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Disciple rules, saint training.
Disciples' Rules comes from The Analects? Extracted from Xue Ji is an important part of Confucianism. The "training of saints" mentioned here can be said to be Kong Old Master Q in a narrow sense; Broadly speaking, we all know that all ancient sages and ancestors can be called admonitions as long as they have good examples, something to teach future generations and something worth learning from. Therefore, what we are talking about here is a range. The sage refers to the hole, the most holy teacher. Confucius taught us how to start with our family and ourselves.
The first filial brother. I trust you again.
First of all, the most important thing is to start with' filial piety'. As we all know, our bodies come from our parents. As the saying goes, "if the body grows skin, parents dare not damage it, and filial piety begins." Now that you have deeply understood that you are from your parents, you should be grateful. Only gratitude can give birth to this filial piety.
Let's look at the word "filial piety". Filial piety, from its origin, is an "old" word, but also a son's "son", which means that the son bears the parents and older parents. It tells us a meaning, passed down from generation to generation. If you want to pass it on from generation to generation, you must imitate your parents, take care of them, and be filial to them. Only by filial piety can we inherit parents' wishes and aspirations. We should also fulfill our parents' expectations, so as to pass them on from generation to generation. Instead of what we feel today, each generation is worse than the next. Generation after generation, generation after generation, generation after generation. We can pass it on from generation to generation, that is to say, we can accept the teaching of our parents, and we can pass on some moral education left by our parents, and we will pass it on.
"Brother" means "brother". The word "brother" here should be pronounced "Yong". In ancient Chinese, it is the same, that is, "forever" next to our hearts now. When we look at a "heart" and a "brother" of a younger brother, we know that a brother has a younger brother in his heart. What do you mean? Even brothers know how to take care of their own brothers. A brother should also love and respect his brother. So Zan means friendship.
"Friend", the ancient Chinese word is two hands folded together. As we all know, brothers and sisters are from their parents. In the eyes of his parents, all his brothers and sisters are the same, born by the same spirit, like a tree, connected with the same spirit. Children are like branches, parents are like trees, and the trunk of the tree itself. Therefore, children should not only be filial to their parents and elders, but also care for each other between brothers and sisters. Let's think about who is closest to us. In the family, there are brothers and sisters besides parents. Brothers and sisters don't kiss, who do they kiss?
Therefore, the sage told us that the most basic thing for people is to know filial piety first; Be filial, be filial. If you fully understand these two points, you can do it, and then we should know how to cultivate our self-cultivation. Cultivation is not very difficult. The so-called "self-cultivation" means to correct your own behavior and correct your wrong words and deeds. So the sage told us that we should be cautious about our life, our attitude, our behavior, our language and everything we do. To put it simply, you should be polite, know how to stop your wrong behavior, and understand that everything you do should be polite. What is a gift? It is in your heart that you should have a respectful heart.
We believe that in today's society where everyone refuses to obey anyone and everyone cries for freedom, people have such a wrong idea that freedom means doing whatever they want, which is why society is so chaotic and families are so disharmonious. There are only a few members in the family, and it is often impossible to get along with each other. Therefore, if the family is unhappy, how can it be stable in society? How can people get along without disputes? Therefore, if we know how to restrain ourselves, know how to be polite and know that everything is respected, we can achieve harmony in the world. Everyone can do this, there is no so-called social instability!
When your self-cultivation is completed, we will take the next step and the next step to further enhance the realm of life. At this time, we should cultivate love and compassion.
A person with universal love.
Mencius said that everyone has compassion. From the very beginning, Sanzijing said that "nature is good at the beginning of life". In other words, man, he has a completely good nature. Why are there bad people? It turned out that it was all caused by the acquired environment. So when we know how to restrain our words and deeds, we should go further to help and love all people. There is a saying that it is more blessed to give than to receive. When we have the ability, don't be stingy with our talents or what we have. If there is surplus, we should do good in time, and those who can do good are the happiest. Why? You not only get happiness, but also help more people. You can share this happiness. Why? Being able to save others and help others is the greatest pleasure in life. Therefore, there has been a saying that "doing good is the happiest" since ancient times; It also tells us what kind of love we should have. Without love, there is definitely no way to do good.
With such a mood and such an open mind, make persistent efforts. At this time, we must constantly improve our own realm, that is, we must find good teachers and have good knowledge.
And kindness.
As long as you can meet good knowledge, don't give up and learn from him. As we all know, a virtuous and cultured person can set an example for future generations in all his actions, words and deeds. So when we meet our mentor, don't lose it. We must cherish and learn. Nowadays, if we can't find a mentor, the sage classics can be said to be the best mentor to accompany us all our lives!
Yes, there is spare capacity. Then study literature.
You can do everything we should do and know. You can always notice what you mentioned above, and you can do it. There is still extra time, so we shouldn't let it go. We should cherish this time and enrich ourselves.
"Learning literature" has many meanings, and learning art literature is also a kind of learning literature. If you work professionally in society, you need to further improve. You need to study your field, your major, or your academic field and further strengthen and deepen it. If you are a retired person, we can also open ancient books. The ancient books of sages are presented to us, just like teachers, teaching us how to learn from sages. If we are housewives, we can also read ancient books or good classics after doing everything well at home, which can help us improve.
If we can improve the quality of life, life will be more meaningful, happier and more satisfied. If we have extra time, not for further study, but for electric toys or watching useless programs on TV, it will only pollute our body and mind. If our body and mind are polluted, we can't gain some valuable experience or wisdom left by many ancient people and sages in our life.
People are never too old to learn, and those who can learn are the happiest. Emperor Kangxi taught future generations. He mentioned that people should work hard, work hard, and be blessed. If people regard escape as enjoyment and happiness, and take escape as the focus of life, there will be disaster.
Therefore, we know that saints have taught us so much, and we should also think deeply. Are we idle every day? From Disciples' Rules, we know that the five essentials taught by the general program are worthy of reflection. We didn't read Disciples Rules before, and we didn't understand them. Now we have a chance to read that we should reform ourselves, and our fate will be very meaningful again.