1, I'm going my own way. Success and failure, happiness and pain are all relegated to a secondary position. The most important thing is the road itself.
2. In the eyes of God, a big failure is also a success, and a small success is also a failure.
Life and soul are the most precious things for people. If you take good care of your life and settle your heart, your life will be complete.
In the contest, the emotional side must be at a disadvantage. How many strong emotions, angry or painful gestures can you persist without the audience present?
Life and soul are the most precious things for people. If you take good care of your life and settle your heart, your life will be complete.
6. Snoring, farting and burping make people feel stupid, because they expose the animal side of people.
7. Seek peace of mind, the premise is to have a mind first. In theory, everyone has a brain, but in practice, it is not.
Before I was six years old, the story I made up was better than my dream. After I was six years old, my dream was better than my story. Is it because with the growth of age, the artistic ability endowed by God is squeezed out by utilitarianism and knowledge and expelled to the unconscious field?
9. If a person has his own spiritual pursuit, made a trip in the world and gained considerable life experience, then he will gradually realize his position in this world. The world is infinitely vast and the temptation is endless. However, the realistic possibility that belongs to everyone is limited after all.
10, Rousseau said: "Nature shaped me, and then broke this mold." This statement sounds conceited, but it actually applies to everyone. Unfortunately, most people can't stand this self who has lost the mold, so they remould themselves with a male mold, and the results become so similar to each other.
1 1, I just use my life and never enjoy it.
12, Lao Tzu advocates "being quiet and believing", so that everything in the world can move together there, and I just watch it go back and forth, so that I can become the master of everything's movement. It's called "the quiet person is manic."
13, it is human destiny to have perfection in your heart and accept imperfection at the same time. This is a philosopher.
14. In this world, it is inevitable that a person will be weak if he values feelings, and it is inevitable that he will have regrets if he pursues perfection. Perhaps, if you tolerate your weakness, you can persist; Only by accepting this regret in life can we be calm.
15, people living in this world sometimes have to ask for help and do things against their will. But I believe that as long as a person is willing to restrain his greed and be satisfied with living a relatively simple life, these can be reduced to a minimum. Communication and success far away from these troubles are really nothing to lose, but endless benefits. Therefore, we get a good mood and a good time, and we can dedicate them to people we really like and things we are really interested in, and most importantly, to ourselves. For a person who is content with a simple life, the territory of life is broader.
16, true love must contain pain. Vulnerability is often caused by relying too much on others.
17, the more natural things are, the more they belong to the essence of my life, and the more they can affect my deepest feelings. For example, women and children.
18, all resurrection is in memory, and all transcendence is in imagination.
19, we usually haggle over the right and wrong of things, the amount of truth and the thickness of feelings. In the eyes of a great god, this seriousness must be ridiculous.
20. Now I think that the best state of life is abundance and tranquility. Quiet, because get rid of the temptation of the outside world. Rich, because you have the treasure of the inner spiritual world.
2 1, some people are only used to being with others, talking to others and having nothing to say to themselves. Once they are alone, they will feel bad. Such people are superficial after all. Only by learning to listen to your own voice and communicate with yourself can you gradually form a deeper inner world.
22. I have two selves A positive person wants to try everything and experience everything. The other is to be quiet, examine and digest everything. This other self, as if it sent me to this world, always puts me in its field of vision with concern and is ready to recall me to its side at any time. Even if I suffer the most tragic disaster and failure in the world, as long as I know the way to return to it, I will not be completely annihilated. It is my patron saint, guarding an eternal home for me, so that I will not be homeless.
23. It's not easy to be yourself. There are many people in the world. You can say that he is anything, such as a profession, an identity and a role, but not himself. If a person always lives according to other people's opinions, has no independent thinking, is always busy with external affairs and has no inner life, then it is not wrong to say that he is not himself. Because it really goes from his head to his heart, you can't find anything that really belongs to him. He is just the shadow of others, the machine of affairs.
People often mistakenly think that people who are keen on socializing are generous people. Tagore put it well, they just squander, not give, and people who spend money often lack real generosity.
25. The emotional events that have passed away, no matter whether they are pain or joy, are beautiful for a long time, no matter how they have made us restless. We will also find that the difference between pain and happiness is not as big as originally thought. Happy memories are mixed with sadness, and painful memories are mixed with sweetness, both of which are equally melancholy.
Nowadays, parents seem to be far-sighted and strive for a good career for their children in the future when they are very young. To this end, they try their best to get their children into key schools and attend various extracurricular classes. As far as children are concerned, they have been involved in terrible competition since kindergarten and walked all the way from primary school to university. I wonder how much homework and exams they have to endure in order to get that final diploma. There is a saying: children can't lose at the starting line. However, in my opinion, this kind of education was lost at the beginning. If you can't develop your body and mind freely and healthily and only learn some skills, how can you achieve great success in the future?
27. Give a small example. In a traffic dispute, a car collided with a bicycle. Who paid for it? Almost certainly the more educated party. I have indeed experienced it, and I have seen it from people of other cultures more than once. If you are a driver, you have to pay for it. If you ride a bike, you still have to pay for it. Of course, this example may not be appropriate, because education does not mean noble soul, and the party claiming compensation is not necessarily a traitor, just a little arrogant. I just want to make it clear that in hand-to-hand combat, educated people are more likely to compromise than uneducated people, preferring to suffer rather than struggle.
28. I know that some people with a sense of mission attach great importance to the "end of the century" because they think that they have an influence that cannot be ignored in the old century and have an unshirkable responsibility for the new century. In short, the old and new centuries are indispensable, and we should be far-sighted at the turn of the century. However, I know that my smallness is dispensable for any century.
29. A person unconsciously wants to appear sincere and impress others and himself with his sincerity. He was really moved by himself. A person deliberately wants to appear cunning, charm others and charm himself with his own cunning. He really doubts himself.
30. There are two ways to get spiritual happiness: one is to accept, such as reading and appreciating works of art; The other is giving, which is work. It is in the work that people's mental ability and life value have been actively realized.
3 1, external circumstances are subject to external factors and beyond their own control, so they should not be the main goal of life. The only thing that can really dominate is the attitude towards all external environments. People who have a full inner life seem to have another higher self, who can keep a distance from the outside world, take an appropriate attitude towards changes and setbacks, and their mood is not disturbed by the ups and downs of the world.
32, a thing, if you want it too much, you will see it very big, even big enough to become the whole world, occupying all your thoughts. This happens when a person is bent on pursuing profits or starting a career. My suggestion is that whether you get what you want or not, you should jump out of it in time and really see its real position in the whole world, that is, its insignificance in infinite time and space. If you get it, you won't get carried away, and if you don't get it, you won't suffer.
33. At the seaside, in the mountains, in nature, far away from the world, we can only know the insignificance of all secular utilitarianism, including the "Millennium of writing" and the Millennium's reputation.
34. The influence of things on people is inversely proportional to distance. The closer you get, the more you can control your mood. So the way to reduce and get rid of its influence is to find a foothold, which can distance us from things. If that foothold is still in the world and the distance from things is limited, we will gain a wise attitude. If we put that foothold outside the world and keep an infinite distance from things, we will get a detached attitude.
35. If there are too many material, social and secular pains, people will have no time to carry out existential, philosophical and religious pains. There are too many trivial restrictions in daily life, and people are not susceptible to the big restrictions in life. I don't know if it's a blessing or a curse.
36. We might as well cling to life, but at the same time, as Montaigne said, we should pack our bags and be ready to bid farewell to life at any time. No matter how deep China's entry into WTO is, it will never forget its own limits. If such persistence is pessimistic, it will not lead to greed. The persistence of pessimism at the bottom is actually a kind of detachment.
37. In the endless years, the change of dynasties is only a passing sight, and the achievements of the Millennium are only a broken monument. This kind of understanding can not only broaden our minds and cultivate heroes, but also suppress our will and cultivate the weak. The consequences of seeing through the world of mortals vary from person to person
38. I thought: With this idea, the pain will be alleviated. Then I thought: perfection has also been lost.
39. People's energy is limited, and if they do something, they will not do it. The great difference between people lies in their different orientations of what to do and what not to do.
40. Perhaps, in the search for the meaning of life, people who value it don't care about the meaning itself, but in the search, and the meaning lies in the process of seeking. When we read the story of the hero's treasure hunt, what attracts us is not the treasure finally found, but the thrilling adventure situation on the way to treasure hunt. Finding meaning is a spiritual treasure hunt.
4 1 So, starting from scratch, unfinished is the normal state of life.
42. In the morning, I said: One day is very long, and people can travel all over the universe. In the evening, I said: A day is too short to use up an atom.
43. There are no answers to the big questions in life. However, only by thinking about these big problems can a person truly have his own life beliefs and living standards and make correct judgments on small problems in life.
44. When people pass middle age, they should basically give up utilitarianism, greed and ambition and give way to kindness, idleness and normality. All this stems from a sense of seeing through the fame and fortune of the world of mortals and returning to the essence of life. What will happen without this awareness? It is said that the elderly tend to become indifferent, greedy and conceited, which may be the answer.
45. I believe that theoretically, the basic nature of everyone's endowment and ability has long been determined. So there must be a career and field that suits him best in this world. Of course, in practice, whether he can find this field and engage in this kind of business is bound to be restricted by objective conditions. However, you should be conscious and try to shorten the search process. At some stage in life, one must know who he is and what he wants.
46. Understanding is the greatest pleasure in life. However, a person who longs for understanding and suffers without others' understanding is a poor person, and a person who places his own value entirely on others' understanding is often worthless.
47. The loser's self-esteem lies in not accepting charity, and the winner's self-esteem lies in not pretending to be a donor.
48. The healthy growth of the spirit is inseparable from the land and the sky. Land contributes sources and materials, while the sky shows goals and forms. Comparatively speaking, land should come first. People come from the soil and go back to the soil. Soil is actually a kind of crop on the land. The land is home, and the sky is just a distant landscape. I even believe that the so-called metaphysical concern of philosophers about the sky through the ages can only be solved by returning to the earth and in a kind of intimacy of all things.
49. Man is the son of nature, and life follows the way of nature. Man must live in the embrace of nature. No matter how the times change, having children is always the basic core of life. You walk out of the noisy workplace, walk in the street, look at the clouds and trees in the sky, come home, sit down and have dinner with your wife and children, and then you become a life again.
50. The meaning of life, happiness at the secular level, morality at the social level and belief at the transcendental level all depend on the attitude towards life.
5 1, lust is the only way to the ethereal. There is no lust, only emptiness and ineffectiveness.
52. The mutual attraction between life and life. I imagine that on an absolutely barren and lifeless planet, even a living person will feel kind when he sees a fly or a tiger.
53. Wisdom is a bit like modesty, but it is modesty only when you stand at high altitude. For example, a wise man looks at mankind from the standpoint of God, including himself, and sees the limitations of mankind. On the one hand, he is an ordinary person with this limitation, on the other hand, he can look down on this limitation, which is beyond in a sense.
54. Broad, profound and superficial. Walking out of the abyss is also a kind of wisdom.
On the contrary, if you don't feel what you have to do, quiet inside, time will stop. Eternity is a calm state of mind.
56. There is one thing in the world that is more loyal to you than anything else, and that is your experience, your feelings and thoughts in the experience. They only belong to you and cannot be transferred to anyone else, but as long as you cherish them, they will be your most reliable wealth and no one can take them away. However, if you don't cherish it, it will be lost with the years and can't be found anywhere in the world.
57. People should find the source of happiness in themselves. It already exists in everyone, depending on whether you have explored and enriched it. This is your heart.
58. There are only two kinds of people in the world who are most confident, one is omniscient and the other is ignorant.
59. Because we have always despised the value of life, life used to be zero in front of rights, but now it is zero in front of money.
60. What good is it for a person to gain the whole world but lose himself? The real savior is in each of us, that is, the clear and quiet self.
6 1, I really think good children are not spoiled. The more you love him, the better he will develop. Pet and love are the relationship between matter and spirit. Spoiling is to create a particularly rich material environment for him and give him whatever he wants. I think this is loving children, but I have no psychological choice. I don't talk to him or talk and laugh with him every day. As long as there is spiritual care, how to love is fine, and love is not bad.
62. When I wander in the field, those flowers, grass, trees and rivers can comfort me because I have a vague feeling that I may meet another soul who also loves them.
63. Writing is never to influence the world, just to settle down.
64. Both high-quality activities and high-quality tranquility are needed, and the latter is the premise of the former.
65. No matter who he (she) is, no matter how infatuated and lofty he (she) is, if his (her) love is not rewarded for a long time, he (she) will never get love, and his (her) love will not last long.
66. Thinking about death pushes people to religion, but the actual function of religion refers to this kind of thinking. On the positive side, religion advocates a spirit of fraternity. Its function is not to make people really believe in eternal life, but to forget themselves and their death in fraternity.
67. When a soul awakens, you won't laugh at and hurt others, because you know that others are actually the most sensitive thing you attach to another body.
68. I have been exploring skills all my life. When my skills finally matured, my life came to an end. This is the sorrow of the master of art.
69. The theory of coffin making may be applicable to second-and third-rate thinkers, but it is not applicable to geniuses. Genius, like nature, contains great richness and complexity, leaving a broad debate space for generations. Which original thinker has not experienced the process of being misunderstood, "discovered", misunderstood and rediscovered dramatically before and after his death?
70. Isn't the starry sky of culture and history like this?
7 1, since success belongs to the world and perfection belongs to the kingdom of heaven, I am further away from perfection, but I can dream after all. With this dream, I can stop paying attention to success.
72. From a psychological point of view, people need to be alone for internal integration. The so-called integration is to put new experiences in the proper position of internal memory. Only through this integration process can foreign impressions be digested by themselves and the self become an independent and growing system. Therefore, the ability to be alone is related to whether a person can really form a relatively self-sufficient inner world, which in turn affects his relationship with the outside world.
73. One night passed like this. But I still don't want to sleep. This is the time when you don't want to do anything, including sleeping.
74. Wisdom makes people more awake and more sensitive to suffering. Wise people often open their eyes to the sufferings that ordinary people don't know, and understand the profound tragic significance behind daily sufferings more deeply than ordinary people. In this sense, wisdom is painful.
75. People should have a little spirit. Everything dies, but the spirit lives on.
76, love is distressed. You can like many people, but there is only one who really loves you.
Humor is a healthy, witty and tolerant smile from a broken heart. Only detachment can lead to humor. The deepest humor is the smile from a heart that has been fatally hurt. Self-mockery makes self-mockers surpass themselves. A wise man laughs at his mistakes.
78. A true enlightened person can gain a vision and wisdom from seeing through the world of mortals, so that he can stay in the world of mortals without being confused by them, and remain detached after joining the WTO.
79. Westerners have repeatedly stressed that wisdom is neither knowledge nor erudition. No matter how knowledgeable a person is, all he has is limited and temporary knowledge, and what wisdom really needs to grasp is infinity and eternity. Due to human limitations, this goal can never be truly achieved.
80. No matter how short life is, we should live with a smile, enjoy with a smile, suffer with a smile, and finally die with a smile. This is not a waste of our lives.
8 1, to prevent excessive see through, from now on can not be persistent.
82. Nobleness is the highest reward for the noble, and meanness is the greatest punishment for the poor.
83. Under the condition of free competition, natural selection eliminated the inferior; Under the dictatorship, artificial selection eliminated the best. Only mediocre people will be spared forever and have the most lasting vitality.
84. For example, how to spend money and how to earn money can better reflect a person's taste.
85. A person who never crosses the road with his own feet will never find his own way.
86. The less free the environment is, the more valuable the inner freedom is, and the more it can make individuals stand out.
87. Everyone knows that death is inevitable. It is a guest who was told to visit us as soon as we were born, and now it is approaching us day and night. However, when it knocked on our door, we felt suddenly and blamed it for being the most abrupt uninvited guest.
88. We might as well define the soul as the existence of universal spirit in individuals or the existence of transcendental spirit in people's daily life. No matter how extraordinary a person is, he must always live a good daily life, and daily life is always ordinary. Therefore, the existence of the soul is not necessarily manifested in extreme forms such as seclusion and monasticism, but in most cases, it is precisely manifested in spiritual pursuit and spiritual enjoyment in daily life.
89. For those who indulge in trivial pleasures in front of them, it is not enough to talk about real happiness. For those who indulge in trivial troubles in front of them, it is not enough to talk about real pain.