Yan Zhitui: Brothers, fractal and even angry people, young, left behind by their parents with their forearms tied, eat the same, dress the same, learn the same and swim the same. Although people in chaos can't help falling in love. And strong, each wife, each son, although there are honest people, not much decline.
Fan Zhongyan: Filial piety should be done, loyalty and courage should be sincere; Brothers help each other and have boundless compassion. Diligently read sages' books and respect teachers; Don't be rude, you will admire your neighbor. Respect the old and the young, and sympathize with the lonely and the poor; Modest and honest, never proud. Don't waste paper, we must protect the five hubs; Do things according to nature and cherish life. Eight virtues in life, self-cultivation and service to the Lord God; Sun Jian's heart is guarded, and a home is a good root.
Su Xun: Entering is filial piety to parents; Be at peace with your neighbors when you leave. If you have questions and answers, you must improve your body here. Don't be ridiculous, don't be arrogant. Don't call the number on the table, just ask respectfully. Old people eat first, then walk.
Ji Xiaolan: One commandment is (late); Second, quit being lazy; Three commandments of luxury; Under the temptation is pride. Observe under temptation and observe four rules: First, study hard; Second, it is right to respect teachers; Three righteousness and love for the masses; Fourth, we should eat carefully.
2. What are the ancient poems about family style and family precepts? 1. Reading at Winter Night-Song Luyou.
The ancients learned nothing, and it takes time to grow old.
What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do.
The ancients spared no effort in their studies, and often achieved nothing when they were old. After all, the knowledge gained from books is not perfect. If you want to understand the truth deeply, you must practice it yourself.
2. "Xiuer"-Song Dynasty: Lu You
I know that when I die, everything on earth has nothing to do with me. But the only thing that hurts me is that I failed to see the reunification of the motherland.
Therefore, when the great Song Jun team recaptures the Central Plains, you will hold a home banquet ceremony. Don't forget to tell me the good news!
I know that when I die, everything in the world has nothing to do with me; But the only thing that makes me sad is that I didn't see the reunification of the motherland with my own eyes. So, don't forget to tell me the good news when Song Jun recovers the lost land in the Central Plains and you hold a family sacrifice!
3, a porridge and a meal, it is not easy to think about it; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources. -Zhu Bolu's "Zhu Zi Family Instructions" in the late Ming and early Qing Dynasties
Interpretation: For a bowl of porridge or a meal, think hard; For half-silk or half-thread clothes, we should always remember that it is very difficult to produce these materials.
4, the strictness of father and son, can not be embarrassed; Love with flesh and blood, not Jane. Jane doesn't accept filial piety, but she is lazy. -Yan Zhitui's "Yan Family Instructions" in the Northern and Southern Dynasties
Interpretation: father and son should be serious, but they should not be neglected; There should be love between flesh and blood, but it should not be simple. If Jane is slow, filial piety will not be done well, and there will be neglect of discipline and neglect.
5, the way of self-study, it is difficult to raise the heart; It is difficult to raise your heart, but you should also be cautious. -Zeng Guofan's "Zeng Guofan's admonition" in the Qing Dynasty
Interpretation: The most difficult thing to cultivate one's morality is to cultivate one's mind. The most difficult thing to cultivate one's mind is to think carefully, speak carefully and act cautiously when one is alone.
3. Ancient poems about family rules and family instructions 1. People have ancestors, and Shui Mu has its origins, which should not be forgotten.
The grace of parents is the same as heaven and earth. Translated from Huang Tingjian's Family Rules of the Song Dynasty: Everyone has ancestors, just like running water, and trees have roots, which cannot be forgotten.
The grace of parents' upbringing is boundless. 2. The people the Father loves are kind; Filial piety is also the most precious thing for children; People who are brothers are friends; Everyone my brother loves is respected.
-Excerpted from the translation of Family Instructions by Zhu Xi in Qing Dynasty: When a father is "gracious" and loves his children, what is precious; What is precious when a son is "filial" to his parents and filial; When a brother is precious, he is a "friend" and loves his brother. What is precious when a younger brother is "respect" and respect for his brother. 3, not indifferent, not clear, not quiet, not far away.
-Excerpted from the Book of Commandments by Zhuge Liang of the Three Kingdoms: If you can't be indifferent, you can't show your talents. If you can't have peace, you can't realize your lofty ideal. 4, to know right and wrong every day, change every day; If you don't know right and wrong, you will be content with the status quo for a day; Nothing can be changed in a day, except that there are no steps in a day.
—— Excerpted from Huang Yuan's translation of Four Seasons from Fan in Ming Dynasty: We should discover our mistakes and shortcomings every day and turn over a new leaf every day. If you don't realize your mistakes and shortcomings one day, you will feel at ease in a state of self-righteousness; As long as mistakes are not corrected, there will be no progress.
5, reading can increase the mind, but also the first thing to support. -Excerpted from Zhang Ying's translation of Cong Xun Zhai Yu in Qing Dynasty: Reading can increase the heart of pursuing the laws and principles of the world, and maintaining the mind is the first.
4. Translation of Classical Chinese Family Instructions Jiang Duanyou Family Instructions Translation:
Ordinary people know the origin of food when they eat. Grain is a difficult process for farmers to harvest after sowing. It only grows when the weather between heaven and earth is favorable, and then it matures into raw food. None of this is easy. Delicious meat is obtained by killing animals, and the suffering is beyond words. I really can't bear to eat when I think of it, let alone choose the good and the bad, which leads to disgust. After a hearty meal, no matter whether it is eight treasures or miscellaneous medicinal materials, they are all regarded as rotten things. Therefore, no matter how rich your family is, you need to be frugal, and you will be self-sufficient if you can fill your stomach. You know, there are countless people outside the door, people who work hard and can't get a full meal, and people who are hungry all day and can't get food. I can't just sit around and enjoy the food. What choice do I have? If this can be done, it will not only be easy to be satisfied with less desires, but also be of great help to learning. I once said that few people who want to learn Taoism or study hard and ignore food can live a long life directly. Besides, you will die in a short time, so don't learn Taoism at this time, restore your nature, return to your source, and only satisfy your appetite and fatten your body. This is really an empty world. There is nothing to do after dinner. It is good for everyone to read an article or two at will through Shi Wendian, which is better than using your mind elsewhere.
When dealing with people, you should choose people who are upright and elegant. If you make friends, you will regret it. Besides, you can't stay with those people for a long time, be influenced by them, or be a saint all your life. When talking about others, don't delve into their right and wrong, but think about it and know who is right and who is wrong. Chess is an elegant game. It can be said that it can be played. Don't break your will by talking and laughing with women. This is the last thing you can do. Since you don't respect yourself, you will be despised by people of insight. As human beings, people are despised by others. You have to remember this!
Jiang Duanyou's family motto:
It is not easy for people to know what they eat and drink, and it is not easy to make crops. The taste of meat kills, and its pain makes people think they don't want to eat it. If they choose to like or not, they will be angry again. A full meal, careless and eight treasures, stinking and rotten, rich and frugal with family, enough to satisfy hunger. There are countless poor people outside the door, some of whom have worked hard and have not enough to eat, and some of whom are hungry all day and can't eat. I have no choice but to sit and eat. If you can do this, you will not only want to be easy, but also learn to help. As I said, if you want to learn Taoism, you must overcome difficulties and eat lightly before you can live a long life without geometry. Looking around, you are isolated from the world. At this time, I don't learn the Tao, I return to my roots, I only care about my mouth and support myself. It can be said that you are a world. There's nothing to eat. It's better to read one or two "Shi Wen Dian" slowly than to have ulterior motives.
To make friends with others, choose elegant people. If you cross it, you will regret it and you will get used to it for a long time. You can't be a good person all your life. Don't go deep into the right and wrong of others when you speak, just know what is right and wrong. The elegant play of chess is just as good as saying that women don't participate, and it is most impossible to laugh off their fangs and lose their will. If you don't respect yourself, you will be despised for your knowledge. If you are a man, you will be treated lightly. You will make up your mind to do so.
5. There are no virtuous fathers and brothers, no strict teachers and friends outside, and few can achieve great things.
-The posthumous son of Princess Luzon, my descendants are innocent. -"Liang Shu and Zhou She Xu Mianchuan" children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, don't be cattle and horses for them.
-Yuan Anonymous "Yu Qiao Ji" Children are people who create industries, not people who inherit them. -Tao Xingzhi "How to Choose Books" Anyone who doesn't love himself really lacks the qualification to be a father.
-Lu Xun's "How Do We Be Fathers Now", wealth is meaningless, and the family is ruined. -"Dian Ju Jiao Dian, ancient and modern books supplemented, integrated with Dong Mao, a model of a family" Don't be suspicious, don't listen to the language of alienation, don't do anything different, and don't specialize in public interests.
-Nine times out of ten, the "Family Biography Model of Ancient and Modern Books Integration" was left to future generations. -Song Linbu's "Peace of Mind". Thank you.
6. Yan's family precepts in classical Chinese are books of sages, which teach people sincere filial piety, prudence and fame, and are well prepared.
The Wei and Jin Dynasties came, and all the philosophers wrote, focusing on things, discussing models, and putting their ears on the bed. The reason why I came back to this place today is not that I dare not follow the example of the world, but that I want to clean up my door and tear up my children and grandchildren.
Husband believes in the same words and believes in his loved ones; Walk with the same life and do what you serve. It is better to forbid a boy from being violent than to be ordered by Fu Maid, and to be obedient than to be taught by his wife.
I hope this book is believed by Cao Cao, and it is more virtuous than Fu Maid and Widow. (I have already said: follow) My family's ethics has always been a whole secret, and I was lured and taught in the past.
Every time I follow my two brothers, I am gentle, sober, polite and calm. Give excellent words, ask what is good, encourage short lead long, and be sincere.
When I was nine years old, I was a small pot of tea, and my family was surrounded. A kind-hearted brother has devoted all his efforts and made painstaking preparations. Different people have different opinions.
Although I read "Li" and "Biography", I love it very much and am quite influenced by mortals. If you want to speak out of order, you will be slovenly.
At the age of eighteen or nineteen, I know very little, and I learn naturally, which is hard to wash away. After 20 years, the ratio is bigger.
Every constant heart * * * enemy, sex and love compete, night feeling is small, today regrets yesterday's loss, self-pity, and even self-pity. Think of the fingers of the past, think of bones; It's not an ancient book commandment, but it has been seen by the eyes.
So, I left these twenty articles, thinking that you are Cao's people. There are still 20 articles. Do you need translation and original text?