Confucius said, "It's okay to learn and learn from the times! It's a pleasure to have friends coming from afar! " If you don't know and don't care, you are a gentleman! "
Confucius said, "Why not study and review on time?" ! Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? If others don't know me, I won't be disgusted. Isn't that a gentleman? "
A Confucius said: he is also a filial brother, but few people like to make mistakes; It's not easy to make mistakes, but it's not easy to make mistakes. Gentleman's business is based on inheritance and Taoism. Filial piety is also the foundation of benevolence. "
A son said: "It is rare to be a man, filial to parents and respectful to brothers, but like to offend elders and superiors;" There is no one who likes to rebel instead of offending his elders and superiors. A gentleman should devote himself to the foundation, and when the foundation is established, the truth of governing the country and being a man comes into being. The so-called "filial piety" and "filial piety" can be the basis of "benevolence". "
Confucius said, "Clever words make the color so fresh."
Confucius said, "Those who speak sweet words and are kind-hearted and kind-eyed, have little benevolence."
Ceng Zi said: "I save three times a day: are you unfaithful to others?" Don't believe in making friends? Is the reception room not used to it? "
Ceng Zi said: "I have to reflect on myself many times every day: Is it loyalty to give advice and help others? Are you sincere and trustworthy when dealing with your friends? Have you reviewed the knowledge taught by the teacher? "
Confucius said, "The country is a thousand times as big as it is, respecting things and believing, saving and loving others, and making the people timely."
Confucius said: "To govern a vassal state with 1000 chariots, we should be careful, concentrate on handling the political affairs of the country seriously and strictly abide by our credit;" Save financial expenses and care for subordinates and people; Serve the people according to busy farming and leisure time. "
Confucius said, "Disciple, you are filial when you enter, but you are young when you leave. You will sincerely believe that you will treat others well. If you have extra energy, go to study literature. "
Confucius said, "Son, be filial to your parents at home, respect your brother when you go out, be careful in your words and deeds, be kind to others, and be kind to the people." . After doing this, there is still spare capacity, which will be used to learn all kinds of cultural knowledge. "
Xia Zi said: "The sage changes color; Parents can do their best; As a gentleman, you can pass through him; Make friends and keep your word. Although I have not studied, I will call it learning. "
Xia Zi said: "Respect virtuous people and despise beautiful women;" Serve your parents and do your best; To serve you, you can have dedication; Communicate with friends, be honest and trustworthy. Even if such a person says that he has never learned anything, I will say that he has. "
Confucius said, "If a gentleman is not heavy, he will be unable to do his job and learn. Lord is faithful. A man without friends is worse than himself. After that, it will not change. "
Confucius said, "If a gentleman is not solemn, he will have no dignity; if his attitude is not solemn, his knowledge will not be consolidated. Being a man is mainly about loyalty and trustworthiness. Don't make friends with people who are inferior to yourself. If there are mistakes, don't be afraid to correct them. "
Zeng Zi said: "Be cautious in the end, pursue the distance, and the people's morality will return to thick."
Ceng Zi said, "We should handle funerals carefully and pay homage to our ancestors. [If we do this,] people's morality will return to loyalty and honesty. "
Qin Zi asked Zi Gong: "As far as a country is concerned, will the Lord hear about its politics, make peace with it, and suppress it?" Zi Gong said, "Master is gentle, courteous and frugal. What does the owner want and what do others want? "
Qin Zi asked Zi Gong, "Every time our teacher goes to a vassal state, he will certainly know the political affairs of that country. Did he ask for it himself, or did someone else tell him? " Zi Gong said, "The teacher is gentle, courteous and frugal, self-denial and self-denial. [It can also be said that it is obtained, but the method obtained by teachers is probably different from that obtained by people? "
Confucius said, "My father is here, so I will watch his ambition.": My father didn't. I watched him in action. It is filial to not change your father's way for three years. "
Confucius said: "[Look at people] Father is alive, depending on his ambition; After his father died, we should examine his behavior. If you don't change the principle that his father has adhered to for three years, such a person can be said to have done his filial piety. "
A Confucius said, "Harmony is the most precious thing. The first five ways are all beautiful. Small and big. If you can't do it, then knowing and combining is not feasible. Don't mention it. "
A Confucius said, "Harmony is the most important thing in the application of courtesy. This is the value of the ancient sage's method of governing the country. This principle is followed in minor matters and major events. Some places can't, only know harmony, and don't need etiquette to adjust the constraints. That is also impossible. "
A Confucius said, "If you believe in righteousness, you can answer it. Politeness is closer to politeness than shame. Because you don't lose your loved ones, you can still live in it. "
A son said, "keep your promise and be consistent with justice;" This unswerving commitment can only be fulfilled by practice. Respect, be polite, [do this,] can avoid shame. You should rely on people close to you. Only these people are respectable and reliable. "
Confucius said: "A gentleman does not want to eat enough, he is prepared for danger in times of peace and is sensitive to things, but he is cautious, honest and clean, which can be said to be studious."
Confucius said: "A gentleman does not pursue those who have enough to eat, who live comfortably, who are diligent and agile in doing things, who speak cautiously and keep up with morality, and always correct their shortcomings and mistakes. [Doing this] can be said to be a studious person. "
Zi Gong said, "Poor but not flattering, rich but not arrogant?" Confucius said, "Yes, if you are not poor, you will be happy. It is good to give gifts if you have money. " Zi Gong said: "The Book of Songs says:' Brilliant is polished.' What is its significance? Confucius said, "If you give me a gift, you can tell me that the Book of Songs is over and tell everyone you used to know."
Zi Gong said, "What about those who are poor but not flattering, and those who are rich but not arrogant?" Confucius said, "Yes, (but) not as happy as the poor, but rich and happy." Zi Gong said: "The Book of Songs says:' If bones, horns, ivory and jade are processed, they can only become exquisite things after careful consideration." Is that what you mean? Confucius said, "Duanmu Ci, I can start talking to you about the Book of Songs. Tell you what happened and you will know what will happen in the future. "
Confucius said, "If you don't suffer from people's ignorance, you don't know people."
Confucius said, "I'm not afraid that others don't understand my own advantages and disadvantages, but I'm afraid that I don't understand others' advantages and disadvantages."