There are so many good books that you can gain something by reading them at any time. Refer to the book I harvested when I was confused and recommend it to you:
If you are in the confusion of adolescence, unable to determine your own direction and unable to bear the pressure of pain and decomposition, I recommend you to read: Lu Yao's Ordinary World. The growth experience and ideological evolution of the protagonist Sun Shaoping in the book can give you strength. Reading the experiences and future of the characters in the book can help you predict your future in advance. With reference and guiding ideology, you have the direction, courage and goal to fight for your dreams.
If you are in a middle-aged confused period at this time, I think a book with a general depth may not make you have a * * * sound with the characters in the book. When people reach middle age, they have certain life experience and precipitated their own cognition of life. His confusion is not some superficial confusion about material pursuit, but more a kind of spiritual confusion. At this time, look at the French writer romain rolland's "John Christophe". This book depicts not the material aspects but the spiritual difficulties and obstacles experienced by human beings, not conquering the external world but conquering the internal traces. The function of this book for readers is that Christophe's spirit will be your good companion and guide on the road of life, so that you can extricate yourself from depravity and renew yourself constantly, so that you can live and love regardless.
Read it! Good books make us not afraid of the road ahead! Good books make us reborn in the burning thorns!
Thank you for your invitation. Life is rather confusing. What books should I read? Here, I have to recommend Mr. Qian Zhongshu's Fortress Besieged. People in the city want to escape, and people outside the city want to rush in. Two simple sentences sum up life's marriage and workplace.
This book describes the tragic life of intellectuals in China in the early 20th century with a humorous style. Fang Hung-chien, the hero of the book, has a well-off family. As the eldest son, his parents have high hopes for him, hoping that he can honor his ancestors and get ahead. After graduating from college, he will go abroad for further study. In fact, Fang Hung-chien said that being smart is not so smart, and being stupid is not so stupid. His character is both upright and pedantic, kind and weak, neither secular nor cynical. After three years abroad, I panicked when I graduated and couldn't get my doctorate. By chance, I bought a fake certificate with an Irish swindler to fool my family. In love, he despises Sue, a talented woman who thinks highly of herself. But fell in love with Sue's cousin. Although I love you, I don't have the courage to catch up with you. Later, he went to San Lv University as a teacher and met Sun Roujia. Although he walked into the marriage hall hand in hand, he felt uncomfortable everywhere, far from the beauty in his heart. He spends every day in tangle and noise. The work is also very bad, others don't have to look at him, he is completely dispensable. It's really sad that a decent doctor is in such a situation.
This book is rich in content, concise in language and full of articles. Mr. Qian Zhongshu's book is a wonderful page in the history of China literature. I like this book very much, and I believe everyone who has read it will like it.
"Stop learning" begins by saying: "Being extremely smart is also stupid", which means: "Being too smart is also stupid". "Only high is not wise, and the wise are also. For real danger, the wise are not. Great wisdom, Xiao Zhi seeks only, poor wisdom and endless ways. It means: "outstanding talents are not wisdom." Smart people don't expose themselves ... smart people know that enough is enough, and smart people just keep planning ... "... Therefore, stopping learning is a knowledge that tells us under what circumstances and where to stop.
In today's society, all kinds of interests are intertwined and all kinds of temptations and traps are frequent. Especially for young people who are not deeply involved in the world, it is really not easy to settle down in the middle to achieve something. Therefore, you must understand the truth of "Zhi Zhi with great wisdom", which is the great wisdom of life. When you "know enough" and have a good sense of proportion, you will not be defeated. "Know enough" and you will not be in danger.
Master Xie invited me. I have little reading and poor foundation, so I spray a few words blindly.
First of all, let's clarify two issues. One is that "confusion" does not mean "loss of motivation", which varies from person to person. Some people may be confused for a period of time but only temporarily lose their direction or reflect on themselves, and they are not decadent. The second is to ask yourself why you are confused, in what aspects, such as family, love, career, etc. And then the right medicine should be rewarded. Reading is a good way.
Philosophy is a world outlook, a methodology and a weapon to understand and transform the world, so it is good to read some philosophical books and see how great thinkers think. Such as Marxist philosophy, Sophie's world, a brief history of Chinese philosophy, a brief history of western philosophy and so on.
What does history tell us,' dress with copper as a mirror and know the rise and fall with history as a mirror'? I think, to put it bluntly, it is to learn from your own mistakes. Let's not make any more mistakes. For example, General History of the World, History as a Mirror, Historical Records, General History of China, Five Thousand Years of China and so on.
There are also inspirational books, such as The Pursuit of Happyness, How Steel was Tempered, The Old Man and the Sea, My Childhood in the World, Living, Gone with the Wind and so on. These books basically reflect how to face suffering.
Life is not smooth sailing, adversity will make people grow. Take responsibility, carry your own baggage and go on the road bravely.
1. Margaret Mitchell has gone with the wind.
The novel describes the life of southerners in the United States before and after the Civil War, interspersed with the complex emotional lines between the hero and heroine Scarlett and Rhett. Scarlett couldn't love Ashley and married Charles, Frank and Rhett. After the baptism of war and the death of two husbands, Milan, her best friend in trouble, also died (Ashley's wife). Scarlett realized that she loved Rhett, who had always been with her. Unfortunately, it is too late. Rhett is disappointed with Scarlett and decides to leave.
2. Scarlett of alexandra Ripley
Whether Gone with the Wind or the sequel Scarlett, I feel like a cruel online novel. These two books are not short in length. Scarlett's strength and courage are very attractive. The emotional line between her and Rhett always affects readers, and people can't help but want to read it all at once.
3. Yukio Mishima's "Chao Sao"
A pure feeling like first love happened in Doug, and the whole novel has a strong sense of picture. The waves beat against the quiet Doug, hardworking fishermen worked by the sea, and the lighthouse on the shore lit up when night fell. The process of reading novels is as leisurely as a holiday at the seaside.
I recommend reading Li Shanglong's inspirational book series.
You just look hard, you are either outstanding or outstanding, your so-called stability is just a waste of your life, and your efforts should be worthy of your ambition. I have read these books, and I have a feeling that I want to read them later.
Life is full of possibilities. You never know that you have more possibilities until you try.
Everyone is confused sometimes, and these confusions are only temporary. This is a new world, clean up and start over.
Recently, Mr. Lin Qingxuan passed away. In Fanta's eyes, he is like an independent Taoist or a teacher in the hubbub. The thoughts and words he conveyed to us, like the refreshing Xia Feng in the mountains, kept me away from the heat and confusion and regained my confidence. Less than ten days before the official end of 20 18, Taiwan Province writer Lin Qingxuan was confirmed dead. On the day before he left, he also published Weibo's Talking about Death, saying: When I was walking through the forest, I felt that the sparrow's death gave me some enlightenment. Although we live in a dusty net, we should never lose our desire to fly and never forget our flying posture.
Therefore, I would like to recommend some of his books to you today. I hope you can feel something and get out of your confusion!
You are soft-hearted, but you have strength.
Recommended reading:
Mr. Lin himself is an extremely romantic person. If you like to enjoy flowers, you will be glad to meet a flower on your way for a walk. Prefer pure and clean food and look at the world with a clean heart; Seek tranquility in the busy schedule and pursue the poetic dwelling of the soul. Ordinary is extraordinary, simple is not simple.
The book contains 48 classic works of different periods, such as The Makeup of Life, The Lost Cloud, Warm a Pot of Moonlight Drink, Twilight Bodhi, Engraving, Seeking Goodness, Twelve Sticks of Love, No Tea and Softness. A soft heart has strength. Only soft can be sensitive; Only softness can be inclusive. Just like that sentence, your kindness is sharp, but your heart is soft but powerful.
Look at life from another angle
Collected the author's life experience of seeing life and feeling happiness; There are wonderful quotations in a book, and the classics can be read repeatedly, often and updated.
He said that the best articles should have simple and plain words and not too many flowery words: every time I see me, I feel the same clothes, all made of clothes 20 years ago and cloth 100 years ago. I'm used to this innate simplicity. Young people should be able to subtract from life. If they can't resist the temptation at the age of forty, they can't resist it basically.
Loneliness is a person's pleasure.
Everyone should read Lin Qingxuan's life, so that he can see his heart clearly in troubled times and really know how to live.
Life is like a train. Someone gets on the bus, someone gets off, and no one accompanies you to the end. Even if it's fate, even if it's time to get off the bus, we should say goodbye gratefully, leaving a blank corner in our hearts, which still feels sweet after many years.
Teacher Lin once said that we should bloom silently and wholeheartedly and prove our existence with flowers.
I wanted to go down this road, and the old man did it. He quietly opened flowers in life with pen and ink, and then let us flower lovers learn to be more indifferent and free and easy in life.
Life is bitter and sweet, salty and light, just walk through it.
Coming is accidental, and going is inevitable.
May the old man go to the new world and bless you and me left behind. We can use the generosity of the elderly to encourage ourselves to be a gentle person to the world.
Nan's Selected Works, a book about China studies, was the first to be praised. Although this book belongs to Chinese studies, it is worth intensive reading. It quotes many saints and scholars themselves and their easy-to-understand life stories, which can inspire people and enhance their wisdom in life!
Mr. Nan's Meditation on Life, If Modern, warms and guides the confused modern people when explaining traditional culture. Mr. Nan's life meditation, if far away, has opened the wisdom treasure house of China's classics, embraced the secular wisdom of modern life and pushed away the broad mind facing the world.
Mr. Nan's explanation is unique. He doesn't quote classics, but interprets words. But from the classics, the wisdom and feelings of modern life are stripped off, which makes people suddenly realize that it is as dreamy as a dream and as fresh as a spring breeze.
Learn Confucianism, talk about Taoism, meditate, avoid the dangerous beach of life and hit the waves of wisdom; Career fame and family chores, put aside worldly troubles and dig up happy life fragments. Listen to Mr. Nan's exposition on the wisdom of Chinese studies, and look for the arc of life thought in the crisscross of time. Meditation is like water, choose a little bit to moisten your thirsty heart. The empty valley echoed, followed in Mr. Nan's footsteps, and realized the new life and the endless excitement behind the ordinary. .....
Jin Yong, a hero, once described Yang Guo's dark iron epee as "the epee has no front, and its cleverness is ineffective". When a sword no longer needs to rely on a sharp blade to command the pack, that is the real realm of sword refining. Mr. Wang Guowei said that the highest realm of learning is "looking for him in the crowd, and suddenly looking back, that person is in the dim light." In the traditional thinking of China people, "governing a big country is like cooking a little fresh food", and the aesthetic world has always emphasized "appealing to both refined and popular tastes". However, to learn from the sea and ride the wind and waves, the ideal shore is close at hand but out of reach. In this far and near school, the essence of ancient culture is flowing, so Chinese culture contains endless great wisdom in life, which is of great help to modern people in self-cultivation, family establishment and governance, and is the steering wheel to open up their minds and guide their lives to success.
Humans are almost gone, and you still have time to be confused ~ eat, drink and be merry quickly ~ otherwise there will be no chance.
laxative
If you feel confused about life, it is nothing more than hormones or problems in life. The former exercises more and participates in social activities, while the latter solves problems by solving problems.
If you read a book, you need a lot of reading, and maybe you can crack it. Specifically, no book can solve this puzzle.
I suggest that you can talk and speculate through your diary.