. Don't forget your parents' kindness in life.
From ancient times to modern times, the birth cycle has been passed down from generation to generation.
Being a child should be filial, and those who are unfilial commit a heinous crime.
Only when the family is poor can a dutiful son be born. Birds and beasts still know how to breastfeed.
It is futile to hope that your child will become a dragon if you don't repay your kindness.
Children curse me, and I like it in my heart;
My parents are angry with me, but I am unwilling.
Not if you like it. Why not wait for your son to come near you?
I advise you to be a child when you are angry in the future.
There are thousands of words from generation to generation, and I am always tired of listening;
As soon as parents talk, the sidewalk is idle.
Non-idle management, close contact, well informed,
I advise you to respect the old man's words and don't talk nonsense.
Husband and wife bring wallets, buy clothes and buy cakes;
It's rare for parents to talk more about feeding their children.
If relatives don't feed, children will eat first. Why should caring be reversed?
I advise you to think more about the elderly and spend less time supporting your parents.
Check the drugs on the market and only buy diet pills;
Although the old relative was ill, he didn't buy less medicine.
Children are thin and their relatives are disabled. How can the doctor come before father?
Stock trading is still a pro-meat, so I advise you to stay in pro-Yan as soon as possible.
Rich and filial, parents are uneasy;
It is difficult to raise children in poverty, and children are not hungry or cold.
There are two kinds of hearts, and the pro-poor can't speak;
I advise you not to force the family to have money, but to eat the thin ones first.
Filial piety is the best in the world, a word of filial piety, and the whole family is safe; Filial piety begets filial sons, and filial sons are wise.
Filial piety is the first step of human nature, and the death of a dutiful son will not die; Since ancient times, loyal ministers have many filial sons, so you choose virtuous ministers to raise filial piety.
Committed to filial piety, filial piety is not just food and clothing; Filial piety is precious to the heart, and filial piety is not to blame.
I regret that the world does not know filial piety, so it is natural to return to filial piety; Everything is because of unfilial, how do you know that filial piety can touch the sky?
There is nothing wonderful about filial piety, which is gender-neutral. Blessings come from filial piety, and God will treat dutiful sons differently.
Everyone can be filial to their parents, and filial piety is like respecting heaven; There is filial piety in the son's mouth and filial piety in his face.
In-laws can be filial on it, and filial piety comes and goes; A woman learns to be filial first when she gets a good reputation, and she learns to be filial first when she is obedient and virtuous.
Filial piety is respected by the villagers, and filial piety is happy at home; The dutiful son advises everyone to be filial. Filial piety is a custom and a character.
The voice of a dutiful son is precious before death and passed down from generation to generation after death. Filial piety is the only way to do things, and filial piety can touch the sky.
Filial piety, filial piety, filial piety, filial piety, filial piety; Parents are filial, and filial piety is a good person.
People can be filial to their parents, and the next generation of filial sons will still be filial; Parents in the class don't know filial piety and don't complain about poverty.
The dutiful son has a peaceful face, and it is natural to be filial when he is filial; Dear you, you don't know filial piety, and you regret it when you die.
Filial piety is not in the table, and filial piety is not good; The dutiful son makes the whole family happy, and the dutiful son manages the country and keeps the country safe.
The harvest of all crops is due to filial piety, and a filial piety is a peaceful year. Whether you can be filial, you can be rich if you are not poor. Kindness and love are sons and men.
Harmony between brothers is filial piety, and forbearance is filial piety; Filial piety is to see true filial piety from difficulties, and filial piety has face.
Parents are both righteous and filial, and filial piety is widowed; You are in a hurry to be filial, and time flies, so I will be filial every day.
Filial piety is filial piety before death, but it is futile after death; Filial piety is a treasure, gentle and sweet.
Lambs kneel down to be filial, and crows feed back their filial piety; If you don't know filial piety, you are not as pitiful as a bird.
Filial piety is the first, and filial piety is the root; It is also filial piety to read Buddha and do good deeds. Filial piety lasts for more than nine days.
Great filial piety is almost great filial piety, and there is no end to filial piety; Every sentence in this article is inseparable from filial piety, and the relationship between filial piety is upside down.
Read a thousand filial piety ten times and a hundred times; Read thousands of articles often to avoid disaster. ...
What do you mean by filial piety first?
People have a lot of things to do in this world.
However, the most important thing is filial piety.
In ancient times, when parents died, they would keep filial piety for three years.
Even the officials of the imperial court have to go home to be filial.
Today's filial piety is to respect parents and elders.
Filial piety in time
When you understand the truth, in fact, you don't have much time to spend with your parents (especially those who work outside the home, which will not last more than two or three years in their lives).
The meaning of filial piety ~ ~
Filial piety is the first thing in life, and filial piety is the source of all kinds of behavior since ancient times.
Children should be filial, and unfilial people are heinous.
Parents know the ocean deeply, so don't forget to repay the relatives in your life.
In the world, filial piety is the greatest, and filial piety is the end.
Parents should use good meals first, and parents should wear good clothes first.
Don't teach your parents to suffer, and leave them alone.
Be careful in getting in and out of support, and it's not tiring to serve you day and night.
Parents are not disobedient. Tell them to remember their words.
Dare not answer the phone slowly, sincerely respect and smile.
There must be a sequence of big things and small things, and you must not specialize in it.
Always be considerate of your parents, don't teach them to care.
I'm not allowed to go to the treasure bureau money field, and I'm not allowed to play in Huajie and Liuxiang.
Save your life and prevent diseases, and you can't be greedy for money and money.
How can it be safe to do evil and provoke parents to scold?
Come to ask each other every morning and ask them if they are hot or cold.
Don't go anywhere at night, wait on your parents and have a good sleep.
Parents should be cool in summer and warm in winter.
Parents have three meals and three refreshments a day.
I'm afraid of my eating disorder, and it's hard to regret this disaster.
Hugh said he worked hard, and his parents worked hard first.
People get older every day, and parents get older every year.
Advise people to be filial in time, although there are many brothers.
This article advises filial piety to meet a bosom friend, and it is time to do filial piety without delay.
The kindness of parents is as deep as the sea. Don't forget your parents' kindness in life.
From ancient times to modern times, the birth cycle has been passed down from generation to generation.
Being a child should be filial, and those who are unfilial commit a heinous crime.
Only when the family is poor can a dutiful son be born. Birds and beasts still know how to breastfeed.
It is futile to hope that your child will become a dragon if you don't repay your kindness.
Children curse me, and I like it in my heart;
My parents are angry with me, but I am unwilling.
Not if you like it. Why not wait for your son to come near you?
I advise you to be a child when you are angry in the future.
There are thousands of words from generation to generation, and I am always tired of listening;
As soon as parents talk, the sidewalk is idle.
Non-idle management, close contact, well informed,
I advise you to respect the old man's words and don't talk nonsense.
Husband and wife bring wallets, buy clothes and buy cakes;
It's rare for parents to talk more about feeding their children.
If you don't eat, your son will eat first. Why do you care about your heart?
I advise you to think more about the elderly and spend less time supporting your parents.
Check the drugs on the market and only buy diet pills;
Although the old relative was ill, he didn't buy less medicine.
Children are thin and their relatives are disabled. How can the doctor come before father?
Stock trading is still a pro-meat, so I advise you to stay in pro-Yan as soon as possible.
Rich and filial, parents are uneasy;
It is difficult to raise children in poverty, and children are not hungry or cold.
There are two kinds of hearts, and the pro-poor can't speak;
I advise you not to force the family to have money, but to eat the thin ones first.
Filial piety is the best in the world, a word of filial piety, and the whole family is safe; Filial piety begets filial sons, and filial sons are wise.
Filial piety is the first step of human nature, and the death of a dutiful son will not die; Since ancient times, loyal ministers have many filial sons, so you choose virtuous ministers to raise filial piety.
Committed to filial piety, filial piety is not just food and clothing; Filial piety is precious to the heart, and filial piety is not to blame.
I regret that the world does not know filial piety, so it is natural to return to filial piety; Everything is because of unfilial, how do you know that filial piety can touch the sky?
There is nothing wonderful about filial piety, which is gender-neutral. Blessings come from filial piety, and God will treat dutiful sons differently.
Everyone can be filial to their parents, and filial piety is like respecting heaven; There is filial piety in the son's mouth and filial piety in his face.
In-laws can be filial on it, and filial piety comes and goes; A woman learns to be filial first when she gets a good reputation, and she learns to be filial first when she is obedient and virtuous.
Filial piety is respected by the villagers, and filial piety is happy at home; The dutiful son advises everyone to be filial. Filial piety is a custom and a character.
The voice of a dutiful son is precious before death and passed down from generation to generation after death. Filial piety is the only way to do things, and filial piety can touch the sky.
Filial piety, filial piety, filial piety, filial piety, filial piety; Parents are filial, and filial piety is a good person.
People can be filial to their parents, and the next generation of filial sons will still be filial; Parents in the class don't know filial piety and don't complain about poverty.
The dutiful son has a peaceful face, and it is natural to be filial when he is filial; Dear you, you don't know filial piety, and you regret it when you die.
Filial piety is not in the table, and filial piety is not good; The dutiful son makes the whole family happy, and the dutiful son manages the country and keeps the country safe.
The harvest of all crops is due to filial piety, and a filial piety is a peaceful year. Whether you can be filial, you can be rich if you are not poor. Kindness and love are sons and men.
Harmony between brothers is filial piety, and forbearance is filial piety; Filial piety is to see true filial piety from difficulties, and filial piety has face.
Parents are both righteous and filial, and filial piety is widowed; You are in a hurry to be filial, and time flies, so I will be filial every day.
Filial piety is filial piety before death, but it is futile after death; Filial piety is a treasure, gentle and sweet.
Lambs kneel down to be filial, and crows feed back their filial piety; If you don't know filial piety, you are not as pitiful as a bird.
Filial piety is the first, and filial piety is the root; It is also filial piety to read Buddha and do good deeds. Filial piety lasts for more than nine days.
Great filial piety is almost great filial piety, and there is no end to filial piety; Every sentence in this article is inseparable from filial piety, and the relationship between filial piety is upside down.
Read a thousand filial piety ten times and a hundred times; Read thousands of articles often to avoid disaster. ...
Parents are filial when they are alive, and have no regrets afterwards.
Hello! Children should be raised, not kissed, which is a famous saying, that is, filial piety should be done in time when parents are alive, and there will be no regrets in the future. Keep the children, don't go near them. Keep the children, don't go near them. Keep the children, don't go near them.
The meaning of "filial piety"
Interpretation of filial piety
Understanding, pictophonetic interpretation: the word "filial piety" in bronze inscriptions is the inheritance of the old form. Xiao Zhuan's filial piety, from the old part, is to follow his son, which means that his back is to his parents, which means that his son can inherit his relatives and obey his own will. So its original intention is to be kind to parents, which is called filial piety.
It means:
1. Being kind to parents is filial piety. Such as "filial piety, open the door to see righteousness", "filial piety is the foundation of virtue."
2. People who are kind to their parents are filial. For example, Ji of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty and Advocating Honesty and Filial Piety.
3. Mourning is mourning. Such as filial piety, filial piety.
4. Support, filial piety, filial piety. For example, in the Book of Rites, filial piety is more important than family ties.
5. Serve the funeral of parents and grandparents. Such as filial piety, filial piety
6. Being able to follow the wishes of our ancestors. Such as "The Doctrine of the Mean", "Those who are filial to their husbands are good at following others' aspirations and saying well. "
People's business is also.
"Filial piety" means that the previous generation is an old man and the next generation is a son. It is the fusion of the previous generation and the next generation, which is called filial piety.
Children inherit their parents' blood and family precepts, and their bodies are parents' doppelgangers. Unfortunate parents lose their roots. Therefore, as the old saying goes, "Filial piety is a matter of course".
The Book of Songs wrote: "Father gave birth to me! Sister Xi bows to me! Spoil me, support me, nurture me; Take care of me, answer me, get in and out of my abdomen. If you want to repay kindness, you will be extremely confused! 」。
Therefore, as children, we all need to know how to be filial.
Filial piety says: "Parents have physical problems and dare not harm them, so filial piety begins." . Therefore, as children, if we want to be filial, we must first take care of ourselves and don't let our parents worry about our physical injuries; More importantly, we should remember the warning that "moral harm brings shame to parents". In their own character, we should be strict with ourselves, do not do anything unkind, unfair, dishonest and impolite, and behave well and strive for progress. Don't let parents worry, be ashamed of us. This is the first step of filial piety.
A person's filial piety is inseparable from respect. Confucius said, "All dogs and horses can be raised. What's the difference between disrespect?" Filial piety to adoptive parents has no certain form, but it is all heartfelt love. Think about ourselves. Have we listened respectfully to our parents' teachings since childhood?
When I was a child, my parents left me the best food; Now, the best food, remember to invite parents to eat first?
Is the best room at home for parents? Do they often care about food, clothing, housing and transportation?
Did you try your best to do what your parents told you?
When parents are sick, can you try your best to serve them and try your best to reduce their pain?
How long has it been since you traveled abroad, didn't greet your family and didn't go back to visit?
Furthermore, if filial piety can be extended to all teachers and relatives; If we can still make efforts and contributions in the street, so that parents can rest assured that their life's hard work has not been in vain, this is what the ancients called "taking care of the lintel" and "filial piety" will be more complete.
"Filial piety is the foundation of a hundred lines, and goodness is also in the beginning. Filial piety, regardless of age, wealth, is feasible for everyone. May we remember these words. Seize the opportunity of filial piety in time, and don't wait for the grief that "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop, and the child wants to raise it without waiting for his relatives". It's too late to regret it.
The meaning of all virtues of filial piety first.
The filial piety of all virtues is often filial piety, so those who can't do it in the world can't bear to do it, so filial piety ranks first among the hundred lines.
From "Night Talk Around the Furnace" (Qing) Wang Yongbin
Filial piety of all virtues is the first and the root of all evils. If you are always filial, you can't bear to do what you can't do in the world, so filial piety is the first of a hundred lines; It's not hard for people who want to do evil thoughts together.
Filial piety is an act advocated by China cultural tradition, which means that children's behavior should not go against the wishes of parents, elders and ancestors, and it is a manifestation of a stable ethical relationship. The so-called "filial piety comes first" shows that the Chinese nation attaches great importance to filial piety.
Filial piety is generally manifested as filial piety and filial piety. Filial piety refers to affirming parents' authority in order to repay their parents' upbringing, so as to obey their instructions and orders and act according to their wishes.
Ancient records
The Confucian Book of Filial Piety makes it very clear at the beginning: "Parents dare not damage their bodies and skins, so filial piety begins;" Standing on the street, making a name for yourself in later generations to show your parents, is also the end of filial piety. Filial piety begins with relatives, ends with kings, and ends with bodies. "This shows that the concept of filial piety in China culture is not only filial piety to parents, but also the beginning. Chapter 15 of the Book of Filial Piety: "If you are unjust, the son cannot be with the father, and the minister cannot be with the king. Therefore, how can we be filial in an unjust dispute from the father's order? "Guang Zhi Zhang De XIII": "Teach filial piety, so respect the world as the father; Teach to teach, so respect the world as a brother; Teach me to be a minister, so I respect people who are kings in the world. In The Analects of Confucius, Xia Zi asked Confucius what filial piety was. Confucius said: It is the hardest thing for the younger generation to keep respectful and cheerful. Confucius said: color is difficult). The Analects of Confucius has the word "filial piety" in chapter 14. Among them, what Confucius said is related to the definition of filial piety, * * * has five chapters.
The Taoist view of filial piety in Zhuangzi Tian Yun: "Respecting filial piety is easy, but loving filial piety is difficult; It is easy to love filial piety, but difficult to forget one's relatives; It is easy to forget your loved ones, but difficult to forget them; It is easy to forget yourself, but difficult to forget the world; It is easy to forget the world at the same time, so it is difficult to forget the world at the same time. 」
India and other Asian regions have similar ethical concepts. In addition, filial piety can also be extended to respect and obedience to elders, such as filial piety to daughters-in-law, filial piety to elders and relatives (such as aunts, uncles, aunts, etc.). ).
Meng Wenxiao. Confucius said: No violation. Fan Chi told me, "Sun Meng asked me about filial piety, and I said," There is no violation. Fan Chi said: What is it? Confucius said: the things in life are courtesy; Death, ritual burial, ritual sacrifice. Meng asked about filial piety. Confucius said: Parents only worry about their illness. Ziyou asks filial piety. Confucius said: filial piety today means that it can be raised. As for dogs and horses, both can be kept; Disrespect, why not? Ask xiaoxia. Confucius said: color is difficult. If something happens, the disciple will handle it; There is wine and food, sir; Is it filial piety?
Four chapters of politics
Meng Wenxiao. Confucius said: No violation. Fan Chi told me, "Sun Meng asked me about filial piety, and I said," There is no violation. Fan Chi said: What is it? Confucius said: people are born and do things with courtesy; When you die, you should be buried with ceremony and sacrificed with ceremony (Meng asked Confucius what filial piety was. Confucius said: You can't violate it. Later, when Fan Chi was driving for Confucius, Confucius told him about it and said, "Sun Meng asked me what filial piety is. I answered him: don't violate it. Fan Chi asked: What does this mean? Confucius said: when parents are alive, they should serve according to etiquette; When they die, they will be buried and sacrificed according to the ceremony.
According to Confucius' own interpretation, "non-violation" in this chapter should mean non-violation of etiquette.
As for why Confucius used two paragraphs to explain it, it did not violate it. Some scholars believe that Meng Nuoxian, Meng's father, is polite, so Confucius can be considered filial as long as he does not violate his father's will. But the general father's words and deeds are not consistent with etiquette. At this time, children should not be filial to their fathers, but should be filial to their courtesy.
Meng asked about filial piety. Confucius said: Parents only care about their own illness (Meng asked Confucius what filial piety is. Confucius said: Let parents worry only about their children's illness.
There are three interpretations of this chapter as follows: 1. Parents are only worried about their children's illness, so they must try their best to do everything well; 2. Parents only worry about their children's illness, and children should take care of themselves; Children should only worry about their parents' illness, and don't worry too much about others, otherwise they will make their parents uneasy.
The implication of this chapter is that diseases are beyond people's control, and people have strong control in other aspects, so children must try their best to behave well in other aspects, so that parents will not worry about their children because of things other than diseases.
From this point of view, the authenticity of Confucius. ......