Yan Dunshu tells us that many people actually make unexpected mistakes in their daily work, life and study. It is really unhealthy to hold on to them and attack them in groups. We all want to be recognized by others, but everyone's thinking and ability are very different. Who can guarantee that it will be perfect every time
Don't make a mountain out of a molehill and don't hide the decoration! What we need in our daily work, life and study is an atmosphere of cooperation and mutual assistance. Instead of blaming each other, laughing at each other and criticizing each other. Anyone's growth will have an immature process. Anyone who does things will have the psychology of self-correction. Any unit will have a self-correcting mechanism.
Learn to respect and give anyone a space and time for self-adjustment; Learn to respect, don't laugh at others' shortcomings, and don't say others' faults; When others fall, don't be an arrogant bystander, let alone gloat, but help them. Criticism and ridicule of others will not make life better, nor will it make you taller. Helping tolerance will make life full of sunshine and make people more noble and beautiful!
Ma Yuan's Disciple Yan Dunshu:
This letter was written to two nephews during the expedition in Ma Yuan. In the letter, Ma Yuan directed his two nephews to talk about others and make friends with frivolous chivalrous men, and used his own life experience to guide them on how to behave.
Ma Yuan Yuan Wen was born in Maoling, Fufeng, Eastern Han Dynasty. When the new headstrong, for the new city big Yin. After joining Xiao Wei, he returned to Liu Xiu, defeated Xiao Wei and became the prefect of Longxi. Officially to General Fu Bo, seal a new breath. Later, when attacking Wuling "Wu Ximan", he died in the army. He is the author of Bronze Horse Facies.
Ma Yuan's nephews Ma Yan and Ma Dun usually like to criticize current politics and make friends with chivalrous men, which worries him. Although far away from Toe Army, I still wrote this sincere letter. The article speaks earnestly, and the lines between the lines are full of the deep concern and ardent expectations of the elders for the younger generation, so it can produce such an effect.