I believe everyone doesn't dislike reading books about talking skills with people. I believe many people will like more and more books or materials, so what are the books about talking skills with people? Let's see what books we have.
Talking skills books 1 1, the power of speaking.
sun luhong
This is a very practical communication skill book, which I think is especially suitable for young people who are new to the workplace!
Because the author, as an old-timer in the workplace, gives very targeted speech skills in different working situations.
And these are definitely good words for inexperienced young people!
For example, when you are suddenly asked a difficult question, you can use the "mat tool" mentioned in this book.
First, evaluate each other's problems as a foreshadowing, such as "Your problem hit the nail on the head at once."
Then you will find that the tense atmosphere can be relaxed in an instant, and you have more time to organize sentence answers.
I really benefited from reading this book, and efficient communication is really too important in the workplace!
Fortunately, this skill does not depend on talent. Whoever practices speaking seriously will be more productive!
2. "How to speak"
Allen garner
You must have seen some people become heartthrobs with only one mouth.
Do you want to know the secret? Then I quietly recommend this book to you.
This book doesn't talk about boring theories, but only provides cultivation skills and teaches you how to use the power of conversation to praise others, express yourself, gain trust and so on.
For example, when praising others, you can just say, "Your hair is beautiful."
In fact, doing this step is already excellent! But there must be room for improvement!
The most effective trick is to make the compliment more specific, and the other party will have a strong sense of identity and appear more sincere!
So, in the end, you can praise others like this: "Xiaoli, I think your hairstyle today is especially suitable for your beautiful eyes!" " "
Don't be ashamed to speak, but use the power of conversation flexibly!
The best communication can definitely make the language directly enter each other's hearts and make the conversation really become a bridge to narrow the distance between them.
3. Humorous communication
Chen Hao
Humorous eloquence is the secret of winning, the humorous eloquence strategy that can be seen at a glance, and the humorous expression skills that are skillfully used. Practical and humorous eloquence, efficient communication skills, dual personality charm, enhance the speech atmosphere.
A good sense of humor is worth a thousand words. Inject humor into words, gain motivation in humor, and teach you to turn blunt words into euphemisms and black-and-white languages into colors.
Humor is indispensable in life. Humor can help us resolve embarrassment, get rid of troubles, and even help us get rid of the haze.
A humorous person may only say a few simple words, but it can have an extraordinary impact. Humorous and eloquent people can laugh everywhere they go.
Let humor become a life attitude, enhance your personality charm and make you have a happy life.
Conversation Skills Volume II "The Art of Communication"
Sheng anzhi
He turned a deaf ear to talking to rebellious children;
Report to the boss for instructions, but the boss is bored;
He asked his subordinates to temporarily add a class, and he was silent;
Let a friend pay back the money, but he shirks it in every way;
I hope the object is romantic, but he is stunned;
The customer was expected to sign the bill as soon as possible, but he put it off again and again. ...
What's going on here? How to say, the other party will listen? How to listen, the other party will say?
Don't think that they deliberately give you a hard time, in fact, you don't communicate with them in place! Communication in place, get twice the result with half the effort. If communication is smooth, it will be done!
Communication is mainly listening and speaking! All high-quality and efficient communication is based on "truly caring for each other and keeping each other in mind".
A high-quality communication can eliminate misunderstandings, a pleasant communication can enhance relationships, and an efficient communication can solve difficult problems, so that every communication can be fruitful and bid farewell to the dilemma of not being able to say, not being clear, not getting to the point and regretting.
Talk to anyone.
Mike bechtel
Why do we get more picky when we get closer? Why is it that the more important the relationship, the easier it is for us to ignore it? Why is it that the more important the conversation, the more we try to avoid it?