Family education, the influence of parents is very important. ,
I think children from divorced families are a little extreme in character, especially those who lack love and those who have suffered from domestic violence. The growing environment is very important, and the educational level of parents also determines their future.
The three-character scripture says: "At the beginning of life, people are good in nature, similar in nature and far away from learning." . With the growth of age and the deepening of life, people's personality will change in different environments. To make a metaphor, a person is born into a family, with a good family style, kindness and integrity, and his personality is basically stereotyped in adulthood. On the other hand, "those who are close to Zhu Zhechi are black", who have not received a good education, do not know what is ugly and what is evil, and go astray, which is harmful to society and is also a blind alley for themselves.
In fact, scientific research has found that human beings have violent genes, that is, they can inherit them. But there is a violent gene. As long as the acquired education and environment are good, there will be no crime. Interested people can search the documentary "Through the Wormhole", and I can't remember which episode is about this.
For people who don't have violent genes, but the acquired environment is a mess, it will definitely increase the possibility of violent crimes. Do you think people dare to kill chickens and ducks nowadays? No, it's an environmental problem.
Similarly, many people may wonder why those violent criminals are so cruel. The main reason is that those people lack feelings. To put it simply, they regard other human beings as an object, and killing people is equivalent to throwing chairs at things.
Therefore, those people on the road who are riding an electric car with a child rampaging through the traffic are really nothing!
A large part of violent crimes are formed the day after tomorrow, because the bad living environment has a great influence on children's growth, and children have strong imitation ability and poor self-control, so they are easily eroded by bad environment and embark on the road of crime.
Are violent criminals born or made? In fact, our ancestors have already answered this question. China's famous ancient book "Saint Amethyst" said, "At the beginning of life, human nature is good. Sex is similar, learning is far away, not teaching, and sex is moving. " It is said that there is no difference in the nature of newborn children, and the day after tomorrow (in the process of growth) is very important and plays a decisive role in the formation of personality. The day after tomorrow is the environment, including family, society and school. Family is a free and unfettered living place for children. What children see and hear is most easily stored in their brains. A harmonious, friendly and positive family will cast a kind, lively and enterprising heart for children. If family conflicts continue, parents' quarrels become commonplace and selfish, which will cause loneliness, social disgust and selfishness to children; School is an indispensable place for children to learn knowledge. Teachers' words and deeds, children as their role models, so teachers' words and deeds play a very important role in children's growth; The quality of society and social atmosphere play a stereotyped role in what kind of world outlook children form. This is my short answer to this question.
I recommend a book, Psychoanalysis of the Federal Bureau of Investigation. The author is a psychologist of the Federal Bureau of Investigation. He analyzes a group of American serial killers, all from troubled families. Either their parents are divorced, or their mothers have a strong desire for control, or their fathers have a tendency to violence.
After reading this book, I personally think that the more peaceful the society where people are not closely connected, the more vulnerable children will be to family injury, develop a distorted and indifferent personality, and become an antisocial personality when they grow up.
Therefore, we should have a nosy neighbor or like to engage in group activities, and love to cultivate people's elders.
This is formed the day after tomorrow. People with violent personality, if they receive a just education from childhood, will be used to eliminate evil and promote good when they grow up.
Nature also has an impact, mainly because the later education is very important and the social environment changes. If the father is grumpy, if he is strictly disciplined, the child will become weaker and better. If left unchecked, it is that Lao Tzu's heroic son is a hero, Lao Tzu has done all kinds of bad things, and his son has inherited a lot. Education in childhood is easily ingrained, but cultural exchange and social environment in the later period are still very important.
Many things are really natural.