"Don't be bitter, don't persuade others to be good", the key point of this sentence is "persuade others to be good". "Persuade people" is right, but if you think about it carefully, "persuade people to be good" is really not necessarily right. So, let's talk about "persuading people" together.
First of all, there is definitely nothing wrong with persuading people. Give someone a rose and it smells good. What is the purpose of persuasion? It must be to make the other person feel good, but it is not necessarily to make the other person want to open up.
China people carry forward tolerance as a virtue to the fullest, but not everything can be put down in a word or two, especially the pain that hurts the skin, and not everyone deserves to be forgiven.
There is also an old saying, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" and "repay kindness with kindness". And "don't suffer others, don't persuade others to be good." However, there are often a group of people who make irresponsible remarks, criticize or even interfere in other people's lives in order to flaunt their noble morality or think that they are "good for others".
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Since "not harming others and not benefiting yourself" is not all good, and it is impossible to put an end to such people, then the key lies in how to persuade people to be kind and generous. In fact, even if you don't suffer, you can convince people to be kind and generous as long as you master certain persuasion skills.
Even if the other person doesn't accept it, he may appreciate you instead of hating you. This article will share a technique. Mastering this persuasion skill can persuade people to be kind at any time. People with high emotional intelligence are often good at persuading people to give generously with this skill.
This skill is to "persuade people to be kind and circuitous", that is, when persuading people to be kind and generous, don't go straight, but gently impress him, so as to persuade him.