After children go to school, they are weak and easy to bully. Grandpa made him read a class of books, and his personality changed greatly after half a year.
Li Jie is a strong woman in our unit, with excellent business and communication skills. No one who has met her does not admire her. She is resolute and generous, but her son, Xiao Qiang, has the opposite character. He is passive and indecisive about Nuo Nuo and Nuo Nuo. He is weak and often bullied by his classmates.
Li Jie and her husband are so busy at work on weekdays that they simply can't take time to take care of the children. They just hired a nanny to take care of their lives.
In fact, Xiaogang's character is not born this way, but because of the influence of his family background, he has no parents to accompany him for a long time, which leads to his lack of security. He is hesitant to do anything, because without the guidance of his parents, he doesn't know if he has done it right.
Once I was bullied or even beaten by a senior boy, I went directly to the hospital and dropped out of school for a while before I recovered. From this time on, Sister Li realized that there was too little time to spend with her children, which caused such a situation today. How can she have both work and children? This reminds me of my father-in-law who lives in the country-Lao Li.
Lao Li, the teaching director of rural central primary school, just retired last year, which brought him to the city to help take care of Xiao Qiang. In addition, Lao Li is a teacher himself, and he is very handy in educating children. He took him over immediately.
I thought Lao Li would take Xiao Qiang out to make friends and guide him to become cheerful and talkative. Unexpectedly, Xiao Qiang, who used to play with toys at home, has recently started reading books, all of which are books on the art of war.
Xiao Qiang's favorite set of books is Thirty-six Plans. In order to enrich his knowledge, Lao Li also found a lot of information, and sometimes he took Xiao Qiang to watch the TV series Romance of the Three Kingdoms. Sister Li thinks that letting children read these books so early is taking up their study time, and the children will not understand the contents. Don't be a nerd when watching them!
Moreover, how can reading alone make children tough? If you look at it this way, your personality will definitely be more withdrawn and cowardly.
But it's only been half a year, and the result is unexpected!
Great changes have taken place in Xiao Qiang's personality. His eyes became firmer than before, he walked on his high horse, full of self-confidence, and his personality gradually became cheerful, and he was cheerful every day. The person who bullied him before never bothered him again, but became friends. Besides, I have become good friends with many classmates. In the circle of friends, I vaguely feel that Xiao Qiang is the mainstream.
When Li Jie praised his father-in-law's cleverness, he said calmly that it is good for children to read more books on Sun Tzu's Art of War. There are many knowledge points in it, especially the book "Thirty-six Plans", which can bring the following benefits to children:
First, let children learn strategies.
This is one of the books that military strategists must read. The strategies inside can help children form clear ideas and won't be confused again. When their brains are exercised, they will be decisive and brave.
Since Xiao Qiang has read this book, he knows how to think when encountering problems, and makes good use of strategies, such as diversion and self-help. Every time, he can get out of trouble. Slowly, the naughty children also think that Xiao Qiang is very strong, so naturally they dare not provoke him.
Second, improve leadership temperament.
Wherever you go, you can't live without human feelings. Learning to deal with all kinds of people is an important course in life. If you are familiar with this book from an early age and lay a foundation for the future, you will be like a duck to water outside the society.
The chapters of "playing hard to get" and "opposing customers" in this book can help children learn to turn passivity into initiative, make good use of the resources at hand, and make all the "east winds" work for them. Xiao Qiang was able to make many friends because he was familiar with these chapters and learned how to grasp the relationship and become a king.
Bad guys always pick soft persimmons. If a person always has many friends around him, how can others bully him?
Third, help improve China's performance.
Being familiar with this book means reading the ancient history of China, which can lay a solid foundation for studying Chinese and history in the future. Every chapter has new idioms, and idioms are also the key part of Chinese exam. Xiao Qiang has made rapid progress in Chinese because he is familiar with this book.
There are many benefits for children to read this book. High-end universities at home and abroad, such as the United States Military Academy at West Point, China National Defense University, and Cambridge University, have listed this book as a must-read for students. However, in order to help children understand the content, the original classical Chinese has been changed into a cartoon version, which is convenient for children to read and deepen their memory according to cartoons.
This set of books can be read not only by boys but also by girls. A parent is worried that her daughter won't like this kind of book about the art of war. Unexpectedly, every day, children consciously look at it and urge parents to buy more.
The parent also said that after reading this book, the girl who used to be silly has become energetic and energetic, and she is often supported by her wit when playing with children of the same age.
And logical thinking has also been greatly improved. Before describing my inner thoughts and what happened, I always say that I can't get to the point for a long time. Now I can say one thing in a few words. When writing a composition, the summary part is clear and clear, and I can always get high marks.
More importantly, I am especially glad that I am not so impetuous. No matter what I have done before, Mao Mao is very irritable. After reading the book, the whole person was quiet. Every time I read it, I was dragged to discuss the strategies inside and learned to draw inferences from others. I felt very gratified.
The exquisite illustrations inside are very attractive to children, and the content is concise and clear, and the more children look at it, the more they want to see it. At the same time, it is equipped with a stereo, which can tell stories to children anytime and anywhere, and can also be played to children before going to bed.
This set of books is very suitable for children aged 3- 12. If your child is at this age, you might as well buy one. Reading stories often can stimulate children's imagination and curiosity, and let them know how to think independently, which will greatly improve their business and intelligence. In these strategic stories, children's overall thinking has also been improved.
Parents can also watch it together. A lot of content is very interesting. Reading with children after school can not only broaden our thinking, but also cultivate parent-child feelings.
The price of the whole set of books is close to the people, as long as 39.8 yuan. A few meals can buy wisdom to help children improve their strategies. It can be said that it is quite cost-effective. The book is divided into three volumes, rich in content.
When a child understands the mystery, his heart becomes stronger and his appearance is no longer weak, which can help him build up his self-confidence and avoid being bullied in his future life and work.