Maybe you will think that such behavior is too fake.
Born to be human, we can't exist independently from society, but we can.
In order to learn to better integrate into the collective, learn to live more transparently and brighter.
A girl who knows the world, you will find that her life will be much easier.
Because they understand that the world is not black and white, they know how to judge time.
Observing the situation, I didn't show high emotional intelligence.
Today, I want to share six books with you about how to improve your lifestyle.
Classic books, I believe that after reading them, you will know more about the world.
1 "mob"
2 "influence"
3 "I'm not teaching you to cheat"
4 "The Weakness of Human Nature"
5 "General Wang's 38 Living Methods"
6 "Caigen Tan"
After reading these six books, I learned the world.
common people
Author: [France] Gustave Le Bon
After reading this book, I have a new understanding of public thinking.
Except rationality, the public has all psychological characteristics that can be regarded as stupidity.
After reading this book, we can keep a clear head and be independent.
Stand up and think about everything. When awake,
Work and live as usual, although sometimes wearing a mask, but this is life.
I'm not teaching you to cheat
Author: Liu Tang
This book is one of Liu Tang's "Three Books on Life" and reprinted.
Many times, in the four aspects of making friends, workplace, business war and society,
Introduce the "skills" of dealing with people through a short story.
If you can't send a message, don't send it; Don't talk if you can.
Don't get involved in "behind-the-scenes criticism" if you can. Make way for yourself
Just like the beach, no matter how big the waves are, it is also touching the beach.
Came back in waves. Unlike a rock, or even a small wave,
It also caused a high splash.
38 lifestyles of emperors and generals
Author: Ai Gongzi
This is a history book, and I turned it into today's people.
Because when I started reading this book,
I just found out that human nature is complicated, and the stories of the characters in the book are all
There is a complex human nature, every time you read a character's
All the stories have made me understand some principles of dealing with people.
Weakness of human nature
Author: [America] Dale Carnegie
This book mainly talks about the basic skills of getting along with people, the secret of peace and happiness,
How to make others like you, how to win others' approval and how to be better.
Persuade others and make family life happy. we should
You should care about your own problems, not worry. Paying attention means recognizing the problem.
And calmly take measures to deal with it, fearing that it is just beating around the bush in panic.
affect
Author: [America] Robert Siodini
From a psychological point of view, influence is concentrated on three kinds of people.
The psychological factors of children's daily behavior are the principle of reciprocity and the principle of commitment and consistency.
And social identity. Some people with ulterior motives will use these principles,
Let everyone fall into the trap of thinking, obey their own ideas, and lose.
Your own rhythm. This book tells you why you are rejected by the six principles.
It's very useful to be led by the nose. Of course.
There are also some words with high emotional intelligence, which are well worth reading!
Tan caigen
Author: Hong Yingming
Life is a book that doesn't teach you to do evil, and wolves don't call you.
To be a sheep at the mercy of others, but to teach you to be an honest and comfortable person,
Officialdom, love, and business are all included in "Self-cultivation,
Be a man, learn from the times, be cautious and independent.
Face points out the meaning of life for us.