Standing and sitting, parents have said since childhood, we should pay attention to manners, what we do, standing and sitting. This can give people a more spiritual feeling, but also can be strict with themselves, so as to have a good habit. Stand, stand, sit, sit.
Standing, standing, sitting, sitting 1 Among the etiquette requirements of the Chinese nation, "standing and sitting" is the most basic requirement for a person's behavior.
"Stand in a position"
Standing is one of the most basic behaviors in people's life, work and communication. The correct standing posture is to stand straight, steady, natural and kind. Keep your upper body upright, your head straight, your face smiling, your chin slightly retracted, your shoulders flat, your chest straight, your arms naturally drooping, your legs upright, your feet together, and your toes V-shaped. Women's feet can be close together and their muscles contract slightly.
If you stand for too long, you can alternately retreat with your left foot or right foot, but your upper body must be straight, your outstretched feet should not be too far, your legs should not be crossed too much, and you should not change them too often.
When standing, if the whole body is not straight enough, the legs are too wide, the feet move freely, and the posture is listless and baggy, it will be considered indecent or impolite.
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"Sit in a sitting position"
Sitting posture includes sitting posture and sitting posture. When you sit down, be gentle and slow. Go to your seat, turn around and sit down gently and steadily, and don't make any noise. A lady should pull her skirt forward by hand. After sitting down, keep your upper body straight, your head straight, and look straight at the person in front or talking to you. The chair back is slightly closer to the chair back. On formal occasions, or when there are distinguished people present, you can't be full. Generally, it only takes up 2/3 of the seats. Hands palms down, stacked on legs, legs naturally bent, legs basically perpendicular to the ground, feet flat on the ground, the distance between the knees. Men should put one or two punches, and women should not put them. In informal situations, allow your legs to be stacked or tilted after sitting down. When overlapping, try to get close to the knee.
No matter what kind of sitting posture, you should relax naturally and smile.
In social situations, don't lean back or look down at the ground; The body should not lean forward and backward, or lean to one side; There should be no unnecessary movements with your hands. Don't spread your legs too wide, don't put your calves on your thighs, and don't straighten or shake your legs repeatedly. These are all manifestations of lack of education and arrogance.
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"Harmony and truth": it is normal that walking belongs to Yang, sitting belongs to Yin, and Yang takes the initiative while Yin dominates quietness.
Move as yang, static as yin, and move as static. As the Book of Changes says, "Stop, stop." People should also sit and stand when they are quiet.
1. Husbands and nobles stand like horses and sit like mountains. Long-term upright people, sedentary people and straight people will be rich and live long.
The ancients believed that a good standing posture is straight waist and straight legs, not crooked shoulders. Don't sway from side to side when standing in front of people. Standing for a long time, the body does not waver, and the body does not bend when turning around. Such people are full of energy and carefree.
The ancients sat up and paid attention to stability, but they were not straight or stiff, but like a bow, ready to go, slowly and steadily, and slowly got up. The so-called "sitting like a rock, rising like a cloud."
Sedentary, but not tired, sitting in a disorderly manner. Such people live a long life. The so-called "sit and watch the spirit for a long time, straight waist, rich and healthy."
2. It is not good to shake your knees, swing your waist, and sit and shift the frequency.
Some people are always dishonest when sitting or standing, and like to shake their legs. This is a failure. As the saying goes, "men are poor and women are cheap", shaking their legs and shoulders makes people look frivolous, and it also shakes their blessings and wealth.
Every time you sit down, your heart is like a monkey.
Sit down and like to keep your head down. Such people have a lot of thoughts, are relatively hidden, are always thinking about problems, and are as alert as monkeys.
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Walk with wisdom.
There is a folk saying that "taking a crooked road" is somewhat biased, but it reminds us that when taking a crooked road, people will expose more inner things when moving. People should know the "phase", not only when they are still, but also when they are walking.
Legend has it that Bruce Lee, a martial artist, was a disciple of Ip Man in his early years. Ip Man was overjoyed when he first saw him. He was a martial arts wizard and immediately agreed to accept it.
But after a while, Ip Man looked at Bruce Lee with regret and anxiety, and some disciples were puzzled.
Ip Man explained that when Bruce Lee walked, his heel did not touch the ground, and he had no foundation, which was short-lived. What a pity!
Sure enough, although Bruce Lee is famous all over the world, it's a pity that he died young and lived only 33 years old.
In the Book of Changes, it is enough to do divination, because the feet are moving and shaking.
The divination is the image of the upper two yin hexagrams and the lower one yang hexagrams, so be steady.
It is said that at the end of Qing Dynasty, Li Hongzhang wanted to choose a protege as an assistant, so he invited a fortuneteller to see his protege.
I didn't expect Mr. physiognomy to carefully observe the shoes they were wearing. Li Hongzhang felt very strange.
Mr physiognomy explained: "It depends not only on the face, but also on the heel. People who can't keep up with their feet are definitely not reliable. "
1. "Ma Yixiang Law": The wolf is close to the tiger, the machine is deep, and the heart is difficult to understand.
A wolf walks like a wolf, constantly looking around and looking back from time to time.
A tiger kiss means gritting your teeth and walking with tight facial muscles.
It stands to reason that you don't have to talk with your mouth when you walk, and your facial expression should be stretched. If your face is tense, it means that you have something on your mind and are still thinking about things when you walk.
Kissers are suspicious, changeable, heartless and unscrupulous.
People who have committed heinous crimes in history are often described as wolves kissing tigers, such as Sima Yi in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms.
2. "Truth and Truth": Those who walk and bow their heads are evil.
Generally speaking, people who like to walk with their heads down are not necessarily bad people, but most of them are annoying, often people with bent stomachs and many intestines.
There is a folk saying that "a radish and a purple garlic, a wife looks up and bows her head", which is called "four poisons". It means that women who go to heaven and men who go to the ground are often ruthless and tough guys.
It's pitiful that a snake jumps for joy. Mo Wen is famous for his money in Mo Wen.
Snakes move from side to side, twisting their forward posture. Therefore, when people walk, their bodies and arms swing too much.
Jumping, that is, "bird step", refers to walking and jumping, or stumbling and irregular steps.
Most of the people who jump out of a snake are people with ulterior motives who have done nothing from beginning to end.
Of course, the above is just my little knowledge of the Book of Changes!
Sixty-four hexagrams of the Book of Changes, each of which is a life script. It helps you infer the result of your choice;
Many things, seemingly lucky, are actually traceable.
One should read the Book of Changes all his life.
The wisdom in the Book of Changes is worth learning at any time.
For ordinary people, the Book of Changes is an ancient book for practicing good fortune! If you are confused about life, read it.
There has been a saying among the people that "I ching in hand is not afraid to travel all over the world"! In the eyes of the ancients, the reason why the Book of Changes is extensive and profound is that it is all-encompassing. There are 64 hexagrams in the Book of Changes, which correspond to 64 life decision-making methods, and clarify the basic development laws of marriage, family, education and workplace.
People in this world really need to spend some time reading the Book of Changes to fully understand the great wisdom inside, which may give you an epiphany.
It can teach us how to act according to the law, make the right choice, and how to make our life rich. No matter for business, politics, study or being a parent, you can find ways to solve different problems and crises.