18 years old, Li Qingzhao married Zhao Mingcheng, the son of Tingzhi Zhao, the prime minister of Imperial College. After their marriage, they had a harmonious relationship, shared the same interests, learned poems and articles from each other, and jointly studied the Zhong Ding Monument. There are often novel insights and discoveries. Although the husband and wife were well-off at that time, in order to collect famous paintings and antique lacquerware, they actually "eat heavy meat and wear heavy colors, Kubinashi pearls and jade ornaments, and there is no gold embroidery in the room." On the first day and fifteenth day, the husband and wife always go to the Suoguo Temple market in Kaifeng, the capital, to collect stone paintings and calligraphy, and then buy them home. Over the past few years, many a mickle makes a mickle, and their research has "returned to the hall". Zhong Ding Monument alone has as many as 2,000 volumes.
When Zhao Mingcheng compiled Jin Shilu, Li Qingzhao gave her husband full support. With extensive knowledge and outstanding memory, whenever her husband forgets and has doubts about the source of the material, Li Qingzhao can always tell the source quickly. In the long run, couples will decide whether to drink tea according to who can say it accurately and quickly. Winners often raise their glasses and laugh, causing tea to spill on their clothes instead of drinking it. In those days, they encouraged each other and enjoyed it.
According to legend, Zhao Mingcheng's good friend Lu Defu and others visited the Mid-Autumn Festival. After paying tribute to Li Qingzhao, Lu Defu turned and asked Zhao Mingcheng with a smile: "Brother Zhao, how many excellent works have been made recently? Can you share it with everyone? " Zhao Mingcheng handed over more than a dozen recent works filled with Li Qingzhao's lyrics to friends for them to read and recite. Suddenly, I heard Lu Defu scream: "What a good song" Drunk Flowers ",which can be said to have never been sung." Everyone cheered in unison and commented: "Drunken flowers and songs are really excellent works, especially the three sentences of' Immortality, curtain rolling west wind, people are thinner than yellow flowers'." Zhao Mingcheng was happy and ashamed, so he had to admit that his wife had made this mistake and worshipped her as a teacher in front of everyone.
Inspired by love, Li Qingzhao is full of literary thoughts, and excellent works come one after another. Her poetry creation has entered a mature stage and formed a unique style, which is similar in form and spirit, both in form and spirit, and refined in vulgarity. In this way, in the days of mutual encouragement and study, they had a wonderful time together.
But in that turbulent era, the good times didn't last long, and the long-term pain of parting made Li Qingzhao miss her husband for the rest of her life.
With the infinite extension of Zhao Mingcheng's days away from home, Li Qingzhao's lovesickness is increasing day by day. Due to bad mood and lack of sleep, her body is gradually losing weight. Any situation in which flowers bloom and fall, autumn wind and spring rain, and seasons change will inspire her sentimental creative inspiration. It is the only way for Li Qingzhao to express her love for her lover in words.
Li Qingzhao got the news that Zhao Mingcheng couldn't afford to get sick, and went south by boat that day, traveling day and night, and saw her beloved husband for the last time. Li Qingzhao's Preface to the Story of the Stone described their farewell scene very touching: "August 18th, I'm sorry. Pick up a pen and write a poem, and end it ... "From then on, until the guest died in another country, Li Qingzhao's memory of her lover never faded.
It is often said that love stories that end in tragedy are often more exciting. However, no one wants such a love tragedy to be staged on themselves. Therefore, while cherishing the love stories of the ancients, we should not forget to cherish the close lovers around us. After all, it is not easy to do "I love you".