1 Increase your cultural literacy (read more books with positive meanings!)
I think more books such as classics, preferably some ancient classics , that is to say, you can still quote from other sources, especially in books like the Three Kingdoms. What are the main characters, what famous battles they fought, what generals they used, and what other achievements the generals had. In short, remember , this novel, I personally like it very much, and because of this hobby, I have made many good male friends who are fans of the Three Kingdoms. As a hobby buddy, from the perspective of a girl, I think that a person who can read the Three Kingdoms must be a far-sighted person. , people who don’t speak easily, and such people will have depth
(In short, reading will really change people’s personalities, and this change is subtle! Books If you read more, you will naturally stop talking too much! )
2 Allow yourself to write more diaries in a timely manner and summarize yourself, or try to let yourself be alone and think more about yourself. Life, instead of just rushing towards life, try to think and experience your own life at the same time
(In short, learn to think, learn to reflect, and learn to summarize!)
I wish you success in your transformation!