According to an interview with Yu in a CCTV program, said? When he was in college, Xu was his idol and Wang was his monitor. After graduation, when Yu was depressed, he also wrote to Wang for guidance and wrote a long letter of more than ten pages to admonish Yu. So I think I have always been Wang's younger brother. ?
Later, when New Oriental grew bigger, Xu and Wang had many ideas. In addition, they always think that they are a hundred times smarter than Yu, who is a native turtle, so they often blame Yu.
According to Yu himself, in order to be loyal, he once simply gave up the position of the boss, let Wang sit in the position of the boss, and go to class with a book like an ordinary teacher. As a result, it turns out that Xu He is not the boss, or only please come back to Yu as the boss.
In a sense, Liu Bang is like Yu Hongmin. Compared with Sean, Xiao He, Cao Can and others, he was just a terrapin at first, but in the end, these cattle people were all willing to be Liu Bang's younger brother. Why is this happening?
The answer is actually very simple, that is, Liu Bang can control many people who are better than himself, mainly because Liu Bang is better than these people, and he has the ability and strength to be the boss. Just like Yu, it shows that it looks rustic, but people's ability to establish and manage New Oriental is obviously higher than that of He.
In other words, although these people under Liu Bang have their own strengths and abilities, their comprehensive abilities, especially their independence, are obviously better than Liu Bang's. Of course, many people may not think so, because in history books, Liu Bang's ability and image are not very good.
For example, in historical records, there are many such as? Liu Bang's good wine is lewd? 、? Liu talks more and does less? Such comments; Even in historical records, Xiao He, Cao Can and others were initially willing to surrender to Liu Bang just because? Xiao, Cao, etc. They are all educated officials who love themselves and are afraid of things. After the Qin dynasty, this race was their home, so let Liu Ji? .
In other words, Xiao He, Cao Can and others are willing to make Liu Bang a leader in Peixian County's resistance to Qin Yijun, not because they believe in Liu Bang, but because they are timid and afraid that being the boss will harm their families. In other words, they just want Liu Bang to take risks, and it is not Liu Bang's ability and charm that convince them.
The problem is, if Xiao He, Cao Can and others really only let Liu Bang be the boss for this reason, then Liu Bang, the boss, is arguably just a puppet; Even if it is not a puppet, it cannot really control Xiao He, Cao Can, Sean and Han Xin.
Some people say that Liu Bang can control many people who are better than himself, mainly because Liu Bang knows how to make good use of people. The question is, if everyone else is better than Liu Bang, what's the use of Liu Bang knowing how to make good use of people? Because why should others listen to him? Why wait for Liu Bang to use him?
You know, Liu Bang lives in a standard troubled times, his position, qualifications, wealth, pedigree and so on. None of it worked. The only hard currency is ability and strength. In other words, if you don't have the ability and strength, you can be a younger brother to someone stronger than you, otherwise you will never have a good end.
For example, when Liu Bang went to war, Pei County was the highest ranking and most powerful person in the local area. Although he also supported the fight against Qin, he was soon beheaded. When Xiang Liang rose, Huiji County Wei was the highest-ranking local person. Although he also supported the uprising against Qin, he invited his younger brother Xiang Liang to join him, but he was beheaded by Xiang Liang at that time.
For another example, after the Chen Sheng Uprising, his generals Chen Wu, Ying Ge and Zhou Shi were the first awesome figures, and they were all trusted by Chen Sheng. So Chen Sheng sent Ying Ge to attack the city. As a result, Ying Ge went out for a few days and fell into the arms of others. Chen Sheng sent Zhou to Wei, and as a result, he soon gained a foothold in Wei. Chen Sheng sent Chen Wu to Zhao, and Chen Wu came to Zhao to declare independence.
Later, Bobby Chen, Chen Wu, Ying Ge and Zhou Shi were all stabbed to death by their own people.
There is also Guangwu, who is as famous as Bobby Chen. He has always been the number two in Zhang Chu regime, a serious general. The problem is that Guangwu's younger brother Tian Cang doesn't believe it. In short, why is it just the boss and not himself? So he found an opportunity to directly execute Guangwu on the spot.
Also, Chu Huaiwang asked Yi Song to be Xiang Yu's eldest brother. Xiang Yu refused to accept Yi Song, so he went up and cut off Yi Song's head. In a word, you Song Yi want to be my big brother Xiang Yu. Why don't you ever ask me if I agree with the knife in my hand?
Even in the early days, Liu Bang wanted to be the eldest brother of Yong Chi, but Yong Chi thought that Liu Bang's ability and strength at that time were not enough to make him submit, so even though Liu Bang was ruthless to Yong Chi and made good use of Yong Chi, the second person in their group, Yong Chi did not hesitate to stab Liu Bang in the back.
In this sense, in troubled times, a person does not have enough ability and strength. If you want to be someone else's boss, it usually won't end well.
Therefore, if Liu Bang was not a more powerful figure than Xiao He and Cao Can, Liu Bang, the eldest brother, would have been replaced. He wants to control others by being broad-minded and making good use of their so-called excellent qualities. Dream on! In short, everything depends on ability and strength!
In other words, Liu Bang can control powerful people such as Xiao He and Cao Can, mainly because they think that following Liu Bang is more promising than going it alone or following other bosses. Even once they go it alone or follow other bosses, if they will be enemies of Liu Bang, they will definitely not be able to do so, so they will honestly follow Liu Bang and Liu Bang can control them. Aside from this reason, talking about other reasons is only superficial!