The ancients said: there are three kinds of unfilial, and there is no unfilial after. What is this?

And:

Obeying parents blindly, whether right or wrong, is a kind of unfilial. My parents are poor and old, and they don't go to be officials to provide for the elderly. This is the second kind of unfilial.

Original text:

The third person who is unfilial in the ceremony refers to Ah Yi's obedience, being trapped in injustice and unfilial; Poor old people, not an official, unfilial; If you don't get married and have children, you will never worship your ancestors, which is unfilial. Of the three, nothing is the greatest. "

Vernacular translation:

There are three ways to be unfilial: blindly obeying, seeing that parents are at fault and not persuading them, making them fall into injustice, which is the first kind of unfilial; Poor family and elderly parents, but not to be an official to support their parents, this is the second kind of unfilial; It is the third kind of unfilial to not marry and have children and cut off offspring.

Source: Notes on Thirteen Classics edited by Ruan Yuan in Qing Dynasty.

Notes to Thirteen Classics is a book that researchers of literature and history often consult. China's literary works are vast, with about100000 kinds. Sikuquanshu is the essence of these literary works. In the four subsets of classics and history, the classic department is its essence, and the Notes to Thirteen Classics is the first of its classic departments.

The Annotation to Thirteen Classics edited by Ruan Yuan in Qing Dynasty is a rare book. At present, the popular editions are the simplified editions (hardcover 16 format) of Shanghai Ancient Books Publishing House, Zhonghua Book Company and Zhejiang Ancient Books Publishing House.

The important value of Thirteen Classics in China's ideological and cultural history is self-evident. Generally speaking, they are important historical materials for studying China's ancient ideology and culture, and in a sense, they are an encyclopedia of China's ancient culture. From the ancient classics, we can also see the mutual influence of different schools.

Moreover, as the backbone of China's ideology and culture, Confucian classics have been playing an irreplaceable leading role in national cohesion and cultural identity. Of course, although the Thirteen Classics have accumulated the experience and wisdom of countless predecessors through the ages, they are not a panacea for all diseases, nor can they provide ready-made answers to various problems in modern society.

Extended data:

Related statement:

Mencius said, "There are three kinds of unfilial, and the biggest one is the last. Get married without telling, because there is no future. This gentleman thinks he is still suing. "

Vernacular translation:

There are many kinds of unfilial behaviors, and it is the most unfilial to fail to fulfill the responsibility to future generations. Shun didn't tell her parents to get married, nor did she fulfill her responsibilities as a descendant. This gentleman thinks it's best to tell his parents.

Source: Mencius on Li Lou during the Warring States Period.

Mencius is a collection of Mencius' speeches by Mencius and his disciples, which records Mencius' language, political opinions (benevolent politics, Wang Ba's debate, people-oriented, respecting the right and wrong of the monarch, and valuing the people over the monarch) and political actions. Mencius once took Confucius as an example and led his disciples all over the world. But it was not accepted by all countries at that time. He retired and wrote books with his disciples.

Seven pieces of Mencius handed down from ancient times: the first and second pieces of Liang Huiwang; "Gongsun Ugly" up and down; "Teng Wengong" up and down; "Li Lou" up and down; "Zhang Wan" up and down; "Gao Zi" goes up and down; Heart and soul. His theoretical starting point is the theory of good nature, which puts forward "benevolent governance" and "kingly governance" and advocates rule by virtue. ?

In the Southern Song Dynasty, Zhu called Mencius, The Analects of Confucius, Daxue and The Doctrine of the Mean the Four Books. Mencius is the largest and heaviest of the four books, with more than 35 thousand words. From then until the end of Qing Dynasty, "Four Books" had been a compulsory part of the imperial examination.

There are five so-called unfilial people in the secular world: lazy, regardless of parents' support, unfilial; The game is good at drinking, regardless of parents' support, and it is unfilial; Good wealth, private wife regardless of parental support, three unfilial; From the desire for eyes and ears, I thought that my parents were killed and four were unfilial; Brave and heartless, endangering parents, unfilial.

It is generally believed that there are five kinds of unfilial behaviors: the first one is that the limbs are lazy and the parents are neglected; Drinking and gambling, regardless of supporting parents, is the second type; Greedy for money, caring only for his wife and children, regardless of supporting his parents, is the third type; Indulge in erotic pleasure and humiliate parents, which is the fourth; Being brave and aggressive brings trouble to parents, which is the fifth kind.

There are three kinds of unfilial, none of which is the biggest.