One of the strengths of the three cardinal guides and the five permanent members in ancient times was that the father was the child guide.
Salute your parents before going to bed in the morning and evening. When eating, children can't sit without parents, and children can't move chopsticks without parents. Pay attention to what parents like to eat and put food in front of them. Pay attention to when parents need to add rice, soup and so on. When you know that your father is not here, you should pick him up as soon as possible. When you see him, you should kowtow first, then get up and greet your health, diet and so on. Father's words are imperial edicts at home and must not be disobeyed; Even if it is wrong, you can't refute it. You should explain the reasons euphemistically. When the father is around, the father doesn't sit, the children can't sit, they have to stand down, they can't interrupt casually, and they are absent-minded. Only with your father's permission can you sit down. No matter who mentions your father's name, you can't call him by his first name; For example, the father of a child is Li Fada. Someone asked him: What's your father's name? When he answers, he should first raise his hand and make a fist to show his respect for his father. He said that my father or my family is strict or my father's surname is Li He. The one in the middle gets rich and the last one arrives. Usually, you should talk to your father in a steady, light, clear and soft voice, and don't expect anything. When the father goes out, the child should help him take things and send them to the place he needs before breaking up, tell his father about his physical condition and daily life, and kowtow to his father. Children should say goodbye to their parents when they go out, and ask them to pay attention to their health and diet. Don't be tired and kowtow to say goodbye to their parents. When children make mistakes, listen carefully to their parents' admonitions and respectfully accept their parents' punishment. If you are married, you should take your wife and belt to see your parents every morning and then stay up late. In case of difficulties, ask your father for advice. Teach brothers and sisters instead of parents. Leave a filial name. Remember grandpa's birthday, festivals, etc. In case parents worry. Learn the books and ways of sages, be reasonable and be parents. Win fame and honor for your father.