Once a famous host interviewed a group of children and asked him, "Children, what do you want to be when you grow up?" Some children say they want to be a doctor when they grow up, while others say they want to be a reporter when they grow up.
One of the children naively replied to the host: "Well ... I want to be a pilot of an airplane. I want to fly an airplane into the blue sky!" " "
The host then asked him, "What would you do if one day your plane flew over the Pacific Ocean and all the engines stopped?"
The child thought for a moment and answered the host: "I will tell the people sitting on the plane to fasten their seat belts first, and then I will hang up my parachute and jump out."
Everyone is wondering whether the child is selfish. Indeed, the audience at the scene thought it was ridiculous, and they all wondered if he was a clever little guy. Unexpectedly, two lines of tears flooded the child's face, making the owner realize that the child's sympathy is far from words.
So the host wiped his tears and asked him, "Can you tell us why you did this?"
The child's answer revealed a child's sincere thought: "I'm going to get the fuel, I want it back!" " "
The reason why I share such a story with you is because we all need to listen to it in life, especially in class. Listen to the teacher's lecture, listen to your partner's speech, don't listen to half of it, and don't easily project your own meaning on others' words.
The teacher wants every child to be a qualified listener. When others talk to you, raise your head and look at the speaker, and always pay attention to what others are talking about. Nodding and smiling means that you understand each other's thoughts. Be a patient listener even if you have different opinions. Don't interrupt each other, just express your opinions. You can wait until the other person has finished.
Guess what? People have two eyes, two ears and two hands, but why only one mouth? I just hope people can watch more, listen more, do more and talk less. The teacher wants to be a qualified listener with everyone. This is the etiquette story I want to share with you today. Learn to listen.