1, refers to what women say. Woman is a Chinese noun, which refers to ancient women. According to the records in volume 39 of Hanshu, women at that time can also refer to unmarried adult women, not just married female spouses. The Tao here is talking.
2, refers to the way of women. It is some norms that a woman needs to follow after marrying someone else's wife, such as filial piety to her in-laws, raising children, hospitality and harmonious cooking. Generally speaking, a woman's way is to follow her father at home, marry her husband and die with her husband.