marriage custom is a necessary way for men and women to establish marriage relationship. Because marriage is the biggest happy event in life, it is related to family happiness, the continuation of family incense and social stability, so there are many customs about marriage. Marriage customs have a long history and are constantly changing, with distinctive characteristics of the times.
tying the hair originally refers to tying the hair, and later the original couple is called tying the hair. It was not a wedding custom to tie hair, but later it evolved into a wedding custom, that is, the newly married couple's hair was symbolically tied, and the bride and groom cut a lock of hair separately and tied it together with colored threads as a token.
knot hair, a marriage custom of Han nationality, is a ceremony symbolizing the combination of husband and wife. When the husband and wife get married, they take a hair from each head and tie it together to collect it as an old marriage symbol. One of the origins of married couples
"married couples" have the traditional Han folk custom of "tying their hair to support themselves" and "throwing silk to comfort their feelings".
"Tie your hair and hold your body" means that when the original couple get married on a certain day, the man wants to send a Geng Tie and the woman wants it back. The name, date and time of birth and the time of marriage are indicated on the Geng sticker. When the woman returned to the Geng post, she attached a bunch of hair and tied it with a red rope as a token of commitment and commitment to each other, to show that she was United and happy for a hundred years.
throwing silk to comfort is a married couple. When the man drowned and the body was not found, the wife had to cut a bunch of hair, tie it to a stone and throw it into the accident place to comfort the married couple.
The custom of marrying couples came from an ancient emperor when he ascended the throne. On the first night when the emperor ascended the throne, he was worried that his beard was too short to sleep (ancient men measured people's knowledge by the length of his beard). The empress around him was very clever. She cut off her hair and carefully attached it to the emperor's beard, making the emperor's short beard into a long beard overnight. When the emperor ascended the throne the next day, she stroked her beard and accepted the worship of the courtiers. The reason why the empress cut her hair and tied the emperor's beard became a married couple. The second origin of married couples
When China got married in ancient times, after the groom took the bride home, he held a wedding ceremony, which consisted of worshipping the heaven and the earth, worshipping the high hall, then the husband and wife worshipped each other, and finally drinking a cup of wine, also known as a toast. Later, it developed into a ceremony to tie the temples, that is, the husband and wife sat side by side and tied their heads together, from which the word "married husband and wife" came.
We often hear the word "getting married". The original meaning of "getting married" is: a man is 2 years old, and a woman is 15 years old. In ancient times, both men and women had to grow long hair. When they reached a certain age, they had to hold an "adult ceremony" for them. The crown ceremony for men was to put their hair in a bun, which was called "knot hair".
In many areas of our country, underage women are called "Shantou", which can also be seen in many novels written by the ancients. In addition, in the old days, "Shantou" was also called the handmaid of a large family.
In ancient times, the real meaning of "girl" refers to a style of combing women's hair, which can often be seen in today's movies and TV shows. For example, in A Dream of Red Mansions, maids who serve their masters comb their hair in symmetrical double bun and hang it on their heads, just like a forked ya character, which means the ancient "hairpin ceremony". Zi: the original meaning, the hair pin used to hold the hair or hat in ancient times, means that the hair can be curled up at this time, and then the word "Zi" is used, which was called "the year of Zi" in ancient times. When men and women reach the age of adulthood, according to ancient sayings, that means they can get married and start a family.
The ancient people were very solemn and serious when they crowned and gave gifts. That's why there is the word "married wife", which means the original wife. The tying of hair is also called tying of hair. In ancient times, men began to tie their hair when they were children, because it refers to early adulthood. Having a knot in one's hair also means getting married. On the wedding day, men and women tied their hair in a bun, so it is called. A new couple in the wedding night: "cross silk knot dragon and phoenix, carve color knot clouds, one inch of concentric wisp, a hundred years of long-lived flowers." It means: two new people sit on the bed, male left and female right, each cutting off a lock of their own hair, and then tying these two strands of long hair together to swear that they will be United, love will last forever, live and die together, and never part. Throughout the ages, despite the beautiful wishes of "one inch of concentric thread" and "a hundred years of long life", things have changed, and it is inevitable that there will be lovesickness in life, as always in my heart said in ancient times: This is the joy of knot, how can you do it?
women always carefully wrap their love expectations and good wishes into their hair, and have shiny black hair, plus their skillfully combed hair styles. In a certain sense, that is the expectation and guarantee to win love and happiness. The word "knot" used in this word "knot" is the most meaningful. Today, the meaning of knot word contains firmness, combination and companionship. In ancient times, "knot" was connected with "bun", which meant total hair. A bun is tied to the top of the hair.
In ancient times, the bun on the wife's head in the bridal chamber could not be untied by herself. It was recorded in the ancient book "Etiquette and Tuhun Ceremony": "When the master entered the room, he took off his wife's tassel." It means that only the husband can untie the coiled bun, and then hug each other, loving and touching, inseparable. Later, people called men and women who got married for the first time "married couples".
During the Han Dynasty in China, there was a custom of holding funerals at that time. If a married wife broke early for some reason, the husband would break the comb they used when they got married and divide it into two parts. A few strands of his wife's green hair remained on it, and the other half was buried in the coffin, to show that he would never forget his married wife and to commemorate his deep love.
In ancient times, lovers who loved each other, if a woman gave a lock of her own hair to a man as a pledge, it would be as if she had given her body to a man as an important token. Sometimes, however, as the poet Li Bai of Tang Dynasty said, "White hair is 3, feet, and sorrow is like a long hair", and it is a necessary way for men and women to establish a marriage relationship to turn blue hair into "troubled hair". Because marriage is the biggest happy event in life, it is related to family happiness, the continuation of family incense and social stability, so there are many customs about marriage. However, married couples have a very long history and are constantly changing, with distinctive characteristics of the times.
The love story between Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun has been told from the last years of Emperor Jing of Han Dynasty to the present, lasting for more than two thousand years. Why?
There are three main reasons: First, everyone appreciates Zhuo Wenjun's courage to break away from the shackles of feudal ethics and pursue true love, which was extremely rare and precious at that time; Second, for the sake of love, a rich and prosperous young lady, the spirit of being willing to live in poverty is admirable; Third, with her intelligence and loyalty to love, she saved a marriage crisis and prevented Sima Xiangru from empathizing with others, which is worthy of being a model for future generations, and their love affair until death is also the most beautiful explanation for married couples.