Furthermore, the core of mutual attraction between men and women lies in the word "hazy", so I want to make it clear because I don't understand it. If women with "stories" have experienced too much, they have already lost their desire and interest in understanding men, while men are still passionately attached to their emotions, and the double-reed drama has become a stand-up comedy, which is the most boring.
Then the problem is coming. Generally speaking, what are the characteristics of women with many stories?
In fact, this problem still has a certain theoretical summary. A woman with many "stories" does have some typical characteristics. To sum up, she often has the following three characteristics, which are naturally manifested. No matter how simple a woman pretends, she can't hide her true self behind her.
First, a high degree of distrust of men, she is always full of negative comments on men.
A woman with many "stories" shows that she has rich experience, but behind her are failures again and again. Many failures made her numb. The most direct manifestation of these women's numb hearts is their high distrust of men. Even if a man treats it wholeheartedly, he may not be able to win her trust 100%.
In her mouth, she always said, "All men are the same. They treat you well at first, hold you in their hands, and when they get it, they start to give up at sixes and sevens." This seemingly incisive summary shows that it is impossible for her to say such a thing without too much experience.
And this kind of words, in turn, will seriously hurt the man in front of him. Maybe men really want to spoil her as a princess instead of forever, but this cold talk that sees through the world of mortals has greatly dampened men's enthusiasm.
Men may have different feelings for her. Some people really love her, others are hypocritical, but she always has the same negative evaluation of different men, and always thinks that all men in the world are the same. Abundance and repeated failures have made this woman form a negative view of men, and it is difficult for any man to gain her trust.
Second, no amount of surprises can impress her, because these actions are not new to her.
Women like surprises and feelings. In order to cater to women's psychology, many men with high emotional intelligence will buy gifts for women unexpectedly, or take them to a romantic candlelight dinner and so on. If it is a young woman, she will be very excited and moved, which is the normal reaction of most women.
But for a woman with much experience, these scenes are no longer so fresh and moving for her. She not only knows that this is a routine planned by men, but also thinks that these actions of men are too naive and vulgar.
Therefore, if a man finds that some of his carefully planned activities have no effect on women, especially when women see these scenes, but their hearts are calm and wave-free, then he can safely and boldly suspect that the woman in front of him is not new, and she has experienced more such occasions than you think.
What's more, a woman with many "stories" has experienced so many similar occasions before, but she finally broke up. These scenes have actually left an indelible shadow in her heart. The scenes that these men think will produce surprises will evoke sad memories in her heart. Therefore, it is really difficult for a woman with a "story" to stir up ripples in her heart.
Third, she knows more about men than men know about themselves.
In heterosexual communication, we get to know each other out of curiosity, expecting that a woman with a "story" can get to know a man well even if she doesn't have too much contact with him, and once she has a seemingly superficial understanding, she can already get to know a man thoroughly.
At this time, men should never mistake it for meeting intimate friends, and don't meet and hate each other for a long time. This seemingly destiny takes a hand woman may have experienced too many men before. In the process of dealing with different types of men, she gradually accumulated the understanding of different types of men and learned the skills and methods of how to get along with different types of men.
It is no exaggeration to say that this kind of woman with a "story" sometimes knows more about men and herself than men. If she has not experienced too much and the stories are rich and colorful, it is difficult for her to understand and control a man so accurately.
Therefore, when a man sees such a difficult "confidant", he must first control his joy and excitement. What she knows about you is just a summary of what she knows about many men. Only by knowing enough men, can he extract men's sexuality, so that she can target men.