Wonderful speech by Live high 1
In the hurried journey of life, each of us is a passer-by, carrying a light or heavy burden on our shoulders and walking constantly.
Every time most people squeeze into the bustling crowd, I'm afraid it's hard to hear their footsteps again.
You may be one of these people. When you get used to following others' footsteps, you will gradually become a nobody. Self? People.
As a result, your world lacks its own splendor. You chose the wrong goal for yourself on the road of life without yourself? Reference? So, you lost the direction you should go.
You are in pain, complaining and even shouting: how on earth should I go this way of life? Why am I inferior to others in many ways? Why am I worried?
? Why can't I find happiness and happiness in my life? Why am I a weak person? Why is my fate so bad? Why can't I see sunshine and hope?
In the final analysis, it is because you have lost yourself and lost the life path that suits you.
You have to understand that in this world, you are also unique and cannot be copied. You have your unique advantages and unique personality.
The ancient Greek philosopher Epicurus once said: If you live according to nature, you will never be poor; If you build your life according to people's ideas, you will never be rich. ?
In fact, everyone has his own way of life, just as every star has his own trajectory. When your life is out of your own track, your life is doomed to be sad.
The great philosopher and poet Tagore once said: Life is not a canal dug artificially, and rivers cannot be confined to some well-defined rivers. ?
Yes, life should not be bound unnecessarily. Life itself should be free to choose.
In fact, you don't need to judge yourself and change yourself by other people's standards, and you don't need to let other people's ideas determine your life.
You are you! Be yourself and choose what you like to do.
With a relaxed attitude, pursue your deep dreams, love yourself and all your relatives and friends around you, even strangers, learn to be kind to yourself, live in your favorite way, be your own star, and be wonderful every day in live high!
Live high wonderful speech 2
Good afternoon, friends! I am glad to have the opportunity to communicate with you and talk about happiness.
Why did you choose this topic? This has something to do with my work.
I am a psychological counselor, helping visitors solve psychological problems.
For example: a person has just lost love and is very painful; A mother is extremely anxious because her child is disobedient; ?
My job is to help those who ask for help get out of the unhappy state, or reduce the unhappy degree, so that this unhappy state is within an acceptable range, rather than that we can't live in pain.
My job determines that people who come to me are in some unhappy state. A person will not come to me when he is happy.
It can be said that I am a person who often deals with unhappiness, so I am more attentive than the average person? Are you happy? This question.
First, everyone is unhappy sometimes.
In medicine, there are two kinds of people: people with normal psychology and people with abnormal psychology.
People with abnormal psychology are the people with mental disorders that we are familiar with, that is, mental patients and lunatics.
They need to go to a mental hospital to receive help and treatment from a psychologist.
People with normal psychology can be divided into mentally healthy people and mentally unhealthy people.
Mental health and unhealthy are relative concepts, just like our physical health.
(PPT) People's mental state fluctuates like water, sometimes healthy and sometimes unhealthy.
This fluctuation itself is a normal state.
When we are healthy, we feel satisfied, happy, peaceful, happy, cheerful and happy; When we are unhealthy, we will feel anxiety, worry, disappointment, terror, doubt, anger, hopelessness, helplessness, powerlessness, pain and so on.
Everything we encounter in life will cause our emotions to fluctuate.
Second, what kind of things will make us unhappy?
Share: What kind of things will make us unhappy?
1, not beautiful, too short, too fat, too dark skin;
2, the education is not high, others think that you have no culture and know too little;
3, the work is not good, too hard, and the salary is low;
4、?
Third, happiness is your choice.
How to make yourself happy? Psychologists' research gives us the answer.
Psychologists believe that happiness is a subjective feeling of psychology.
So, whether you are happy or not depends on yourself.
There is a famous ABC theory in psychology.
A stands for induced event; B represents a specific person's view of trigger event A; C represents the emotional response and behavior of this specific person after this induced event.
ABC theory tells us that happiness is our own choice.
Many things we can't change, but we can choose how to look at them, so we choose to be happy or unhappy.
So happiness is our own choice, and unhappiness is what we ask for.
Story 2: There is an old mother. She has two sons. The eldest son sells umbrellas and the youngest son sells popsicles.
On a sunny day, the old mother was worried about her eldest son, because no one bought an umbrella on a sunny day.
On rainy days, the old mother felt sorry for her little son, because no one ate popsicles on rainy days.
Then someone said to the old mother:? Sunny days should be happy for my youngest son, because many people will buy his popsicles. You should be happy for your eldest son when it rains, because his umbrella has become a hot commodity.
? The old mother did as he said, and since then, she has really become very happy.
Fourth, what kind of choice determines what kind of life.
Three people will be put in prison for three years, and the warden asked each of them to make a request.
Americans love to smoke cigars and asked for three boxes of cigars.
The French are the most romantic and want to be accompanied by beautiful women.
The Jew said he wanted a telephone to communicate with the outside world.
Three years later, the first person who rushed out was an American, with a cigar in his mouth and shouting, "Give me a fire, give me a fire!" " "It turned out that he forgot to make a fire.
Then the French came.
I saw a child in his hand, a beautiful woman holding a child in her hand and a third one in her belly.
Finally, the Jews came out. He held the warden's hand tightly and said, "I have been in contact with the outside world every day for three years." My business has not stopped, but has increased by 200%. To show my gratitude, I will send you a Rolls Royce! "
Tip: Choice is a concrete and concrete action.
What kind of choice determines what kind of life.
Today's life is determined by our choices three years ago, and today's choices will determine our life three years later.
5. Accept yourself and enjoy the present.
Accept yourself and appreciate yourself.
Many people don't like themselves. Do you like yourself?
Exercise: Please find out what makes you satisfied or proud within 5 minutes. Then find out what makes you dissatisfied (note: it can be personality, advantages and disadvantages, specialties, defects, etc. ).
Spot check: think about the results.
How can a person be happy if he doesn't even like himself? How can people who don't like themselves expect others to like you?
6. Enlightenment of "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise"
Good and bad, mutual transformation; Luck and misfortune go hand in hand.
This is a fable in China's ancient books.
? Plug? What is a plug? A plug is the Great Wall. ? Sai Weng? Is the old man at the foot of the Great Wall; The old man keeps horses, and once his horse got lost, he felt very unfortunate.
However, after a while, the horse went home with another wild horse. He was very happy, because the lost horse not only came back by itself, but also brought back another horse, turning a bad thing into a good thing.
The old man's son wants to train a horse, as soon as he sees a wild horse. How do you know that the old man's son fell off his horse and hurt his foot as soon as the wild horse earned it?
When the old man saw this, he couldn't help saying that this trip was a good thing, but it turned out to be a bad thing. This wild horse hurt my son's foot.
After a while, my son's foot still didn't get better. Suddenly, the emperor recruited soldiers among the people, and the men wanted to go to war, but his son was exempted from service because of a foot injury.
How many soldiers were recruited to fight at that time? How many people fought in ancient times? After a narrow escape, my son didn't have to go to war or die.
What does this story tell us? An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. How did you know? How do you know if it's good or bad? A blessing in disguise. You don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. It is always evolving.
In fact, we have experienced many examples.
Some people go gambling, because they win money, their hearts are red, they want to get rich, and they lose completely.
Some people went to speculate in real estate, which went smoothly at first, so the more they speculated, the more brave they became, and finally they went bankrupt.
Some people are afraid of gambling. Once he enters the casino, he will lose money. On the surface, this is a bad thing. In fact, it is a good thing that he dare not gamble.
There is a saying that God tests people with a little blessing.
God tries you with a small blessing. In fact, when disaster strikes, Fu Lai need not be too happy.
Heaven will test people with small disasters, and happiness will follow.
The meaning of this sentence is the same as that of a blessing in disguise.
Things are coming, which may be good or bad. We should not be too persistent or too happy, but treat it with a normal heart.
It depends on its development, because good things may turn into bad things, and bad things may also produce good results, which is unexpected.
But if we have this psychological preparation, we should not regard good things as excellent or bad things as absolute bad luck. That's not how we look at things.
We look at things from the perspective of development and change, the result of things, and the progress of things in waves. This is called dialectics.
Therefore, it is a dialectics to say that a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise.
Live high wonderful speech 3
Dear friends: Hello everyone!
If someone asks you: What is wonderful? What would you say? The craze for joining the army in the war years, the craze for literature in the 1980s or the craze for going abroad in the 1990s? Yes, they are all great.
Each era has its own glory, and each era has created different glories, but in any case, glory is always closely linked with youth.
Promoted in the' 90s? Reading is useless? It's already in full swing Postgraduate entrance examination? 、? Textual research: the hot air blew without a trace.
Times have pushed our new generation of young people to the forefront of society.
Therefore, we are going to find the wonderful things that belong to our generation.
In order to live a wonderful life, we should have goals and beliefs.
The goal is a bright light in your heart, and faith is the source of strength that inspires you to move toward the goal.
The goal may be vague and the road may be bumpy.
However, as long as you set a bright light, you can swim across the sea of danger smoothly! The legendary fire phoenix flies against the sky in order to ignite its own body, because only burning can regenerate.
This is somewhat tragic, but it is indeed a magnificent picture.
Because the process of struggle is wonderful!
In order to live a wonderful life, we must have knowledge and skills.
Knowledge is the foundation of success, and skill is the tool of success.
Mankind has entered the 2 1 century, the world is multipolar, information is globalized, and knowledge and information amount have increased by a hundredfold.
Faced with this reality, the relaxed scene in the ivory tower has long since disappeared, replaced by looking for a wonderful pair of fiery eyes.
Society has brought us the cruelty of competition, and it has also created the self-improvement and progress of a new generation of young people.
There's a saying? Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared? So, young friends, get ready early.
In order to live a wonderful life, we must have the spirit of continuous transcendence.
Mr. Lu Xun once said that dissatisfaction is the upward soul? .
The progress of the times makes new things develop at an incredible speed.
No iron rice bowl, no shelf life.
Whenever, we should meet the challenge with the attitude of the starting line.