Dong Qiao once said that he was obsessed with binding. The cover design of this book is really beautiful, but it is still not exquisite enough, just like the content of this book. Of course, I only read this book for Yi Ru, because I read his book "Life is like seeing for the first time". I still like the first half of the book. It feels like wandering in beautiful ancient times, but the second part is put down, because words and love are no longer beautiful. ...
So, just write down what you think and feel in the first half of reading!
Ann Yiru's words, like a gust of wind blowing from his face with fragrance, make people intoxicated, but keep a little awake, leaving readers room for independent thinking. If you leave, when you are far away, you are close; No alienation, no intimacy. Sometimes, she will express her thoughts clearly and let me see that this is an independent woman. Sometimes, she will deliberately make her words ambiguous, making people guess and ponder. It is between exploration and reflection that reading a book is like a trip and an adventure.
Where did the beauty go and how to find it? And the destination of beauty is nothing more than the embrace of heroes, or between luxury cars. In fact, different beautiful women will have completely different destinations.
As the saying goes, there is no success without reason, and there is no failure without reason. The thread of fate seems chaotic, but it is clear and the process is clear. This is a continuous cycle of germination, growth, continuation and termination. In a sense, everyone is repeating the path of their predecessors. Fortunately, it is not an absolute repetition, but there are still some subtle variables. The difference between people lies in the difference of self-realm and purpose achieved through a new road.
No matter in which era, all kinds of women will never be scarce. There are too many women with different personalities and outstanding performances. For example, the world is full of charm and has different audiences. Their beauty, their wisdom and their legends have been talked about.
However, femme fatale has become synonymous with them. Is it wrong to be beautiful? Parents left them no choice. Because of the greed for sex and the entanglement of right and wrong, their beauty has become a disaster, but in people's eyes, the beauty of the country is the root of ruining their lives. Is it wrong to have unparalleled intelligence? Their own abilities are the reason for their survival. It is with their intelligence that they will attract those heroes in troubled times and make a lifetime legend.
However, their lives are miserable. It is painful to have beauty and wisdom but lose love. I think they would rather have a complete and sincere love than these things that pursue beauty and intelligence. They are always regarded as objects and pushed around in politics and interests. Who really cares about their thoughts and asks their wishes? Perhaps, in the eyes of the world, they are just a beautiful vase.
In fact, the most touching thing about beauty is not peach blossom and cherry mouth, not enchanting figure, slender waist and soft hair, but wisdom and emotional intelligence.
But I have to mention the word opportunity.
If Tang Taizong had not widely selected all the beautiful women in the world, Wu Zetian would not have entered the Tang Palace at all, and later she was only a rural peasant woman, and there would not be the only female emperor in the history of the Chinese nation. If Emperor Xianfeng was not a good woman and loved to listen to operas, Laner would not be concerned by him because he sang ditty well, and there would be no ambitious Cixi later.
However, they are naturally weak and have to wait for men to choose.
But whether it is Wu Zetian or Cixi, the men who choose them are just passers-by in their lives and stepping stones to the peak of their lives. For women like Wu Zetian and Cixi, the criteria for judging ordinary women such as appearance and figure are no longer important to them. What is remembered by the world is precisely their wisdom and talent! They make themselves a "Yuelongmen" and become a royal talent. Their ability to control the situation and men in life, or their wisdom in governing the country.
Admittedly, there are also many women with strong innate advantages.
For example, Li Ji has excellent conditions and opportunities. She was pampered in the Han Palace and gave birth to a prince. She was basically a shoo-in, but because she felt too good about herself, she lost her vigilance and vision of seeing things clearly, which led to the final failure.
On the contrary, it is Yang Yuhuan. Her innate waywardness is her unique capital, but it is also her fatal shortcoming! After all, emperors are different from ordinary people's all-inclusive lovers. However, Yang Yuhuan is wise. She used the title of "Lady" to narrow the distance between herself and Li Longji, making their love ordinary but not dull. With a strand of hair, she easily broke the danger of being expelled from the palace. As the saying goes, "When you are married, there is no doubt about your love." She saw the deep affection between husband and wife after this strand of hair. From this perspective, she is favored not only because of her plump figure, but also because of her insight and grasp of the emperor's mentality.
Beauty is old, and the world is like dust. Youth is gone forever, and the once proud capital has become a bad joke. Finally, only that wisdom will condense into Zhu Shazhi in the chest and Bai Yueguang in the window, which are still so beautiful and never change.
Then you find that IQ is very important to a woman's success, and EQ is undoubtedly more important.
Actually, it's not just women, it's all over the world.
Think of a sentence: beauty is old and the world is like dust. ...