Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng were a rare pair of gifted scholars and beautiful women in ancient times. It is said that Li Qingzhao became famous in the boudoir, which attracted her former student Zhao Mingcheng to dream of lovesickness. According to the Biography quoted in The Tale of Lang Niang, when Zhao Mingcheng was a child, he dreamed one day and recited a poem in his dream. After waking up, I only remember three sentences: "The words are in harmony with the company, and the safety has been taken off." I asked my father for advice doubtfully. His father smiled: "My son wants to be a literate woman." Ming cheng is puzzled. His father said, "the word' peace' is a word, which fell off the device. It is a word' female' and' magistrate grass dam' is a word' husband'. Together, it is' the husband of the word woman'. Although it is a legend, it also shows that Li Qingzhao was so angry that Zhao and his son admired the poetess at that time. With the identity, background and talent of the two families, marriage is inevitable.
In this way, when Li Qingzhao was eighteen, she married Zhao Mingcheng, a former student. Zhao Mingcheng is the son of the Prime Minister. He loves epigraphy research and has a high cultural accomplishment. Unlike those love stories we are familiar with, their love is the kind of sweetness that can only be enjoyed after all kinds of difficulties and obstacles until death. Zhao Mingcheng is a charming teenager, and they are literary confidants, and they are congenial. Zhao Mingcheng's father is also an official, and the two families are suitable. What is even more rare is that apart from the elegance of poetry, chess, calligraphy and painting of ordinary literati, they also have a more congenial professional combination point-epigraphy research. In the feudal era when free love was not allowed, they could only rely on the words of matchmakers and the wishes of their parents. It is a godsend that they can have such a one-in-a-million love ending. Please look at this song "Minus Magnolia":
When you sell flowers, you can buy a spring flower. Tears are lightly dyed evenly, and rosy clouds are exposed. Afraid lang guessed that a slave's face was not as good as a flower's. Yun 'an is inclined, and disciple teaches Lang Bi.
This is the sweetness of marriage and the coquetry of her husband. It can be said that Li Zhao's love is a typical love of Yuanyang Butterfly School.
Because both of them like literature, history and poetry books, they often sing poems and learn from each other, which makes their family life full of laughter and fun. They often play some games to enhance their memory and broaden their knowledge. Among them, the game of "ordering tea" is the most famous.
In order to write Jin Shilu, she and Zhao Mingcheng returned to Qingzhou (now Yidu County, Shandong Province) and lived there. In the process of studying and writing, Li Qingzhao was quite conceited about her memorization and erudition, so she had a whim and conducted a tea ceremony to test the other party's knowledge of classics and allusions. The winner can have a cup of tea first, and the loser can have tea later, which is very different from the trip to Jiuling.
After every meal, they all sit in the cloister and make tea. Then one person points to a pile of books and asks another person to tell which volume, page or even line an allusion comes from, so as to decide the winner, who will have tea first. In the tea ceremony, Li Qingzhao always wins. After winning once, she raised her glass and laughed. As a result, she got carried away. She knocked over a cup of tea in her arms with joy. Not only did she not drink, but she also got into trouble with the dress.
Drinking tea is exciting, enlightening and helpful to students and beneficial to writing books. Zhao Mingcheng finally wrote China's first archaeological monograph, Jin Shilu, and became a famous figure in the archaeological history. In this book, the couple's hard work for 20 years has been condensed, and it is a precious legacy that she dedicated to the treasure house of China literature.
There is also an anecdote about this couple. It is said that when Zhao Mingcheng was in college, he could only ask for leave every month. Although she is in Bian City, Li Qingzhao still feels that meeting once every two months is an annual Chinese Valentine's Day.
It was Shangyuan Festival, which happened to be the day when Zhao Mingcheng went home. Just as Zhao Mingcheng was seated in the study, the servant girl came to report that there was a young man in the university who asked for an audience. When my son walked into the study, he saw that he was wearing an embroidered Confucian towel, a lake cotton robe and foundation satin boots, with fine eyes and graceful demeanor. Zhao Mingcheng hurriedly sat up and questioned his name. The scholar looked natural and unrestrained, bowed and replied, "My brother and I have always been classmates. It's been half a month. Why is my brother so forgetful? " Zhao Mingcheng came back, smiling, and grabbed the woman disguised as a man's wife. After lunch, Li Qingzhao, a menswear woman, took the maid and followed Zhao Mingcheng through the streets to Suoguo Temple in the city center. After swimming through Dasuoguo Temple, he stung into a snack bar outside the kitchen. Zhao Mingcheng picked some snacks that people in the street often eat but Li Qingzhao had never seen before, let Li Qingzhao taste a little, and then bought some playthings like small clay figurines to put on the burden of wandering artists. Li Qingzhao, who was born well, took to the streets for the first time. Naturally, she is particularly novel and happy. This story is purely a living plot written by some of our romantic novelists. It seems that the romance of the ancients really happened.
However, Li Zhao's love is not without hardships. They lived in the late Northern Song Dynasty. Anyone who is familiar with that era knows that when foreign enemies invade, the country will not be protected, and the home will be just as peaceful. The moon is full of rain and shine, and people have joys and sorrows. In troubled times, Li Qingzhao's life has experienced unforgettable pains, that is, family breakdown, husband's death, suffering and torment.
1 107 In March, Zhao Mingcheng's father, who served as prime minister in the imperial court, died suddenly. At this time, the treacherous Prime Minister Cai Jing secretly murdered and slandered Zhao Mingcheng's father for disloyalty to the royal family. The fatuous Hui Zong listened to the slanderers and immediately resumed all kinds of gifts and titles he gave to Zhao Mingcheng's father. Zhao Mingcheng's three brothers were all dismissed because of their "father's love".
Under the pressure of Cai Jing, Zhao Mingcheng and Li Qingzhao had to return to their hometown Qingzhou. Due to the feud in officialdom, Li Qingzhao suffered this misfortune. Zhao Mingcheng was deeply disturbed. One day, he said, "It seems that my husband and wife will live here forever."
Li Qingzhao smiled and said, "Do you think I am a person who envies wealth? I didn't! Our life is a bit bitter, but there is also sweetness in it. We should be like osmanthus: quietly hiding in the green leaves, dim and willing to be lonely. From now on, we should work harder to sort out ancient books, study epigraphy and write poems to comfort our lives.
Zhao Mingcheng nodded thoughtfully. After a while, he sighed: "No official, no salary, no empty meals. Even if your tea quality is worse, it will be difficult to maintain for a long time, and it is even more difficult to collect calligraphy and painting inscriptions. " Li Qingzhao said: "Financial resources are exhausted, and everything should be frugal. I think, from today on, we can eat less meat; You can subtract expensive silk from the clothes you wear. I can get rid of jadeite, pearls, gold hair pins, silver hair pins and so on. Our gold-plated utensils, expensive furnishings and embroidery can also be sold as pawns. In short, in addition to inscriptions, calligraphy and painting, there are hundreds of books that can be sold. "
Zhao Mingcheng was deeply moved after hearing this: "My good wife said exactly what I wanted. It's hard to walk with Cui. It feels like brothers. A thousand dollars is really hard to buy. Friends in the world, just you and me. " It typically shows the distress of husband and wife, and also shows that they really know each other and love each other.
Love and marriage are the most important parts of life. Li Qingzhao went from teenager to youth, from parents' warm wings to Zhao Mingcheng, a bosom friend. Although they know each other and love each other, their love and marriage are also full of anxiety of expectation, sparks of collision, warmth and sadness in troubled times. So later generations infer some love contradictions between them from a few words.
Zhao and Song fled south in A.D. 1 127, which started a page of national humiliation in the history of China. Li Qingzhao's love nest in Qingzhou, Shandong Province also fell apart. A few years later, Zhao Mingcheng moved to Huzhou to take office. Qingzhou was plundered, and Li Qingzhao left her hometown with cultural relics to see her husband. Zhao Mingcheng was framed and died in a foreign land ... Li Qingzhao wronged her husband, hired a boat to carry things, chased them to the court and arrived in Wuzhou. All the antiques were cheated. ...
The country is ruined, her husband is ruined, and Li Qingzhao is in pain and suffering ... It seems that since ancient times, it is always so difficult to have a perfect white-headed love. Nevertheless, we still yearn for Li Zhaoduo's love legend.
Perhaps, parting is inseparable. The deeper you love, the more you think, which is an inevitable feature of love. Finally, let's chew on their love legend and listen to this song sung through the ages to end this article. Even if we are separated, we can finally untie Luo Shang and go to Lanzhou alone. Who sent the brocade book, the word geese returned, and the moon was full of the West Building. Flowers from Shui Piao to water, one kind of lovesickness, two places of leisure. There is no way to eliminate this situation, only frown and mind.
It is often said that love stories that end in tragedy are often more exciting. However, no one wants such a love tragedy to be staged on themselves. Therefore, while cherishing the love stories of the ancients, we should not forget to cherish the close lovers around us. After all, it is not easy to do "I love you".
The first romantic encounter between Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng;
This year, Li Qingzhao was seventeen years old and had been in Bianjing for two years. Li, her father, is not ignorant of her thoughts, but he just thought about it and didn't know what to do. The daughter's mind is tied to a certain moment when he is unconscious, and must be untied at another moment when he will not know. Li knows that his daughter and the man on the other side of time are just fate and lack of energy. Loneliness takes longer. It is easy to ask for priceless treasures, but it is rare to have a heart.
If a woman is too hard on herself, she will either blossom or fall into the illusion created by herself. Li Qingzhao is such a woman who is harsh on love and life. But this does not mean that such a woman has the ability to recognize the essence of a man. She knows that a man who wants to love needs too many qualities: brilliant, handsome, chivalrous and tender, upright and upright. After she met Zhao Mingcheng, she must think so about him. But that's just her idea.
She reminds me of Zhang Ailing. Zhao Mingcheng is to Li Qingzhao what Hu Lancheng is to Zhang Ailing. The difference is that Zhao Mingcheng gave Li Qingzhao much more than Hu Lancheng gave Zhang Ailing. However, in the end, they just regarded them as the person in their own illusion, so as to complete a self-deception. And this matter, Zhang Ailing has not done well, but Li Qingzhao has done very well.
Loneliness brings more fear than disappointment in love. Failure in love has nothing to do with love itself. Sometimes love has nothing to do with love. Loneliness is an abyss. Before breaking into pieces, the disappointment of love is so unwilling to be considered. This is a matter of incompatibility in itself. We can't refuse love for fear of injury.
Li Qingzhao is generally lucky. Although Zhao Mingcheng kept a concubine and became a singer when he was in Laizhou, he was indifferent to Li Qingzhao, but in the end, these rugged roads were insignificant in front of Zhao Mingcheng and Li Qingzhao's decades of time and energy. We should love love itself. So, everything is fine. Seventeen-year-old Li Qingzhao waited for Zhao Mingcheng with longing, regardless, as if to attend a blissful ceremony.
Here, it reminds me of Li Qingzhao, who lived a lonely life in exile during the period after Zhao Mingcheng's death. At this time, Li Qingzhao certainly didn't forget this pure and frank heart waiting in the boudoir at the moment, the girl's heart. Here, on the other side, the two sides reflect each other. It seems to have infiltrated the life of this graceful woman.
Wen Wen Qing mei
Swing on the swing, too lazy to rub delicate hands.
Beside her, the thin Germany hung with crystal dew, and the sweat on her chest permeated with the thin silk robe.
Seeing someone coming, socks and golden retriever slipped away.
She ran away shyly and leaned against the door, smelling the fragrance of plum flowers.
-Li Qingzhao's Little Crimson Lips
On this day, there was plenty of sunshine. She was swinging on the swing in the yard alone, playing games alone, and could not detect the palm print at all. Hours passed in the blink of an eye. She heard some voices in a trance, warm and sincere, as if from the other end of her heart. She was taken aback. Because that voice reached her ears in an unconscious moment, but it could warm her heart. So, she tripped on the swing and got up to look for the sound. Sweat seeped through Luo's thin clothes. Outside, it is thick and thin, but inside, it is silent and warm.
Unexpectedly, someone came, and she left her golden hairpin in a hurry, showing a timid attitude. This is a girl's natural reserve, which will be reflected all the time. Some are seduced deliberately, and some are naturally shy. Either way, you need feelings and rich feelings as induction. But there was a torrent in her heart, and she went back to steal the boy's Shen Feng. Under the silent appearance of leaning against the door and smelling plum blossoms, it is a torrent.
I have always believed in fate. There is fate between people. Men, women, the couple. He may not be the first person to appear, but he must have happened to appear. Your energy is just right, his magnetic field is just right, and your vibration is just right. So, this is it. It fits perfectly. But it was very difficult, very difficult, but it was met by Li Qingzhao. Time is good for her.
About the fate of these two people, of course, you can write a big book about love and life. The numerology of the two is extremely clear in this relationship. At that time, Li Qingzhao enjoyed a high reputation, and her excellent works were widely circulated among scholars. Zhao Mingcheng, who was a student at that time, naturally heard about Li Qingzhao's talent. Time is a good medium, and that word is profound and elegant. The so-called "writing is like a person", Zhao Mingcheng unconsciously impressed this talented and gentle little girl into her heart.
Later, Zhao Mingcheng understood one thing, that is, he confirmed his love for Li Qingzhao, simple and clear, without hesitation. Zhao Mingcheng's admiration for Li Qingzhao at that time has been fully revealed in the records of the ancients. In the Yuan Dynasty, Yi Shizhen wrote a story about Zhao Mingcheng in Tian Shu Kuku, which was euphemistically called "The Dream of a Magistrate".
When Zhao Mingcheng was young, his father would choose a wife. Ming Cheng slept during the day and dreamed of reciting a book. He only remembered three sentences, saying, "The word is harmonious, the security has been removed, and the grass has been pulled out." Tell father, father said: "you can write words and women, words and companionship are words." Ann has taken off the word female, and she is a husband. " I'm not saying that you are the husband of a ci girl. "
This is a dose of lies. His, about her. Ours, about ideas. It's all love Zhao Mingcheng did it. He makes lies more touching than legends. Even, he turned it into an unchanging lamp, which made this place still feel romantic and warm.
Although the truth of the story cannot be verified, it will not be groundless. The reason why it is circulated naturally has its reasons, and it must have its origins. Here, Zhao Mingcheng's admiration for Li Qingzhao has been obvious. It is precisely because of this that Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng met for the first time. Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifetime blessing, and the brilliance it brings is enough to illuminate the long and longing for the rest of my life. They all became the darling of time at this moment.
People in China have been talking about it since ancient times, and the idea of matching is still flourishing. It's just that the meaning of this collocation is no longer simply "suitable for each other".
Zhao Mingcheng's father, Tingzhi Zhao, was an assistant minister of the official department at that time, and was an official department minister. Due to his outstanding political talent, Tingzhi Zhao has made outstanding achievements in local official positions, and his official position has been rapidly promoted. And Li Qingzhao's father, Li, was in the official residence at this time, and served as the foreign minister of the Ministry of Justice in the court, giving advice to JD.COM. COM prison. Although Li is not as high as his official position, he is also an important position in the imperial court. Therefore, regardless of the beginning of the struggle between the old and new parties, the two parties have long been regarded as "suitable for each other."
More importantly, Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng are like-minded, and their talents are matched. Although Zhao Mingcheng was the third son of Tingzhi Zhao, a great official of the dynasty, he was not an uneducated dude. He was brilliant and liked to search for and collect inscriptions, cultural relics, calligraphy and painting of the previous dynasty. After Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng got married, the couple devoted themselves to the collection of inscriptions and cultural relics, calligraphy and painting. This has become the most solemn thing in the married life of husband and wife, just like an endless grand ceremony.
Although the saying that "the door is right for the household" cannot be frankly acknowledged by the world, we can never deny the necessity of a deeper "door is right for the household". Although the affection in different places always wins the favor of the world, it is an indisputable fact that it is rare, accidental and unrepresentative.
"Some emotions you don't understand. Sometimes after five minutes, the mood is completely different. There are many things in life. If you miss an hour, you may miss your whole life. That's what I did at that time. I didn't understand anything. After so many years, I realized that just like today, you live in this hotel, which is exactly where I serve. If you don't order coffee, or the head waiter doesn't ask me to deliver it, or you don't call me when I turn around, we can't meet again. This is life. "
This is what Lin Qingxuan said. I always thought this was a man with no dust on him. It seems that he can always stand in a clean and transparent space and suddenly realize the deepest but simplest truth of life, which has given me too much inspiration. So at this point, I remembered this passage. Just like the first meeting between Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng, it seems to be fate.
If people are still willing to think after death, I am afraid they have to answer Nalan Xingde's sentence, "If life is just like first sight".
Worry a thousand times
Lonely boudoir, one inch sad and tender.
Cherish the spring to go, when to rush the rain.
Leaning against the pillar, I'm just not in the mood.
Where are people? Even it's getting dark, and the way home is broken.
-Li Qingzhao's Little Crimson Lips