Everyone should remember that learning Buddhism can't be taken away or abandoned. What do you mean you won't give up? If you can't get it, you can't get a lot of things. It depends on your foundation. How many merits have you done? Can you absorb this method? Can you get it? So, if you can't get it, you can't get it. Many things can't be given up. What can't be given up? Because of your habits, because of your bad temper, because of all kinds of evil obstacles and spirituality, can you give up? How many people say, "I change, I change, I will never smoke again, I will never drink again …" Tell me, how many people have changed? Can you change it? How many years have you changed? How much has your bad temper changed? Because this law is out of your control, because the world is out of your control. When Hitler dominated the world, he thought he could dominate the world. Did he finally rule the world? Many people think that he dominates the company. Do you think it can be dominated by him alone? Even if you are the boss of this company and are finally forced by creditors, you still close the company. Can you dominate this company?
Therefore, the law has no self. In other words, the Buddhism we learn has no self-nature. Why? If you do a good deed, it is a good result; If you do something bad, bad results will come out. It has no real attributes of its own. In other words, look at yourself, it will help you do this, and it will get as much as you do, and it will follow you in return; Doesn't mean it has celestial scale. No matter how well you do it or how badly you do it, I won't give it to you. That's not true. How many good things have been done, how many benefits have been gained, how many bad things have been done, and how many disadvantages have been gained. So, karma goes hand in hand, and you are not happy at all. It's time to get out, it's time to get out, and it's time to get out. We are human beings, and human feelings are human beings. Today we are very good, everyone is very happy together, which is also human; When it disappears, it disappears. Why are you still taking revenge? Did you hear an audience on the radio? Didn't the two young people say, "Why do you want to get back at me? When will you get back at me? " If people don't like you, they won't like you. It's over, it's over, it's over, it's over Your son doesn't want you now. It's over, and this mother doesn't want her son either. It's over, it's gone. Stare at others and the next thing you know, it's bad luck. Good has passed, forget it, why stare at others?
People in China often say that if you have bitter taste, then suffering is fate, and patience is fate. If you can't bear it, you can't follow it. Go out and go out; This thing came out as soon as it came out. Human feelings are also laws, understand? Being a man is also in the legal world and in the law. Today you are good to others, and others are good to you; You are not good to others, and others are not good to you. Isn't it a law that human nature is kind? People don't need photos. In other words, don't take things too seriously, don't take things too seriously, you have a huge thing today. People should never take this matter too seriously, right? Meet each other, see this phase, and never leave this phase. For example, I have this opportunity today. Although I met my boyfriend, my heart was not attached to him, just like fate. Everyone is queuing to buy this cheap thing today. You're waiting in line, but it's gone when it's your turn. Oh, never mind, it's not appropriate. Never leave when you are in line. I waited in line because there was a queue, but it was your turn. No, many people's first reaction is to scold their mother, right? This is called "taking pictures".
What does it mean to meet each other late and ignore each other? Whatever you see, you must leave it. If this matter has become a human law, I am not referring to Buddhism. For example, if the company is going to deal with a person, it doesn't matter if you leave immediately. When you see the law, you break away from it and know what you can see clearly. This law is persistence. In fact, you must leave it. You can clearly see that if this goes on, the relationship between the two people will get better and better and they will leave soon; Further development, two people quarrel immediately and leave immediately; If you continue, I will commit a crime, and your distractions must be separated from your body at once, understand?
Master continues to tell you today that if you don't give up, you will get nothing. Don't take pictures. Everything you see in the world is called Buddhism. I saw money today, I saw fame today, I saw profit today, I saw everything, and I want to take it away. In fact, I don't want any of these methods. You saw someone lose money at home today. It's none of your business. Leave it alone. If you keep staring at it, you will have desire. You see this man is very beautiful today, so leave him. Don't look at him If you look at him one more time, you'll get into trouble. There is a leadership position today. You think about it every day, you watch it every day, and you think about it every day. So, I don't want to take away, I don't want to take away, I don't want to take away, I don't want to take away, I don't want to give up, I don't want to get rid of these things again. How many people, before becoming an official, desperately demanded to be an official, and when they became an official, they were made a mess. Finally, they want to give up, want to quit, and can't give up. Why? Lose face. Therefore, it is very important for you to take and give up. If you don't take this thing, there will be no result of giving up. If you want it, there will be results. It's the same with a wife. Think about it, you married a good wife, you did, but you quarreled and divorced every day. Next, it hurts when you give up.
For example, if you bought a car and spent so much money, you said to yourself, I took it, and then the car was scraped in a mess. Finally, you have to sell the car, repair it and give the money. Are you feeling sick? Draw a line, just like drawing it on your heart. Don't you think? Aren't many of you women like this at home? The house was so clean that the children came in and made a mess of it. I didn't take it, and I didn't give it up, because it was very difficult for you to give it up. Ex.: I have no child born, and there is no need to sacrifice my life to ensure the safety of my child. Now I tell you to put it down. What do you mean put it down? Just don't ask for anything and don't take other people's things. You take other people's things and others talk about you outside. You ask, many people do. When giving something, they give you "Oh, it doesn't matter, this thing is very good, you take it, you take it ..." After giving it, they run out and say, "Look, he wants it when I give it to him." Are you ashamed?
Don't give up if you don't take it. Don't give up if you don't take it. All methods can't get anything, so it's called nothing. No gain, no loss. Right? You got a treasure today. One day, you may lose it. When you lose it, you are very painful; I don't want it today and I don't want it, so I won't lose it. To learn Buddhism is to learn this idea and this essence.
Everything is karma. So all dharma is karma, and everything you do on earth is karma. Being able to sit with Master today is also called karma. You are the auditees today, which is also karma; You will become an apprentice in a few days, which is also karma; They eavesdropped at the door for a reason. Being an apprentice in the future is karma. You know him today, and he knows you. This is all fate. All laws are life, and everything in the world is life. You are very good with him today, isn't it fate? You quarreled with him in a few days. If you want to be in a good time, you should think of a quarrel. When you are arguing, you should think that there will be a good time one day. Therefore, when quarreling, don't scold to the end, don't scold all the ancestors of 18 generations, there will be good opportunities in the future; We should also control the good times, carry forward the past and look forward to the future. When you do one thing, you should think of the next step. When doing the last step, think that it will be better in the future, just come and go. Isn't learning Buddhism teaching you to learn to be a man? Don't you learn to be a man? It's especially good when it's good, and it's noisiest at the end. Who is to blame? Blame yourselves. Who can blame? We should be measured in doing things and learn the Buddhist doctrine of the mean, which is what China people call the doctrine of the mean. Don't be bad to the end, and don't be good to the end. Therefore, there is a saying in China that "there is a saying in the ancients: a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water".