How to guard against villains?

All villains and gentlemen have virtue, but the difference is that there are more talented young people than Germans, and there are more gentlemen than Germans. Therefore, the ancients said, an upright man is open and poised, little people hide their eyes and ears. There is a folk saying that a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and a friendship between villains is as sweet as honey, so you should kiss a gentleman and stay away from villains, especially not offend villains. How to treat the little people around you? First, try not to offend the villain. In life, we would rather offend a gentleman than a villain. Because little people can't afford to offend. The villain is especially good at thinking of others and dares to pay any price for the smallest grievance. Once you are targeted by a villain, it will be very troublesome. We may be inspired by the story of Guo Ziyi, a famous figure in the Tang Dynasty. After the "An Shi Rebellion" was pacified, Guo Ziyi, who had great influence, was not proud. He is very careful to prevent villains from being jealous. Once, Guo Ziyi was ill, and an official named Qilu came to visit him. This man is a notorious treacherous villain in history. When he was ugly, everyone regarded him as a living ghost. Because of this, most women can't help smiling when they see him. When Guo Ziyi heard the master's report, he immediately told his family not to show up. He entertained guests alone in the living room. After Qilu left, the concubines returned to their beds and asked Guo Ziyi, "Many officials came to see your illness, but you never let us hide it. Why did this man come and let us all hide? " Guo Ziyi smiled and said, "You don't know that this person is extremely ugly and insidious. If you see him in case he can't help laughing, then he will be jealous. If this man comes to power in the future, our family will suffer. " Later, when Qilu became prime minister, he tried his best to get rid of all those who had offended him before, but he showed more respect for Guo Ziyi. Not offending villains can avoid many unnecessary disputes and troubles. Second, gentlemen don't beat villains. Why don't gentlemen beat villains? Because the villain is not bound by moral norms and does not talk about the rules of the game. There is a story about a villain: a sly villain made a bet with another person to prove that Delphi's signature was false. On the appointed day, he hid a sparrow under his coat. He went into the temple, stood before God, and asked God to tell him whether what he was holding was dead or alive. The villain thinks that if God says what he has is dead, he will show the living sparrow to God. If God says it is alive, he will quietly crush the sparrow to God. God saw through his despicable trick and said to him, "boy, don't be smart!" " The matter is in your hands. It's not up to you to decide whether you live or die! "Little people have no virtue and no faith, and never play cards according to the rules of the game. In order to achieve their goals, villains do not hesitate to use unscrupulous hooliganism. Gentlemen and villains don't play by the same rules of the game, so it is difficult for gentlemen to play with villains. Third, when you have to confront the villain head-on, you should stick to the way of being a gentleman. When dealing with self-harming villains, never deal with a man as he deals with you. It sounds reasonable to treat the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain. Who knows if you do this, you will be mistaken for a villain by others. Knowing a villain is a process, and the process of framing you is the process of exposing his nature. Treating a villain as a gentleman is also a process in which everyone knows you and recognizes you. The public has its own criteria for judging right and wrong, and people's hearts are a weight. A villain does a lot of things unjustly, and sooner or later everyone will recognize his true colors. Once the villain is seen through by everyone, he will naturally lose the market and become a street rat. Fourth, stay away from villains. First, staying away from villains can effectively avoid being used by villains. Villains are best at catching shadows and making waves. Stay away from the villain, don't listen to the noise of the villain, don't be bewitched by the villain, don't be used by the villain, and you will make fewer mistakes. Secondly, staying away from villains can effectively avoid being the target of villains' harm. In the contact with the villain, your casual words, a small matter or an unexpected thing may be made a fuss by the villain, which will lead to your injury. So try to stay away from the villain, and it is best not to appear in the sight of the villain, so as not to leave the villain with an opportunity to frame himself. Once again, stay away from the villain, so as not to make yourself vulgar. If you live with the lame, you will learn to limp. Being too close to the villain will be influenced by the villain and will also damage your personality image. The villain is a dirty gas in society, which can't be driven away and has haunted the society for thousands of years. Although the villain's rise to power is only temporary, those sinister villains will still bring a lot of trouble to our lives. Let us despise the villain, let us stay away from the villain. It is not difficult to be cruel to evil people, but it is difficult not to hate them. It is not difficult to treat noble gentlemen with respect, but it is difficult to follow proper manners. A gentleman is not afraid of gossip or attack because he has a clear conscience. The villain will fight back at you to protect himself and cover up. Maybe you are not afraid of them fighting back, because they can't help you, but you should know that villains are villains, because they are always in the dark. Therefore, it is better to keep a distance from the villains from the inside out than the common sense of the villains, without being too straightforward, and draw a clear line with them. They also need self-esteem and face. Respected people are honest, caring and calm, and are not moved by secular forces. Respected people are open-minded, selfless and open-minded, so they are carefree. Being in an indifferent and quiet state of mind and body is bound to be conducive to health and longevity. All this is something that those villains who do not hesitate to seriously hurt others for immediate interests will never understand and never get! Although I can't achieve the noble realm of those virtuous people, I will warn myself in time when I am angry, and don't strike back in the same way. Try your best to keep yourself in a cold and quiet state, unmoved by it.