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"Allow yourself to write the worst words in the world" is a sentence that American writer Natalie Goldberg said in her book "Sit down and write when you are upset". This sentence made me regain my confidence in writing. Think about it, too. Writing is a record and reflection on life, and it is a precious wealth. As long as you lower your standards, write bravely, allow yourself to write the worst words in the world and start writing my heart, you will stop.
Inspired by Zen, the author found a unique way of writing. She believes that writing, like practice, needs to learn and trust one's own heart, cherish and gain insight into the essence of life, and pursue one's true inner voice with a focused and open mind.
Many people are very resistant to writing, feel that there is nothing to write, and are afraid that their articles will be laughed at. In fact, just pick up the pen and write what you want to say, not what you should say. In this world, each of us is unique, and everyone's experience is also the most unique. As long as you write it, it will arouse everyone's inner feelings and help others.
In the past year, I always wrote wherever I wanted, without much skill and literary talent. I thought I was just talking to myself, but I often get messages from readers saying, Wow, you wrote my thoughts, or I like reading what you wrote. Every time I see these messages, I feel full of confidence and think, wow, someone will like me, too. Even some people have changed because of some of my views and practices, which is really touching.
It is a blessing in life to change yourself and drive others to change.
I hope you can also start recording your life, starting with a simple diary, recording your daily gains and feelings, or your sadness and misfortune. Looking back at these words after many years is the most precious information in your life.
Don't care whether your writing is good or not, don't care whether your language expression is beautiful or not. As Teacher Tang often says, don't care whether your writing is good or not, start writing first, and don't stop even if you make a mistake. Keep writing, finish it first, and then come back to revise it. In fact, if you care too much about the quality of your writing, you often can't finish one, let alone perfect it in the future.
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"Finish first, then perfect", this sentence really touched my heart, or when I was in the action camp, I heard it from a fierce cat. He has been emphasizing this sentence, which made me have the initial impression. It was not until I heard him tell the story before and after the appearance of his "Wild Morning Reading" that I really realized the power of completing first and then perfecting.
On April Fool's Day in 20 17, when chatting with friends, I found that the morning reading materials posted in the community were excellent. So why not make a recording at the same time and reopen an official WeChat account so that he can influence more people? But what should I do? What should I do without relevant experience and team?
I told you on the official WeChat account that I am going to open an official WeChat account called Yezaodu, and I can easily get the essence of a good book with one song every day. Tell everyone this first, and let him notice that the number has been opened. And I announced that at 6: 30 in four days, I would push the first one.
In the next three days, I intensively went to find someone to touch the plan and ask for help everywhere. On the miraculous morning of 6th, we published our first article. In fact, when we first started doing this, we didn't have any relevant production experience at all. We all study and ponder while doing, and strive to improve.
As a result, in less than two months, the number exceeded 200,000. When you meet a specific project, you will find that it seems that this scheme will never be perfect. What should you do if you are slow? Do it first, then do it. Only when you really take action will you force yourself to think. In the limited time, force yourself to think, discuss, communicate and collide. Intensive cultivation, the final effect must be very good.
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The story of psychotherapy mentioned by the famous psychologist Jung: A teacher who prayed for rain came to a long-term drought village and asked the villagers to arrange food for him every day instead of praying for rain immediately. On the seventh day, raindrops miraculously fell. Teacher Qiu Yu told the mystery: the village was in a mess before, so it didn't rain. After the villagers cooked for the rain-praying teacher every day and resumed their regular life, it naturally rained.
Many times people's emotions do not come from the facts themselves, but mostly from their own cognition or thinking.
Schopenhauer said: "What disturbs people is not objective things, but people's views on objective things."
So you need to look at your emotions objectively and separate facts from imagination.
Otherwise, your emotions will confuse your cognitive ability of facts and make you more vulnerable in negative emotions, so that you can't play your full potential.
Life is a marathon, maybe not. But it's up to you. No one can decide your orbit, only you.
To borrow a fierce cat's words: finish first, then perfect; If you don't do it, you will have eggs.
Attachment: Remarks
Three Common Sense of Success (2.6)
Bibliography: Common sense of doing things [Japan] Hiroshi Ogura
0 1 the other opposite of perfection: the key to doing a good job is to accept failure and do it "repeatedly, not afraid to start over".
Golden sentence: finish first, then perfect.
Story: 1) Edison failed a thousand times before he invented the light bulb.
2) [Endif] The author became the monitor of the management class at the age of 29. Half a year later, because he didn't know how to manage his subordinates, he suffered from depression and resigned voluntarily. Later, he imagined himself as a loser in boxing. He was knocked down again and again, stood up again and again, and kept learning management-related knowledge. A year later, he was "reinstated".
Non-addictive relaxation method: find a calm and gentle relaxation method that suits you while shielding interference. For example: playing guitar or reading philosophy books, doodling, walking downstairs, chatting with people around you and so on.
Don't be bound by experience, keep it fresh.
Suppose this is the first time you have received this task, ask yourself two questions:
00 1 What attracts me most?
What can I learn from it?
After thinking these two questions clearly, you can help yourself regain your enthusiasm and confidence in your work, turn negative emotions into positive attitudes, and finally actively participate in them and try to do things well.