He's my brother.
It means that both brothers have both ability and political integrity, and it is difficult to compete. Later, I compared them to the same bad.
Source article 8 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu De.
Chen Yuanfang, the original son of Changwen, was outstanding in talent, and Ji Fangzi was filial first, and each discussed his father's merits, and there was no dispute. Qiu consulted and said, "Fiona Fang is difficult for my brother, and Ji Fang is difficult for my brother."
The story tells that there was a man named Chen Yan in Yingchuan, who was eager to learn and fair in handling affairs since childhood. Later, when he became a county magistrate, he was even more honest and clean, and the people admired him very much. His eldest son's name is Fiona Fang, and his youngest son's name is Ji Fang. He is also very virtuous.
Fiona Fang was later appointed as an assistant minister by the imperial court and wanted him to be Stuart's official. He refused, so the imperial court made him an official. Because of the high prestige of Chen Yan, Fiona Fang and Ji Fang, the images of their father and son were painted on the walls of Yuzhou at that time, so that people could learn their morality.
Fiona Fang has a son named Chang Wen and Ji Fang has a son named Xiaoxian. One day, they argued about their father's merits and demerits, saying that his father's merits and demerits were very high and the struggle was fruitless, so they came together and asked his grandfather Chen Yan for a ruling. Chen Yan thought for a moment and said to his two grandchildren, "Fiona Fang is very difficult for my brother, but Ji Fang is very difficult for my brother. Both of them have high merits, and it is difficult to tell the difference! " The two grandchildren left with satisfaction.
This is a story about two brothers, which reminds me of another story about two brothers. In the seventy-fifth chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions, I wrote about delivering packages for fun on a Mid-Autumn night. Jia Zheng read the poems written by Baoyu and Jia Huan and said, "So we are brothers. ..... lies in the ancient' two difficulties', you two can also be called' two difficulties'. It's just that you two are' difficult', so it's better to say' difficult' and difficult to teach. " It's hard to accept that old-fashioned Jia also plays humor. However, few people dare to understand his humor.
He is my brother, and later used to refer to people who are in trouble or in the same predicament. For example, in Zhang Kejiu's song "Let's Drink Farewell on the Lake" in the Yuan Dynasty, there is such a sentence: "He is my brother's white hair in a foreign land. No wind, no rain and no yellow flowers, unlike Chongyang. " But the pronunciation is probably changed from the second sound to the fourth sound.
2. Break up.
Cutting off the mat means breaking off friendship and never seeing each other again. Often used to describe friends who have broken up and stopped talking.
Source Article 11 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu De
It turns out that Guan Ning and Huaxin * * * Garden hoe vegetables, and there is a piece of gold in the field. Pipe hoe and tile stone, China caught and threw it away. I also tasted the taste of reading at the same table. Some people who pass by the porch door would rather read books and waste books as before. They would rather sit at the table and say, "My son is not my friend!" "
The story shows that during the Three Kingdoms period, Hua Xin, Liyuan and Guan Ning were called dragons, Hua Xin was called the dragon head, Liyuan was in the middle, and Guan Ning was called the dragon tail.
Guan Ning and Hua Xin were very good friends when they were young. They are inseparable all day, eating at the same table, reading and sleeping in the same bed, and get along very well. Even so, their personalities are different. Ning Guan is noble and expensive, and he has never been an official in his life; On the other hand, Ning Guan has applied itself to the world and gained a great reputation. Through two small things, Guan Ning witnessed Hua Xin's behavior, and could no longer restrain his sigh and disappointment. When Hua Xin came back, Guan Ning took out a knife, cut the mat in half in front of Hua Xin, and announced sadly and firmly, "Our aspirations and tastes are so different. From now on, like this cut straw mat, we are no longer friends. "
Expanding this story tells us that true friends are like-minded friends. But many people have come to the conclusion that Hua Xin is greedy for wealth. It is biased to say that grasping gold is greedy for money and seeing Xuanmian is greedy for power. In fact, Hua Xin is a man of noble character. The story in the same story is that Hua Xin reciprocated and saved people along the way.
Take the story of breaking up. From the current point of view, "grasping and throwing gold" is simply picking up money. As for Xuanzang who went out to see the door, it reminds us of Liu Bang and Xiang Yu written by Tai Shigong. One expressed the feeling that "men should do this" and the other said "he should take his positions", which is an advantage in Tai Shigong's view.
Three hours.
It means that a person can't judge what he will do in the future just because he was smart as a teenager.
Source Article 3 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu (text)
Kong Wenju went to Los Angeles with his father when he was ten years old. At that time, Li Yuanli was famous as a captain in Li Si. All the people who enter the door are handsome and talented. Their name is Qi Naitong, and they are their middle cousins. Wen Ju reached the door and said to the official, "I am a relative of Li Fu." Yes, sit in the front. Li Yuan asked, "What is your relationship with your servant?" Right: "Zhong Ni, the former monarch, and Boyang, the monarch, are respected by teachers, and the servants communicate well with you." Ethan and his guests are very strange. Dr. Chen Wei, who is too heavy, arrived, and people said in his own words, "It's time, but it's not necessarily good to be older." Wen Ju said, "If you want to be a gentleman, you must be a gentleman first." This is a big deal.
The story shows that Li Yuanli was Mars, a courtier and celebrity in the Eastern Han Dynasty, with a great reputation. "Shi Shuo Xin Yu: Virtue" contains: "Li Yuanli's style is beautiful, self-centered, and he wants to teach the world right and wrong. Those who are backward and promoted all think that they are on the Longmen. " Many people are famous for Li Yuanli's appreciation and praise.
Kong Wenju, whose name was Kong Rong, was a writer at the end of the Han Dynasty, whose name was Kong Beihai.
The story of expanding Kong Rong to make pears should be a household name, needless to say. At an early age, Kong Rong went to Longmen, which is really to be reckoned with. Since it is Longmen, there will inevitably be too many people asking for an audience, and it will inevitably be blocked by the doorman. The so-called face is easy to see, and the kid is difficult. But this can't beat our little Kong Rong, Yan and imp, who are all convinced by him, but are asked for it by a person who is not well-advised.
Only a few hours. There are indeed many people who are not necessarily good. So I often use this sentence. Although it is a borrowed sentence, the ready-made answer "You must be very smart when you are young" has not been used by many people.
Ann has finished laying eggs under the cover of the bird's nest.
Literally, when the bird's nest capsizes, its eggs will break. Used to describe that one person is in trouble and the whole family is not spared. Later, it also refers to the total destruction, and its individual cannot be saved.
Source: Article 5 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu (words)
It turned out that Kong Rong was taken over, and both China and foreign countries were afraid. I was nine when I was a child, and the youngest was eight. The second son was embarrassed by his nails. It is called emissary day: "Ji's sin stops at her body, but can she get it all?" My son Xu Jin said, "My Lord, do you see more eggs under the nest?" Find and receive.
The story shows that according to Wei Chunqiu, "(Kong) Rong slandered Sun Quanshi and abandoned the market." When it comes to business, his children are indifferent. It turned out that the two were expected to be involved, so the metaphor was whether there were finished eggs under the nest.
Open Kong Rong's 10-year-old Youlong Gate (visiting Li Yuanli, the leader of Liu Qing at that time), and he saw human feelings clearly; His son is eight or nine years old. He can calmly face the great changes in his family and see the accident thoroughly. This makes me feel ashamed, but it also makes me feel cold. That kind of clarity and transparency, to some extent, probably requires the blood and pain of an era.
I have always liked the saying that the world is not full of celebrities, but early children and honest adults, including those women. Engels said that the living conditions of women and children can best reflect the social fashion of an era, or the degree of social liberation of an era. So I think, perhaps from the words and deeds of these children, I can feel the wind of Wei and Jin Dynasties best.
5, pick up people's teeth.
The meaning of wisdom originally refers to the wisdom revealed in words, and later refers to the remarks and opinions that others have said. Learn from others' wisdom, which means taking others' words for your own use, or copying others' words.
From article 27 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu by Liu Yiqing in Southern Song Dynasty.
The original yin said, "Kangbo didn't get the wisdom of my teeth."
This story shows that Yin, also known as Yin Hao, was a native of the Eastern Jin Dynasty. When he was young, he was knowledgeable, eloquent and well-known. He was once a general of Jianwu, who was defeated when he took the Central Plains, but was dismissed and exiled to Xin 'an, Zhejiang. Accompanied by his nephew Han. Han often interrupts david moses's speech for private discussion. One day, Yin Hao said this when he saw Han boasting in front of him again.
Expanding "picking up people's wisdom" is also called "picking up population water" or "picking up population water" In Song Dynasty, Yan Yu wrote "Answering Letters" in Cang Shi Lang Dialect: "The poetic debate of servants has been a public case for thousands of years, and it is the result of digging this field behind closed doors, that is, not approaching the fence, but' picking up people's tears and vomiting'." Judging from its synonyms of "picking up people's tears" or "picking up people's leftovers", I think wisdom does not mean wisdom, but should be a general word. But don't say it.
Han often interrupts my uncle, which is more or less impolite and frivolous. Yin Hao spit this out, and he didn't know whether to draw a line or defend his rights. This language appears in literary works for a reason. Making a fuss is the most taboo of plagiarism. The ancients said: "Probably writing a book is most afraid of similarity, and' picking up people's teeth and wisdom'. Poetry and composition are written by myself. " Also known as "pick up people's tears and spit them out." Therefore, when writing a composition, you must write your true feelings and "write your own mind."
Step 6 be unconventional
The original meaning refers to originality and originality, and there are different opinions. The latter refers to putting forward novel ideas and creating novel styles; Sometimes derogatory, it means to set up another set.
Source: Article 32 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu Literature
Zhuangzi's free and unfettered articles in the original text are always difficult to understand, which can be learned by famous sages, but not by Guo and the outside world. Zhi Daolin in the White Horse Temple, will Feng Taichang * * * language, free and unfettered. It is unimaginable for all famous sages to stand out from the two schools and create new ideas. Then use branches.
The story shows that Zhi Daolin was a Buddhist scholar in the Eastern Jin Dynasty. He often associates with celebrities such as Xie An and Wang Xizhi, likes to talk about Hyunri, and has a good study of Zhuangzi. Zhuangzi is a philosophical work written by Zhuang Zhou in the Warring States Period. Scholars in Wei and Jin Dynasties highly praised this book. Ji Xiang and Guo Xiang of Jin Dynasty annotated Zhuangzi. Happy Travel is the first article in Zhuangzi, and it is also a difficult point. At that time, many famous scholars deeply studied the authenticity of this article, but no one could surpass the opinions of Guo Xiang and Xiang Xiu.
On one occasion, Zhi Daolin chatted with Feng Huai, the general of protecting the country, at Baima Temple in Luoyang. When talking about "free travel", Zhi Daolin told a new truth, which was much higher than that of Guo Xiang and Xiang Xiu, and set up a new viewpoint, which was beyond the understanding of many famous scholars at that time. Zhi Daolin's analysis and views are difficult for those famous scholars to solve. Later, people absorbed Zhi Daolin's opinion to explain "free travel".
Expanding and being unconventional should be an innovation. How many people can this impress? In literature, "writing your own mind" is naturally a kind of height, which needs to be slowly appreciated, understood and appreciated, and gradually influenced by other people's psychology with emotion and reason. Freshness is mostly sudden wisdom, which can be seen at a glance and cannot be ignored.
7. Piri Chunqiu
It means that the surface does not show likes and dislikes, and it does not show attitude. In fact, there are praises and denials in the heart.
Source: Article 66 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu (Appreciation)
The original text Huan Mao said: "Chu Ji's wild skin is sunny and autumn." It is said that it is also cut.
The story shows that when Baidu searched for the origin of Piri in the Spring and Autumn Period, it showed the Book of Jin * Chu Zhushu. The original text was "Huan Yi saw the country saying,' There is Piri in the wild season'." There is no doubt outside the words, but there are praises and denials inside. "I don't know that the wild season is covered with skin and sunny autumn is originally from Shi Shuo Xin Yu, and many places in the Book of Jin are based on the world.
Huan Yi in the Book of Jin is Huan Maolun, a native of the Eastern Jin Dynasty. In the Spring and Autumn Period, Jin people avoided the taboo of Empress Achun in bamboo slips and replaced "Spring" with "Yang". When Confucius wrote the Spring and Autumn Annals, he often implied the great righteousness with implicit words, so later people called it "Spring and Autumn brushwork". Piri Chunqiu refers to the fact that the surface does not show likes and dislikes and attitudes, but the heart is actually mixed. "Slice, that is, in my heart.
The most common phrase in the idiom of expanding search is this-"There is no latitude and longitude in the road ahead, and the skin is black and yellow in spring and autumn." This is a sentence from Xue Baochai's poem about crabs in the thirty-eighth chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions. Crab bellies come in two different colors, black and yellow. Spring and autumn refers to color, "empty, black and yellow" refers to the futility of design, because it is inevitable that dishes will eventually enter people's stomachs. This poem is novel and profound. No wonder some people say that Baochai is very shrewd.
There is another time in a dream of red mansions, which is also related to this language. The forty-second time "Xiaoxiangzi teases the lingering fragrance", it is written that Daiyu gave Granny Liu a nickname called "Mother Locust". The true image of this "female locust" is harmonious, just as Baochai said: "The words of the world must be from the mouth of the phoenix girl. Fortunately, Miss Feng can't read and is not a big fan, but these are jokes about common customs. What's more, she used the method of Spring and Autumn Annals to summarize the vulgar language of common customs, delete its complexity, and polish it, for example, sentence by sentence. The word "mother locust" shows all the sights of yesterday. Thanks to his quick thinking. "
From this point of view, it is not only Sister Bao who is good at Spring and Autumn, but also Sister Lin who is not weak at this point. Sister Bao sings a poem about crabs. There is no reason to be so smart. People are clearly criticizing crabs for their "black and yellow skin in spring and autumn". Words come from "appreciation" and are often used to describe people's behavior.
8. Yamazaki Calendar (Q and nqí Li Lu).
Meaning stands out from the crowd.
Source Article 20 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu * Rong Zhi
The original Zhou Boren said "On Huan Mao": "Yamazaki calendar is ridiculous." It's still a cloud thanking young people.
The story shows that from the meaning of this idiom, it is not easy to see what is "ridiculous", and this idiom comes from Rong Zhi, which seems to be taken out of context and does not describe Rong Zhi. However, the emergence of idioms has gone through a long period of time, and the meaning of idioms usually changes or extends. The former is like "it's hard for a brother to be fierce", while the latter is like "Yamazaki calendar". Structurally, it should be parallel structure; Literally, "Yamazaki" and "calendar autumn" have similar meanings, which probably means great difference, long distance, high and low. Sure enough, I looked up the meaning of "Yamazaki" separately, and it probably has the following four meanings: 1, which describes the rugged mountain road. 2, refers to the rugged mountain road. 3. Extension refers to difficulties and obstacles. 4. Still bumpy, sleepy and frustrated. In this way, you can also show a knowing smile-saying that Huan Maolun is too chiseled and looks too individual!
The outline of the extended face is deep, probably because of the lineage of the Hu people at that time. Didn't someone say it wasn't five flowers? Textbooks say that the Wei and Jin Dynasties were a period of great ethnic integration, and Hu-Han intermarriage was already very common, right? But people still like to talk about it. However, there is one person who is not afraid of this kind of ridicule, and that is the monk Kang Sengyuan of Yuzhangshan Temple in the Eastern Jin Dynasty. Article 20 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu Pai Diao has such a record: "Kangsang Garden has deep eyes and high nose. Every time the prime minister Wang Diao, monk Yuan said,' The nose is a mountain on the surface; The depth of eyes and face. If the mountain is not high, it is invalid, and if it is deep, it is unknown. ""Kang monk source ancestors are from the western regions, people with high nose and deep purpose are teased, not to mention the famous Huan family in the Eastern Jin Dynasty. But if it is such a high nose and deep eyes, it should still be very handsome.
Let's go back to this idiom. It is precisely because of this irregularity that the outline, personality or talent of describing faces stand out.
9, black and white
The meaning of the metaphor is clear. It also describes clear handwriting and pictures.
Article 15 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu (words)
In a casual sentence, Zhao Jingzhen said: "Your eyes are white and dark, and there is a Whitestorm. Your hatred is small and narrow." Zhao Yun: "The ruler can judge the degree of balance, and the inch tube can measure the reciprocating gas. Why bother, but ask how to listen. "
The story shows that Ji Kang is well-known in Ji Zhong San and a famous handsome guy in Shi Shuo Xin Yu. Zhao Zhi is eloquent. He once worked in Liaodong County and presided over judicial work, and is famous for his incorruptibility.
Tian Lei, who is familiar to everyone, was a famous soldier of Qin during the Warring States Period. His name is Wu Anjun, and it is said that his students are white and black. People think that such people must have brilliant ideas. Watches are the benchmark for observing astronomical phenomena. Guiheng, an ancient instrument for measuring astronomical phenomena, is an armillary sphere. Tube refers to the bamboo tube used to correct the rhythm of music in ancient times.
The handsome guy in the expansion, who was also an idol at that time, told his friends that your eyes are black and white, but unfortunately they are a little small. It is also an evaluation of the appearance of the characters. People in Wei and Jin Dynasties attached great importance to people's looks and manners. When they read the Book of Jin, they seldom mention celebrities without mentioning their looks and manners. During the Wei and Jin Dynasties, literati, perhaps including the whole society, generally appreciated the beauty of men's looks, on the contrary, they were relatively weak to women. But strangely, their pursuit of male appearance beauty tends to be feminine. For example, some words used to describe women's beauty in later generations are used to describe men in the world. For example, Jade Man, Wall Man. This is very common in Rong Zhi.
I remember when I was a child, when I was listening to storytelling, I often praised the boy's appearance and said, "I saw this man with a full heaven, a Fiona Fang angle, a wide mouth, a leopard's eyes, a nose hanging like a gallbladder and eyes like stars." Have a good look! "But for the popular idols of the world, it's time to change their words. It should be changed to: "See this person's skin is like coagulated fat, his lips are like vermilion, his face is like white jade under the moon, his waist is like willow in the wind, his mouth is musk, and his body is fragrant. What good skin at last! "This is very suitable for male idols in Wei and Jin Dynasties. However, if used on The Story Of Diu Sim MM, there is nothing wrong with it. Therefore, handsome men in Wei and Jin Dynasties, such as Pan An and Wei Jie, probably all looked like Baoyu in A Dream of Red Mansions.
In addition, Chad Dong Zhongshu has "The Story of the Spring and Autumn Period: The Right to Preserve a Position": There is a saying in the article "Black and white, and then people know where to go", so the most original source of black and white is probably this.
10, bitter plum on the roadside
It means mediocrity and uselessness.
Source: Article 4 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu
Wang Rong, a seven-year-old boy, tries to swim with all the children. On the roadside, Li Shu had many branches, and the children ran to pick them up, but they didn't move. People asked him and replied, "There are trees on the roadside, but there are many seeds, which will make plums bitter." Take it for granted
The story is about Wang Rong, a native of Langya, Shandong Province, and one of the seven sages of bamboo forest. The Wang family is a very prestigious family. From his kin, Wang Yan, Wang Cheng, Wang Dao, Wang Dun and other figures emerged one after another. They dominated the political stage of the eastern and western Jin governments, and were called the "Eight Kings", just like Fei's "Eight Fees", and they were also a famous clan in Shanxi.
As I said above, in the Wei and Jin Dynasties, whenever celebrities were mentioned, there were few words about looks. According to Le Monde, Wang Rong's appearance is described as "his eyes are rotten like rocks in summer", which means that his eyes are radiant and should be highly praised and described. However, this bright-eyed little guy-he was a middle-aged man in the celebrity group "Seven Sages of Bamboo Forest" at that time. Among the seven sages, Wang Rong is the youngest. He was twenty-nine years younger than Dan Tao, twenty-four years younger than Ruan Ji, and eleven years younger than Ji Kang-but he was called a vulgar thing by his brothers. Shi Shuo Xin Yu: "Ji, Ruan, Shan and Liu were drinking in the bamboo forest and went away. The infantry said,' It's disappointing that vulgar things are back!' Wang smiled and said, "If you are considerate, how can you overcome evil?" ""His so-called vulgarity is probably due to frugality. There are four articles about Wang Rong in Shi Shuo Xin Yu: frugality. Besides the idiom "love me very much" comes from the story of him and his wife, it is also because of his customs.
The above is Wang Rong as an adult. Let's go back to childhood in Wang Rong. Wang Rong has been called a "child prodigy" since he was a child. Article 6 of "Tales on Earth: Appreciation" has such a record: "Wang Junchong and Pei Shu are two people, and the total angle is Zhong Shiji. After a while, the guest asked Zhong, "Where is the second child?" Zhong You said:' Pei Kai has a clear-cut banner, and Wang Rong is short-lived. In another 20 years, these two sages will be ministers of the official department, and there is no backwardness in the world when Jill was in power.' "If not, Wang Rong's official career is very smooth, and he was later named Hou Feng. The Bitterness of the Roadside is a small proof that he has become a divine power. This story tells us that we should be good at thinking, not just looking at superficial phenomena, but looking at the essence through phenomena. This also shows that Wang Rong can be good at observation and reasoning, and see the internal relations of things through superficial phenomena. Conan, a famous detective in ancient China!
1 1, very much in love
Meaning Description Men and women are in love, very close and affectionate.
Source: Article 35 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu * Confused and drowned
Chang Qing An Feng, the former wife of Wang An Feng. An Feng said, "A woman is a husband, treat her with courtesy, and you can't reply later." The woman said, "I love you because of you. If I don't call, who will? " Listen to it.
See the story of Wang Rong in the last article.
According to etiquette, a woman should address her husband as "Jun" and "Qing" is her husband's address to his wife, which is why Wang Rong said "Politeness means disrespect".
The notes about the word "love" in Modern Chinese Dictionary are as follows: "In ancient times, lovers or close friends used to express their intimacy".
This explanation should start with Wang Rong's wife. In fact, "Qing" was originally the official name, and "three public and nine Qing" meant this. China, which later became the laudatory name of a man, has always been a country with official position since ancient times. Even the emperor standing above him was once called a "butler", but in feudal society, all the officials in power were men. Later, it became the title of the emperor to the minister. This is the meaning of "feeling clear and fair" that often appears in costume dramas on TV. Later, she became a woman's reputation, probably a tradition. Ancient literati in China always liked to compare themselves with concubines in the harem, adding fuel to the flames. The emperor called himself "Qing", so he claimed to be the woman he liked and had a Q-style emperor addiction. This is probably the reason for the so-called ceremony. Let's go
Article 3 of "Thrift" records: "Situ Wang Rong, who is both expensive and rich, is a district shepherd, extremely rich, and has a lot of contacts with his wife." Watching the couple singing together reminds me of his nephew Rebecca and his nephew's daughter-in-law. The nephew's daughter-in-law is also similar to Wang Rong's husband and wife. It is said that when you go out, you always ask the maid to bring some fertilizer that can be classified as livestock, but Wang hates its vulgarity and calls it "a plug" instead of Qian Qian. This is another allusion. Therefore, it is perfectly normal for the word "very much in love" to appear on Mr. and Mrs. Wang Rong.
As a pair of laymen, Wang Rong and his wife have made great contributions to enriching their lovers' vocabulary. Even revolutionaries yearn for chivalry, softhearted and willing to be with their lovers. For example, Mr. Lin Juemin, one of the 72 martyrs in Huanghuagang, whom we are familiar with, wrote the sentence "A shadow is as clear as nothing" in the Book of Wife. In fact, which relationship is not secular? Even if it is beyond the secular feelings, it is only for the secular people. This is why in so many fairy tales, immortals and fairies yearn for human life, right?
12, Su Jianyu (also called Su Jianyu or Su Jianyu)
It means two people whose appearance is out of proportion, which means ugliness and beauty can't be compared. After that, people with low status climb up and cling to people with high status. It is also often used as a courtesy, as a courtesy to lend others light.
Source Article 3 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu * Rong Zhi
It turned out that Wei Mingdi let Mao Zeng, the half-brother of Mao Zeng, sit with Xia Houxuan, and people called him "Jane is a perfect tree".
The story shows that glutinous rice is glutinous rice, glutinous rice is reed, and glutinous rice is reed without long spikes. Metaphor is humble and ugly. Yushu refers to the legendary immortal tree or a tree made of treasures, which is a metaphor for the beauty of appearance.
Xia Houxuan, whose word is too early, is young, knowledgeable and talented, especially proficient in metaphysics, and is known as one of the "Four Intellectuals". It is said that he is handsome, and he is a handsome man in Wei and Jin Dynasties who is as famous as Ji Kang and Pan Yue.
Expanding the gentry class and paying attention to manners became an important part of the romantic life in Wei and Jin Dynasties. Xia Houxuan, the newly appointed assistant minister of Huangmen, once sat side by side with Mao Zeng, the younger brother of the Queen, and thought it was a shame because it was too disproportionate. Wei Mingdi was very unhappy, so he was reduced to badminton supervisor.
Not only that, appearance can sometimes even be used to survive or do things. For example, in the 23rd episode, Tao Kan tried to kill Yu Liang because of the Soviet insurrection, but it was different after seeing Yu Liang. Jade's charm changed greatly when she saw Tao. ":Talking about banquets is very affectionate. "Visible, pay attention to Rong Zhi is the social fashion at that time. No wonder Xia Houxuan would rather offend the emperor's brother-in-law than sit with him. But handsome men like Xia Houxuan, Ji Kang and Pan Yue, their lives are not good.
13, nothing to lose.
There is nothing superfluous except itself, which means to live frugally. Most of them are used to describe extreme poverty.
Source Article 44 of Shi Shuo Xin Yu * Virtue
Wang Gong returned the original text of the meeting, and Wang Da took a look. Seeing him sitting on a six-foot pole, he respectfully said, "Dong Qing is from here. I should have this thing so that I can get it at once." Respectfully speechless. After you leave, give it to the person you are sitting on. Since there are no seats left, I will sit on the recommendation table. When he heard this, he was very surprised and said, "My name is Qing, so I ask for an ear." Yes, I said, "if you are disrespectful, you will get nothing."
The story shows that Wang Gong, named Xiao Bo, was born in a noble family and was incorruptible. His sister is the empress of Sima Yao, the Emperor of Jin Xiao. But as a relative of the country, Wang Gong was never proud of it, but treated others with an equal attitude and lived frugally, which won the praise of the world. When Emperor Jin 'an rose up against the Imperial Palace, he was killed. Wang Da, Wang Chen, nicknamed Foda, also known as Ada, is similar in age to Wang Chen, but Wang Chen is superior to the princes in seniority, so the princes respectfully call Wang Chen their elders.
Mushrooms (diàn), bamboo mats. The usage of the word Qing has been explained in the article Qing Qing Me. During the Six Dynasties, symmetrically, it was also used to address the younger generation to respect the older generation, or to affectionately address acquaintances of the same generation. Recommended, straw mat.
Expanding this idiom brings me two thoughts.
First of all, as the ruler of the public, he should learn from the integrity and rigor of the princes.
Compared with the ancients, modern people's needs and desires for materials are completely different. The development of social productive forces and the great abundance of materials have greatly changed people's living standards, and the demand for materials and the desire to improve living standards are beyond reproach. But if you are in an important position and abuse power for personal gain, you should not. Such people should think more about teacher Chen's sentence, "If you don't reach out, you will be caught as soon as you reach out."
Secondly, as ordinary people, we should also learn from Wang Gong's simplicity and frugality, "We have nothing to gain", protect resources and the environment and adhere to the concept of sustainable development.
Thrift is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Since ancient times, we have had the saying "frugality to cultivate one's morality, quietness to cultivate one's morality". Thrift can not only reduce unnecessary waste, but also be a way for us to cultivate morality. At the same time, it also reflects a person's attitude towards things around him from one side. It is not cynical and insatiable, but knows how to cherish it, even giving up who I am.
14, bamboo sawdust
It means thick head, and the bamboo head is close to the root. Bamboo head and sawdust are metaphors of subtle things. Later, it can be compared to abandoned substances.
Shi Shuo Xin Yu article 16 (politics)
Tao Gong is strict with himself. When I was in Jingzhou, the ship officer recorded sawdust, not limited to how much. Salty doesn't understand this meaning. The snow will clear up after the meeting, and it will still be wet after snow removal in advance. It is harmless to cover it with sawdust. Officials use bamboo to make records thick and accumulate mountains. After Huan Xuan attacked Shu by force, he transported it and learned to nail it. There is another cloud, where it is still enough to taste a penny. It is used by super second order.
The story shows that Tao Kan was a native of Jin Dynasty and the great-grandfather of Tao Yuanming, a famous writer at the end of Jin Dynasty. Because he was always loyal to the rulers of the Western Jin Dynasty, he was named "Changsha Gong" and worshipped as a general. He lives frugally, cherishes time and saves materials. When the feet, such as copper iron feet. Spare bamboo poles with iron parts wrapped around their heads are iron feet. Tao Kan used bamboo roots instead of iron feet, which not only made good painting materials, but also saved iron feet. He himself advocates frugality and takes it as the criterion for selecting people. "Have a taste of where the penny is. It's enough to have a long one. It is used for the second order. " Thus, Tao Kan's frugality is out of the need of governing the country.
To expand, this is another story about saving resources and persisting in sustainable development. Not only save, but also make the best use of things and people. Only the last meaning is mentioned here.
Bamboo scraps look like waste, but people who make good use of them can turn them into magic. So, how many people are there? Nothing in the world is abandoned, and no one is wasted! So we should treat others with tolerance and treat ourselves with confidence. Don't be disgusted with people, things and things, be patient and don't give up. Recognizing this, we can foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, stay away from pessimism and depression, bravely face all kinds of hardships and turn them into a godsend. When you are frustrated, you may wish to say "Are we Artemisia?" "Since God has given talents, let them find jobs! , spin a thousand silver, all come back! " !