There is a mother of a two-year-old boy who asks her children to study Chinese studies with her every day. Mother herself is not interested in Chinese studies. Once, my mother took her children to read The Analects of Confucius and just read a few words. The child said, "Mom, I'm not going to read The Analects, but I'm going to read Disciples Rules. "My mother said, OK, I'll read Disciples Rules." The child read a few words and said, "Mom, I'm not going to read Disciples' Rules, but I'd better read the Three-Character Classics." My mother said, "All right. Why do you want to drink water again? " "I want to drink water", "well, drink the water and continue to watch". After drinking the water, the child shouted "Mom, I have to pee".
The mother's way makes children feel that reading is a painful thing, and children will hate reading. Because she didn't choose books suitable for children to read according to their actual situation, the two-year-old child has not established a written foundation, so she can't understand such profound content. Choosing different books for children of different ages can cultivate children's reading interest step by step.
Create a good environment for children to learn to read under the influence.
Books are not made for reading. They need nurture to understand reading. However, many parents have a wrong idea that children's task is to read, and they regard reading as their natural ability. Under this wrong ideological trend, many parents force their children to study by "forcing them to do it".
Some parents have no habit of reading. After returning home, they either watch TV to kill time or play computer games to amuse themselves. Some like to play mahjong and cards, some go out for entertainment, let alone study, and even have no time to spend with their children. Children who grow up in this environment rarely have the habit of reading.
Internet not only shortens the distance of space, but also condenses the information from all over the world into a small computer, so you can get all kinds of information without leaving home. The convenience of this information is also full of many shortcomings, one of which is that it is difficult for many people to find a decent book in their own homes.
If children want to love reading, parents should first like reading, and at least have the habit of reading. Keep bookshelves and bookcases at home and buy some useful books regularly. Couples often discuss the contents of books. After a long time, children will be influenced by their parents and read books automatically.
Go to the library and bookstore to choose books with your children.
Many parents [Weibo] like to buy books for their children and read books online, which is different from buying books in bookstores and reading books in libraries. Although the internet is time-saving and convenient, children can't see the contents of books intuitively, and buying books online has a strong purpose and goes straight to the goal, losing the opportunity to learn about other books. The most important thing is that the parents are buying books, but the children's hearts go to the game site.
Taking children to bookstores and libraries often is an effective way for children to develop reading habits. Children can choose their favorite books to read, and they can see the contents of books intuitively, which is very selective. If children have the habit of going to libraries and bookstores15:192014-6-19, then,
Have a fixed time to listen and share your child's reading experience.
For various reasons, there are few opportunities for communication between family members, especially between parents and children, which is one of the reasons for the problems between children and parents. Due to the reduction of communication time, the feelings between parents and children are gradually fading. In fact, while sharing reading experience, it also provides an opportunity for family members to communicate.
No matter how busy you are at ordinary times, you should have fixed time to discuss the contents of the book with your children and listen to their stories. In the process of telling stories, children will exercise their language organization ability, collide with new knowledge points in communication with their parents, and share stories with their parents. At the same time, children can realize that sharing what they know with others is also a kind of happiness. Slowly, children will build up self-confidence, and self-confidence will be transformed into strength, prompting children to read more books and accumulate more knowledge.