1, a successful life is a perfect life. A successful life is a life of hard work, a life without regrets, a life with clear goals and fighting for them, and a life that will seize opportunities. Harvard University has made a scientific and systematic investigation and verification of success in life, and holds that success in life must have three elements: one is macro-management ability, the other is practical operation ability, and the third is interpersonal communication ability. The first two only account for 15-20%, and the latter accounts for 80-85%. This is strikingly similar to the formula of an investigation experiment conducted by China and Tsinghua University: success = 15% knowledge and skills +85% interpersonal relationship. The interpersonal relationship here does not mean the usual vulgar worldly wisdom, but the ability to control life, adjust life and solve contradictions. Everyone wants to succeed, but they often think that success is out of reach. In fact, a successful life starts from bit by bit, and success is very close to us. If you want to succeed step by step, you must start from now and achieve the "five skills", that is, you can laugh, listen, speak, do and think. As long as you want to succeed, as long as you work hard, as long as you succeed a little every day, a successful life will be closer and closer to you! 2, the fable of the hoop A hoop accidentally lost a part of itself. So he desperately searched for the missing part. But because I am not round, I roll slowly. But because of this, it saw flowers and plants that were rarely noticed on weekdays and made friends with them. Hard work paid off, and one day, it found the missing part. With it, although it is perfect, it will run very fast and can no longer talk to flowers and plants. ...
3. Churchill's weakness Churchill's speech skills impressed the world, and his speech wording, tone and gestures revealed extraordinary courage and strength. In the most difficult period of World War II, the spiritual pillar of British soldiers and civilians was almost Churchill's daily radio address. But who knows that Churchill was particularly shy when he was young, and he blushed when he spoke. When he determined his lofty goals and ambitions, he was determined to overcome this shortcoming. A few years later, his demeanor was amazing.
4. Washington's Tooth 1784, that is, five years before Washington became the president of the United States, he almost lost his tooth at the age of 52. He asked the dentist to implant nine teeth in his mouth, and all nine teeth were actually pulled out from the mouths of his slaves. This is what historians have just discovered in archaeology. Washington, the hero who once liberated slaves, suddenly slipped into our hearts, and we seemed to see the stain on the holy robe. But if you think about it carefully, it is not surprising to put yourself in the social background at that time. Yes, we regard a person as a saint because we don't know him well enough, so we can only look at him from a distance, paint him with various colors in our hearts, and then lower our heads to increase his height. In this sense, we should thank Washington for its imperfection.
Li, the incorrigible king of the Western Zhou Dynasty, lived in luxury and oppressed the people cruelly. At that time, there was a loyal minister named KATTO, who often risked his life to remonstrate and hoped that Li Neng would turn over a new leaf. But instead of being ignored by Li Wang, he was laughed at by ministers. When KATTO saw the country's declining situation, he was particularly anxious, so he wrote a poem to warn these villains. The main idea of the poem is: it's not that I'm old, but that you treat your troubles as a joke. When troubles haven't come, they can be prevented; However, once there are more and more troubles, it is like a flame burning, and there is no remedy. Sure enough, people soon drove Zhou Liwang to a far away place and never let him come back.
6. The inspiration of Haier In the eyes of many people in China, Haier, a successful enterprise, is already very powerful and remarkable. However, a reporter who has followed Haier for many years said that among the many enterprises he contacted, Haier's "sense of hardship" was correct. Zhang Ruimin, CEO of Haier Group, often said, "You are walking on thin ice." An enterprise with an average annual growth rate of 8 1.6% in 16 and an annual sales income of more than 40 billion yuan is well-known not only at home but also abroad, and it is worth our deep thinking. According to Zhang Ruimin, their strategy of marching into China is simple: winner takes all. Their goal is not to leave you any market or territory. Needless to say, many of our enterprises, not to mention small and weak enterprises, are outstanding people like Haier. Compared with the world's top 500 companies, there is still a gap, and we dare not relax and slack off. Face up to the seriousness of the challenge realistically, fully estimate the strength and difficulty of competitors, think at the worst, and work hard, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.
7. A woman from a certain country came to a primary school in China and asked five children to cooperate to do one thing. The lady took out a bottle with five balls in it, and each ball was held by a rope. The lady said to the five children, "Each of you must pull a small ball out of the bottle within 7 seconds, or you will be drowned by the water in the bottle." Remember, there is only room for a small ball here. Whoever throws the ball slowly is in danger of drowning. "One of the five children thought for a moment, then whispered a few words to the other four children, and then made a gesture to the woman, indicating that she had been instructed. The lady said, "Go! "I saw the youngest child pull the ball out first, then the second, third and fourth balls, and finally the children of that age pulled it out. All five balls were pulled out in 7 seconds. The lady was stunned by the behavior of China's children, and then shed tears of excitement. She said: "I have done this experiment several times in other countries, and all the children are struggling to pull it out." As a result, no one could get out and drowned in it. China's children are amazing! "
8. Hilton Group enjoys a high reputation in the world hotel industry, with more than 200 towering and spectacular high-rise buildings around the world. Hilton Group can be in an invincible position in the fierce competition. The most commendable reason is that the Hilton Group is United from top to bottom. Donald Hilton once said, "I may be the luckiest person in Texas. This blessing comes from friendship and like-minded partners. I hope my life will be long. "
9. Chen Chong, a movie actress and housewife, described her life like this: "Everything in life is trivial. In fact, I am a housewife in my life. I have a husband and two children ... I may have been very concerned about my career when I was young, but I am really calm now. What I care about most now is the people around me. As long as they live well and still love me, I will be happy. "
10, Zhao Benshan Eight Roles Scores During Zhao Benshan's dramatic life, he also played many roles, such as chairman, NPC deputy, husband, father and friend. On the recording scene of Art Life, Zhao Benshan won eight roles in his life. Film and television actors: 70 points; Essay star: 80 points; Director and producer: 70 points; Deputies to the National People's Congress: 80 points; Chairman: 50 points; Father and husband: 10; Friend: 80 points
1 1. Russian newspaper reporter Cerca Xi, a descendant of Marx, took a taxi on the streets of London and found that the driver's appearance was very distinctive: thick black beard. What surprised the reporter most was the small portrait of Karl Marx hanging on the car, set in a delicate copper frame. The reporter asked, "Are you a Marxist?" The driver didn't answer the reporter's question, but handed in a business card. The reporter saw Anthony Marx's name and asked, "Do you have the same surname?" The driver smiled and said, "Don't you think we look alike?" When the reporter looked carefully, it was indeed similar to the appearance of the founder of proletarian theory. The driver said flatly, "He is my great grandfather. His daughter is my great grandmother ... "The reporter asked," What did you inherit from him? " Anthony smiled and touched his beard and said, "I inherited it." He took out a book Das Kapital with many bookmarks. The reporter asked while turning over the book: "Do you still remember a questionnaire for Marx? When answering a question about what is your favorite thing to do, he said reading. Maybe you like reading, too? " He replied, not really. I like cleaning the garden and the car. We only have one thing in common, that is, we like drinking beer.
12, Chen Yi: Marshal Chen Yi, who made great contributions to the cause of people's liberation in China, served as Deputy Prime Minister and Foreign Minister of the State Council shortly after liberation, and his work was very busy. 1962, when he came back from a visit abroad, he passed by his hometown and took time to visit his seriously ill old mother. Rola Chen's mother is paralyzed in bed and can't take care of herself. Mother was very happy when Chen Yi came into the room. She is about to say hello to her son. Suddenly, she remembered that the changed diaper was still beside the bed, and she motioned the people around her to hide under the bed. When Chen Yi saw this, he quickly said, "Mom, you have been ill in bed for a long time, and I'm sorry that I can't wait on you. I should wash these pants, why should I hide them? " Mom was embarrassed, and the people next to her quickly took out the diapers and rushed to wash them. Chen Yi quickly stopped him and said emotionally, "Mom, when I was a child, you didn't know how many times you washed my diaper. I washed 10 diapers today, and I can't repay your kindness! " Say that finish, Rola Chen took diapers and other dirty clothes to wash, and mother smiled with relief.
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1, Mr. Lu Xun said: "Genius is not a monster born and raised in the deep forest wilderness, but is produced and cultivated by people who can make genius grow, so without such people, there is no genius." If someone thinks that he is very talented and can break through the world by himself, without paying attention to the cooperation with society and others, it is bound to make a "trip". People with real brains will understand that to succeed, one must consider various factors, learn from various examples, cooperate with various people and cooperate with various environments in order to succeed. Therefore, Russian educational experts put forward the latest educational theory-cooperative pedagogy. Teachers and students establish a brand-new cooperative partnership in the field of education, carry out research-based learning, and forge ahead harmoniously in the ocean of knowledge. ("Talking about Cooperation") 2. You can feel the youthful intoxication described by Zhu Ziqing in Plum Rain Pool, and you can also listen to the answer between Liu Lang and Huang Li in the West Lake. You can bridge the water, or you can lean your horse in the west wind. You can stand alone in the desert, holding a sword in your hand, and feel the solemn and stirring of "the wind is rustling and Shui Han is bleak". You can also enjoy flowers and write rhymes at the bow with a brush in your hand, and appreciate the leisure of "no need to go home in a drizzle". From the Western Regions to the East China Sea, from Shuobei to Jiangnan, the beautiful scenery adds a touch of dazzling color to the world.
Throughout the ages, "sincerity" has always been the basis for mutual appreciation of each other's great achievements, regardless of Confucianism, Legalism or Laozi and Zhuangzi. "Honesty" and "honesty" always appear as the most important virtues of a gentleman. Ancient books are full of stories about kings ruling the country with sincerity, and princes gaining scholars with sincerity. Zhu Gekongming was deeply impressed by Xin Lingjun's honesty, which made him sit up and take notice of the world. In Liangshan, those heroes, who came as scheduled, fought for integrity, and their lofty sentiments were even written into the names of talents, which touched countless literati.
Honesty is respect for others, affirmation of the past and, more importantly, affirmation of the future. With "sincerity" on your back, you will have a sense of responsibility, which is a requirement for yourself. "Honesty" is a backpack. If we carry it on our backs, we will inevitably face a possibility, a possibility of being abandoned, deceived, even vilified and used. But honesty will definitely give you a relaxed and aboveboard life. ("Inconvenient Honesty")
4. With it, there is a "one word from a gentleman, but it is hard to catch up with an old horse", a "red rabbit rouge beast" riding before the five links, and a "three worlds family" sitting on the top of Juyitang, raising the banner of justice in the wind. Because of honesty, the "Rishengchang" born in Pingyao Town has opened semicolons all over the country, bringing together half of China's wealth. It is precisely because of the good faith agreement with the broad masses of the people that the microwave in Nanhu, Jiaxing and the spark in Jinggangshan finally merged into huge waves and raging fires, sweeping the ancient land of China. A young political party has gone through a long journey of 80 years. (the call of the Millennium)
5. The reason why human beings can walk out of savagery, get rid of ignorance and step into civilization is that human beings have endless hopes.
Liang Qichao once said, "Where there is hope, people are different from animals, civilization is different from barbarism, and heroes are different from ordinary people." Hope brings people endless confidence, courage and strength, and inspires people to overcome difficulties and hardships. I hope that human beings can overcome nature, self, light and life. Before the expedition, Alexander, the ruler of ancient Greece, presented all the gold and silver treasures, land estates and so on to the general. A minister asked inexplicably, "Your Majesty, you have divided all the property, so? What do you keep for yourself? " Alexander replied: "I keep my hope for myself, it will give me endless wealth!" " "Alexander is impressively displayed in ancient and modern times, hoping to bring him endless power. In the Western Han Dynasty, Zhang Qian went to the Western Regions and was stopped by the Huns. After a narrow escape, he still had hope and finally overcame all difficulties and returned home in triumph. Shi Kefa, Tan Sitong, Qiu Jin, Li Dazhao, Jie Jiang ... Too many heroes shed their heads, shed their blood and tried their best to die. It is the persistent belief that hopes come true that gives them great courage and strength. It is people's hope to cheer up and struggle hard in danger and despair; It is hoped that human beings will live forever and March forward on the road of history forever. ("On Hope")
6. I think Chinese is the rising sun, bursting out and shining; Chinese is a dew that refuses to drop for a long time on the tip of a grass, crystal clear and agile; Chinese is a bloody sunset on the horizon at dusk, reflecting travelers and dyeing mountains and rivers. China is the peony of the ancient capital Luoyang. Chinese is a quiet lotus pond under the night star; Chinese is the silent Leng Yue outside the pavilion by the ancient road; China people are those black eyes that see the world clearly and look for light. China people are egrets in the blue sky; It is the white sail of Chiba on the edge of the sinking boat; It was a fishing boat that broke through the glass wrinkles in Wan Li on the vast sea of Qinhuangdao. The language is the roar of Zhang Fei at Dangyang Bridge. Chinese is the wind and fire that the heroes of the Water Margin broke into China; Language is the petal of Lin Daiyu's tears. (Hebei examinee "The Last Lesson")
7. Qu Zixing, a gaunt figure, waddled towards us by the Miluo River; Li Bai, whose clothes are fluttering, is singing to the sky with wine and running towards us. In the ancient historical and cultural process, our nation once had too many glories and memories. If memory can be transplanted, I would like my folks to remember the suffering and glory of the Chinese nation forever, remember how our solemn ancestors trudged from the grassy ancient Yellow River valley to today's difficult journey, and remember the sons and daughters of the ancient civilization that we are still proud of today ... (Hubei examinee "Remember the suffering and glory of the nation-if memory can be transplanted")
8. If memory can be transplanted, then I want Sanmao to wander the world freely; I want poplars to still care about the true feelings of our country and our people between laughter and scolding; I want the pride of Mr. Lu Xun, the determination and courage of "I recommend Xuanyuan with blood"; Zhang Haidi's vitality, Zhuge Liang's wisdom ... (Shaanxi examinee "If memory can be transplanted")
9. "People can't be defeated. You can destroy him, but you can't beat him. " Every time I see this famous saying, I think of a picture of a small fishing boat and a fishing boat driven by an old fisherman on the rough sea. The old man is fighting sharks with his bronze body and iron arms, waving paddles. Splashed waves, sprinkled on the old man's body, shoot the afterglow of the sunset. This is Santiago, Hemingway's famous iron skeleton. ("I want to hold my destiny by the throat")
10, the first time I saw cotton, I was deeply moved by it. Cotton, also known as kapok, is a woody plant. When it comes to cotton, the first impression is "straight", and the straight trunk is towering into the sky. No cotton tree is curved and long, and no cotton tree is short and multi-branched. Rows, rows, like many determined soldiers stand tall. The first feeling of understanding cotton bolls is "tenacity". Cotton trees are not afraid of drought, waterlogging, cold and heat, and can recover as soon as possible even if they suffer from pests. Therefore, no matter how hard this year is, the next year will also be full of red cotton trees, as beautiful as the sunset. (Tianjin examinee "I would like to be a cotton tree in this life")
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1. Chun Yukun learned eloquence (self-confidence, self-improvement, self-motivation, never judge a book by its cover, gain and loss). 2. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, defeated Wu (this is more popular, ambitious, self-reliant, fearless, hardworking, ambitious, winning with less and never underestimating the enemy (writing the opposite)).
3. Qi Xuan was undoubtedly recommended by seven people (trust, confidence and courage).
4, Duanmu Ci (Zigong) has seven vertical and horizontal, defending Lu, destroying Wu, strengthening Jin, dominating Yue and chaos. In the past ten years, the world situation has changed. (eloquence, interest, self-confidence, ability, means, crisis, alliance)
5. Wang Zengqi, I am carefree and free from dust (quiet and indifferent, such as Lin Bu)
6, Hu Shizhi virtuous mother teaching (female virtuous talents, environmental impact) ...)
7. Roosevelt resolutely carried out the New Deal and Deng Xiaoping Ce Tian reformed.
8. Dong Zhongshu did not peek into the garden for three years (studious, dedicated, persistent and ambitious)
9. Ruan Sizong (Ruan Ji) talks about the seven sages of bamboo forest. (same as Tao Yuanming)