More than two thousand years ago, a wise man said: When we are down and out, we will get close to these three kinds of people (wise man, self and family), and our luck will turn. This wise man is Guiguzi, a representative figure of Taoism in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, and his thoughts are very applicable now. He is a famous philosopher, thinker and founder of vertical and horizontal schools in China, and his thought is also an outstanding representative of China's traditional studies, which we should inherit and carry forward.
In my personal understanding, what should I do when I am down and out? I think we can do the following three things:
1. Talk to the wise. When we are in difficulties and confusion, we may be suddenly enlightened by listening to the advice of experienced and intelligent people around us. The so-called bystanders are clear, and the authorities are confused. If someone gives you a little pull, you will become less confused.
2. Self-reflection. When we are down and out, we should reflect on ourselves. Why is this happening? What's the problem? Although sometimes, when we are down and out, we will feel depressed and have no interest in anything, but we should also face it positively and optimistically. There is no hurdle that can't be crossed. Only by surviving can we usher in the dawn.
Confucius and his disciples once said, "I save my life three times a day." They also grew up through constant reflection, summed up their experience and eventually became masters. We often know very little about ourselves. When we are down and out, we just complain more than reflect, which will make you more confused when we are down and out.
We should always reflect on ourselves and avoid stepping on the pit, so that you won't be confused and confused, and finally you can get out of the trough and get what you want.
3. Be closer to your family. When we don't get along well outside, when we are down and out, home is our warm harbor. When we are helpless outside, your family is your backup force and the object of your help.
Each of us grew up in a family. When you grow up, you have to bear certain social responsibilities when you travel. Wherever you go, your family will always be your harbor. No matter how lonely you are outside, your family will always be your refuge.
The so-called "home and everything" family harmony is the basis of everything we do. No matter whether we have money or not, we should always go home and have a look.
But many people ignore this. I was wronged outside, and I didn't tell my family that I was struggling alone, for fear that my parents at home would worry. In fact, this idea is wrong. They are more worried if they don't contact their families. So whether you have money or not, keep in touch with your family.
In this society, many people don't like to contact their families, even if they encounter difficulties outside. Some people fail to start a business abroad, instead of helping their families, they borrow usury to get credit cards, which makes them depressed and even completely collapse.
Family is the role that helps us when we are in the most difficult time. As long as the whole family Qi Xin works together, there is nothing that can't be solved, instead of fighting alone. Because you are not an individual, you are closely connected with your family.
What should we do when we are down and out? Talking with wise men can give us directions, reflect on ourselves, know our own shortcomings and be close to our families, and help us tide over the difficulties. Dear friends, what do you think of Guiguzi's idea?