When Xiao Qiao got married, she didn't ask her parents to spend money. It wasn't that her parents didn't want to give, but they really didn't have any money. Xiao Qiao's younger brother got married earlier, and all the money his parents had saved their whole life was spent on the house, betrothal gifts, and wedding expenses.
Because my parents have no money and cannot go out to work when they are old, they live a tight life relying on a few acres of land. Xiao Qiao couldn't stand it and always gave money to his parents, but Xiao Qiao's brother almost didn't care about it.
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Xiao Qiao was so angry that she complained to her mother, but her mother still protected her brother: "It's not your brother's fault, he wants to To raise a family, your sister-in-law has to stay home to take care of the children and not work, and your brother’s salary is tight.”
Xiao Qiao was very angry after hearing this. Her mother is not a bad mother-in-law, but her son is. When something goes wrong, the daughter-in-law is always blamed. Anyway, Xiao Qiao doesn't believe that there are men who don't support their parents because their wives don't want to. It must be that he is not a very filial person in the first place, and he lets his wife take the blame!
My parents spent all their money to buy a house for my younger brother, but in the end, I have to rely on myself to support him in old age. Xiao Qiao feels aggrieved. It is not that she is unwilling to support her parents. After all, although her parents are a bit patriarchal, but after all After raising myself up like this, I have never been hungry. I just think that even if I am better to my parents, they still love my younger brother more, which makes me feel sour and uncomfortable.
There are not just two such families, especially those with poor conditions. When a daughter gets married, the gift money is basically enough to cover the dowry and all expenses. When the son reaches age, he will use the money he has worked hard to save all his life to buy a house and marry a wife for his son. After the son gets married, the parents will basically have no money in their hands. If anything happens at this time, the children will need to be responsible.
To briefly summarize this kind of family, they have saved their whole life to buy a house for their son, but in the end they have to let their daughter take care of them in old age. In this case, what will the daughter think? Let’s take a look at what everyone has shared.
@青风流年: I feel aggrieved when I think about it, so I just don’t think about it anymore. I can only keep an open mind. After all, my parents have raised me, so I should support him in his old age, and he can do whatever he wants with his parents' hard-earned money. This way I feel better.
@大爱RONgyin: My parents are like this too, but I don’t want to. Why? I am not the one who is taken advantage of. Parents cannot be so partial. The water thrown out by the married daughter is what my mother said, so don’t count on me. I have already been thrown out.
@Jinan’s Winter: My parents gave all their money to their son, but they didn’t let me support myself in old age. I couldn’t stand it and was willing to bear the burden. Seeing that I was burdened, my brother ignored me even more and couldn't handle the housework.