After reading 1, when I was in a bad mood, I bought a copy of "Give Up" by Master Nebula, which really benefited me a lot. To give up is to learn to give up, and only by giving up can you gain something.
First, I agree with the view of "keeping a low profile and keeping a low profile". There is no doubt that there must be a certain level of work. But sometimes it's good to keep a low profile. It is easy to achieve the goal because of low profile. Low-key includes low-key speech, not too expensive. Keep a low profile and don't be too ostentatious. Keep a low profile when you are angry, don't be too angry, and so on. Ask yourself, I belong to a strong constitution in my heart, and I am easy to worry when things happen, so I don't leave a way back. When the mood is calm, it's too late to regret it. The size of a person's ability is not the strength of his ability, but whether he can live in harmony with the public. The essence of the United front should not be too high or too detached. Polite and humble. People who keep a low profile are wily, not vain and grandiose, and rely on their own strength step by step, slowly and steadily. Therefore, low-key people are easy to succeed. And I, on the other hand.
Second, reflection and reconstruction insist on low-key life and high-profile work. As a member of society, we must abide by good professional ethics and noble thoughts and sentiments, consciously put ourselves in the right position in our work and life, always maintain a good style of modesty and prudence, guard against arrogance and rashness, not take credit for pride, not be arrogant and impetuous, adhere to Changde, be strict with ourselves in everything, be kind to others everywhere, and treat people with a pious and broad mind and a detached and peaceful mind. Learn to be a low-key person, that is, not noisy, not refined, not artificial, not pretentious, not hypocritical, not involved in right and wrong, not annoying, not jealous, even if you think you are brilliant and better than others, you should learn to hide others. Complaining that you have no talent is only superficial. Day after day, life makes us pay, experience, bear, face, complain, be angry, unbalanced and extreme, at the same time, we are also weighing giving up and abandoning, gain and loss, which all plague our breathing and make each other lose themselves. Many of our outlook on life has been assimilated by reality, and "gain" and "shed" have been endowed with utilitarian feelings. We only know what we want, the pursuit of fame and wealth, and insatiable greed. We always feel that we should not lose, we should not give up, we just want to "gain" rather than "give up", and we insist on what we shouldn't have, making ourselves more and more burdened, so that we can't breathe. Maybe we should rethink and sort ourselves out, give ourselves some time to purify, redefine the true intention of "willing" and let them return to nature. This will also allow us to return some spiritual materials that have been too far away from reality to where they should be. There is a classic saying: when your hands are clenched, there is nothing inside; When you open your hands, the world is in your hands. Let go to go far, and give up to pursue. People who can't put anything down or don't want to put it down will lose the most precious thing. It is the art of hiding the sky from the sea: "Even the wisest man is foolish" designs a huge illusion and scam around the word "if", covering up the true ambition, power desire, talent, reputation and feelings. This low-key life skills, willing to be stupid and weak, is actually a subtle calculation. It encourages people not to fight for the first time and not to reveal the truth, so that they can live their lives clearly. Treat people peacefully and leave room: "There are ways to do things and rules to do things", and being a man is no exception. It is also in line with objective requirements to treat personnel with a peaceful attitude, because being a low-key talent is the key to success.
I am willing to read it. I agree with this view.
There is an article about "positive outlook on life" in the self-cultivation article. It is mentioned in the book: "There is neither absolute optimism nor absolute pessimism in the world:' The mind breeds all laws, and the mind destroys all laws.' Optimism and pessimism have external causes, but most of them are caused by themselves. Yes, many times things are good or bad in people's minds. "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise." Although Sima Qian suffered inhuman torture, he still straightened his back and wrote his masterpiece Historical Records. Although Li Bai's official career was not smooth, he was still optimistic and open-minded, and wrote, "I was born useful, spinning a thousand pieces of silver, and I came back!" . As the book says, "all good things are not necessarily good, and all bad things are not necessarily bad." "So if you think about everything in the future, you will feel that life is extremely happy."
Second, connect with reality.
I went to Shuanglong Cave for an internship this summer, and one thing touched me a lot. The students who went to Shuanglong Cave for internship in our class are all interested in the tour guide industry. Before going, they all vowed to say, "Be sure to practice hard and get a tour guide card!" However, after more than a month of internship, the original ambition almost vanished. Most people are muddling along in their work and life, and no longer insist on taking the tour guide certificate. Only two or three kittens are still gritting their teeth and studying for a tourist guide's license. After talking with my classmates, I learned that the direct cause of this phenomenon is the newly promulgated regulations on the examination of tourist guide cards, in which the prerequisite for the examination of tourist guide cards is that they must graduate from junior college, so many students' ambitions are like flowers at once. Most of the students chose to give up. They felt that it was no big deal not to have a tour guide card, because many old employees around them didn't have a tour guide card, and their lives were still very moist. However, a few people choose to face it positively. They are going to study in junior college in their spare time to prepare for applying for a tourist guide card in the future. In my opinion, as long as these people can persist, they will realize their dream of being a tour guide in the near future.
Third, reconstruction.
Interns need a strong and optimistic attitude. In practice, there will be many problems that have never appeared in school, such as interest disputes between employees, assessment at work, heavy labor intensity and difficult accommodation environment. In the management of interns, we should not only attach importance to internship safety, but also strengthen ideological guidance to interns, help them make future life plans according to internship practice, guide students to face all kinds of difficulties and challenges actively and optimistically, cultivate students' spirit of active struggle and lay a solid foundation for their future.
I am willing to read it. Master Xing Yun wrote that "getting" is skill, "giving up" is philosophy, and doing "addition and subtraction between man and me". The implication is profound and needs to be carefully understood and analyzed.
A celebrity once said: Giving up is meaningful: giving up what you get is not giving up; Small house is small, big house is big; If you want something, learn to give it first. Giving up and giving up is full of our trivial daily life, which is a story of success and failure. Being willing is a philosophy and an art. What can you get from being willing? He she? Stiff people are weak, soft people are weak, brave people are cruel, wise people are deceitful, everything in the world is perfect, and there must be shortcomings corresponding to its advantages! What are the trade-offs between giving up and getting? Giving up is painful and happy!
Giving up is interactive, and giving up will gain something.
Master Xing Yun wrote Comfort and Shed-up from four aspects. They are: workplace articles, daily articles, self-cultivation articles, and heart-nourishing articles.
1. Workplace: For me, I just left college and went to work. Many places in the workplace are unfamiliar, there are many places to learn in the workplace, and there are many places to ask others. Modern people, some use money to plan their living expenses, and some use feelings to plan their lives, not only for when to get married, but also for the so-called family origin. Of course, some ordinary people can only plan their life for one month with a monthly salary, while others can only plan their expenses for one day with a daily salary. Some people have no extra ability to plan except for three meals a day, while others can only plan their own existence and have no right to plan others. Everyone has different goals and different pursuits, but as long as they are close to their own goals step by step, they are successful.
2. Everyday article: The sentence "Make love with sleep" makes sense. Don't be stingy with others, not only at work, but also in life. You should learn to be willing. Learning to be willing can make you happy and let others get it. Why not? In the process of growing up, people will become more or less selfish. Giving up seems easy, but it's hard to do.
When others are depressed, based on deep encouragement and a warm comfort, let them get out of their depressed mood and work hard! When you give up, you don't have to think about what you will get, but what others will get from your giving up. This "giving up" is not necessarily money. A greeting and a blessing are all "giving up". When you "give up" others, you gain a kind of joy and others gain a kind of success. I am willing to give up, "the small house is small, the big house is big, and I don't want to give up."
3. Cultivation: As Master Xing Yun wrote, everyone has his own personality. When you show your personality, you are cultivating your body and mind. People often say to cultivate one's self-cultivation, and I think so. Laugh without worry: laugh without worry, run; Second, laugh and hate; San Xiao is a pity; Laugh four times and get sick; Five smiles are not old; Six laughs and fun. Laugh often, and you will live longer than Nanshan. In fact, self-cultivation can be done at any time, which is an important degree to my mood. A scholar once said: If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. All your troubles come from your heart because you can't let go.
4. Nourishing the heart: Master Xing Yun wrote that the heart is the noumenon of life and the master of human beings. Even if a person dies physically, his heart will not die, and the future reincarnation depends on this heart. People's mood determines a lot, and their attitudes towards things will be different. People are open-minded, and no matter how difficult it is, they can face it smartly. Peace of mind, attitude determines a lot. Teachers should be good teachers and friends of students, respect students in personality, treat them as equals and meet each other sincerely; Give more words of encouragement in your study, build up your confidence in your study, be brave in overcoming difficulties and keep making progress. At the same time, we should also care about their health, understand their living habits and hobbies, and cultivate correct hobbies and interests. Treat them with a mentality close to them, understand them, and believe that they will also understand a teacher's conscience.
Being willing is not only a philosophy of life, but also an art of doing things. Giving up and getting, like water and fire, heaven and earth, yin and yang, are contradictory concepts that are both opposite and unified. They complement each other, exist in the world, in the world, in the heart, in the subtle details, and contain all the mechanisms of everything. Everything is willing to give up in order to achieve harmony and unity.