1, what you can't let go of is obsession, and what you can let go of is liberation. Either you don't give up until you reach your goal, or you can start a new life from scratch. Don't hesitate, you must be spontaneous when you live.
2, yearning for a person's life, don't think about this, care about that, you can have sex, real freedom is too important, at least spiritual comfort will be better.
3, life is like dressing, casual and comfortable, how to be happy.