As a gentleman, you should have a strong will and never-ending spirit of struggle, and strive to strengthen your self-cultivation and complete and develop your studies or career. Only in this way can we reflect God's will and live up to the responsibility and talent entrusted to a gentleman by the universe. People are smart and stupid, just like uneven terrain and fertile and barren soil. Farmers will not stop farming because the land is barren, and gentlemen cannot give up education because of stupidity. It is tangible between heaven and earth. Nothing is more kind than the earth, and nothing is not carried by the earth. Therefore, a gentleman should follow the meaning of "Kun" in his life and be kind to others. No matter he is smart, stupid or mean, he should be tolerant and tolerant. Now it is often used to refer to cultivating students with high moral character and profound knowledge. )
2. Don't act on small evils, and don't act on small good.
Don't do anything just because it is a trivial matter; On the contrary, for some small good things that are beneficial to others, don't stop doing them just because they are of little significance.
It's better to see the bad than the good, just like exploring the soup. -The Analects of Confucius
When you meet an excellent person, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. Seeing a good thing, I'm afraid it's too late to do it. When you see a wicked person or a bad thing, it's like running into hot water. You should leave at once and stay away.
If you bow to others and lightly blame others, you will stay away from complaining. -The Analects of Confucius
Those who work hard and take the main responsibility for mistakes are "bowing to themselves", forgiving others more and "blaming others less". So there will be no resentment and contradiction.
5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. Villains are. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman always starts from the good or beneficial wishes of others, wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, and does not look at the world coldly. Or he is afraid of chaos in the world and will not add fuel to the fire when others fail, make mistakes and suffer. On the contrary, the villain is always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults."
6. See Si Qi Yan, see Si Qi introspection. -The Analects of Confucius
(Translation: When you see that someone has advantages and advantages beyond yourself in some respect, ask for advice with an open mind, study hard, try to catch up with him and reach the same level as him; When you see someone has some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should reflect calmly and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies. )
7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
Don't impose things you don't want on others, such as pain, disaster and disaster.
Be kind and don't give in to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't hesitate to do good things, even if the teacher is around, you should rush to do it. Later, it developed into the idiom "due diligence".
9. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous.
10. Two people are concentric, and their profits are broken; The difference between one thought and another. -Zhouyi
(Translation: Qi Xin's concerted efforts are powerful enough to break hard metals; People with one heart and one mind express the same opinion, which is persuasive. People are easy to accept if they smell vanilla. )
1 1. A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman always blames himself, finding faults and problems from himself. Little people often look at others and find their shortcomings and mistakes.
12. Although an upright man is open and poised is a petty person, he is anxious and worried ...-The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman is open-minded, honest and clean-minded, comfortable in appearance and movements, and steady. Little people have too many inner desires and heavy psychological burdens, so they are often worried, worried, uneasy in appearance and movements, often fidgeting and depressed.
13. Don't complain, don't be kind to others. -The Analects of Confucius
When encountering setbacks and failures, never make excuses objectively, and never shift the responsibility to others, which later developed into the idiom "complaining about others".
14. The villain's mistakes must be written. -The Analects of Confucius
A villain must cover up his mistakes.
15. A gentleman's business book is based on Tao. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman devotes himself to the root, takes root, and "Tao" comes into being naturally.
16. A gentleman is ashamed to exaggerate. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman thinks it is shameful to talk more and do less.
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Everyone makes mistakes and makes hunting mistakes. As long as it is corrected, it is still the best person.
18. If a person can do it, he can do it. Man can do ten things, but he can do thousands of things. -the golden mean
What others learn at once, I spend hundreds of times, and I will certainly learn. What others can master ten times, if I learn a thousand times, I will certainly master it.
19. A gentleman is nothing more than being kind to others. -Mencius
The greatest strength of a gentleman is to treat others with a noble and loving heart.
20. Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action.
Good medicine tastes bitter and benefits the disease; Suggestions don't sound good, but they are good for people's behavior. )
2 1. the industry is good at hard work, but it is poor in playing; Thinking about what you do is destroyed by following. -Han Yu
Success in career or study lies in hard work and diligence. If you are too playful, you will accomplish nothing by relaxing your requirements. To be a man, you must think carefully and think carefully before you can achieve something. Willful, careless and casual will only lead to failure. )
22. Jade is uncut and abrasive; People who don't learn don't know. Xue Ji
Jade is not a tool; People don't learn and don't understand. )
23. I don't know if I learn early with black hair, but I regret it later. -"Encouraging Learning"
If you don't know how to study hard when you are young, it's too late to study again when you are old.
24. Learning without learning is not learning. -Yang Wanli
Learning knowledge but not being able to use it flexibly cannot be called learning.
25. If you don't learn well, you are afraid of losing.
When learning knowledge, I'm afraid I can't catch up, and when I catch up, I'm afraid I'll lose it.
26. Learning without knowing is equal to not learning; Knowing without doing is equal to not knowing. -Huang Zhi
(translation: learning knowledge can't understand some truth from it, which is no different from not learning; If you learn the truth but can't use it, it is still equal to not learning the truth. )
27. I have a good knowledge and made an appointment, but I have accumulated a lot and made little progress. -Su Shi
(translation: read widely, learn more about people and things at home and abroad, and remember the good parts firmly; I have accumulated a lot of knowledge and materials, and I can choose and use them freely and appropriately when I need them. )
28. People should learn from childhood and be arrogant. -gu
When studying, don't feel inferior in front of profound knowledge, and don't be complacent because you have learned a little knowledge.
29. Learning is close to knowledge, doing is close to benevolence, and knowing shame is close to courage. -the golden mean
Diligence and study are close to wisdom, and as long as you work hard, you are close to benevolence. Knowing right and wrong, good and evil is a sign of courage.
30. My life is limited, and so is my knowledge. -Zhuangzi.