It is difficult to guess the minds of talented people. I thought that such a great talent as Gao Xiaosong must be worthy of a peerless beauty. Or a woman with the same talent as him. It turned out to be an ordinary girl nineteen years younger than him, there were rumors. I am in a nurturing relationship, and his wife’s values ??are all shaped by him. It is equivalent to the role of a teacher. Of course, this is all anecdotal information. Don't know if it's true or false.
I have read Gao Xiaosong’s book. He has also dated many talented women before. Somewhere from Zhejiang University or the University of International Business and Economics, I have pursued girls like this before. Maybe after walking around like this, I discovered that simplicity is better. Of course this is also my guess. As for the reason for the divorce, his ex-wife posted an article.
It was said that Gao Xiaosong came back one day and sat there for a long time. Said this kind of life is very boring. He felt unfree. Everyone knows how much Gao Xiaosong is a person who yearns for freedom. The freedom he is talking about may not be physical. But the spiritual level. Gao Xiaosong felt trapped.
He also said this in "Qi Pa Shuo". Talk about the relationship between two people. If they are suspicious of each other, watch out for this and watch out for that, and both of them are cautious, then what's the point of such a love? True love should be the love between two souls. Two souls understand each other. Get to know each other. Trust each other. He said that as time went by, he realized that life was more important than love.
This is his understanding. Anyway, my current understanding is that love is not a part of life. And Gao Xiaosong's world is that he can live without love. But you can't live without your own life. This may also be the reason for his divorce.