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The weakness of human nature (beauty) I have always liked Dale Carnegie's works, and I benefited a lot from reading his works 10 years ago. He is the father of modern American growth education, a psychologist and interpersonal relationship scientist, and is regarded as the greatest spiritual mentor in the 20th century. "Besides the Statue of Liberty, Carnegie is a symbol of America" (new york Times). His works are classics of psychology books, which let us know our weaknesses, know how to change ourselves, win friendship in interpersonal relationships and influence others.
This book contains: three skills of interpersonal relationship, six popular methods, the rule of 12 being recognized, nine skills of persuading others better, a miracle letter (so that lovers can help each other at least), seven rules of making your family happy, and an appendix on how couples get along. The author tells these skills, methods, tricks and rules, tells them through real cases, and finally summarizes the experience. It feels like listening to a story, not so boring. I like this way very much. It feels real. It is easier to accept the truth contained in other people's stories. This is the charm of this book, and I feel that I can never get tired of reading it.
The book refers to an American masterpiece, Father's Mistakes, in which the father only severely criticized and did not encourage his son's life. Shortly after my son left, the newspaper slipped from my hand. An indescribable strong sense of guilt filled my mind. My bad habits are really hateful! Picky for no reason, always lecturing people. I can't imagine applying these bad habits to your child. This is not a sign that I love you. This is the mistake I asked you by the standards of people my age. The father felt very sorry for his harsh criticism and scolding of his children. When he began to review, he found that he had done something wrong. His son is still a child and doesn't understand at all. From this case, sum up experience. Don't blame others, try to think, why do others do that? What's the point of doing that? Understanding is more beneficial and meaningful than blaming. Understanding breeds sympathy, tolerance and goodwill. "To be inclusive is to understand everything." As Dr. Johnson said, "God, even God, will not judge the world easily until the end." Why can't we do it? So please remember-avoid criticizing, accusing or complaining.
I like the last part of this book best, about 7 rules to make your family happy. Many people don't know how to manage their families well and make their lovers and themselves happy. Chatter is digging the grave of marriage: the chatter of Mrs. Lincoln, Queen Eugenia and Mrs. Tolstoy finally brought disaster to their most cherished marriage. Besides, what else did you bring? Tragedy. What else? Bessie Hamberg, a family relations court in new york, has 1 1 years of working experience and has tried thousands of family and marriage disputes. She said that women's endless nagging is an important reason why men run away from home. As the Boston Post said, "Many wives are actually slowly becoming grave diggers of marriage." So, if you want a happy family, just remember: never nag!
There are still many contents in the book worth studying and discussing. When you understand these simple truths, I believe you can have a good time and know how to be a happy person.
▼ Reflection on "The Weakness of Human Nature" (II)
In fact, after reading the whole book "The Weakness of Human Nature", what I like best is that sentence: "All love and good deeds should be cashed immediately. Don't hesitate and don't stay. Time flies, time waits for no one, life is only once. "
We all live in this world, but what is the meaning of living? Why should we get along with people? How should we get along with others? Every day, different problems bother us. When we are young, we are taught that "the beginning of life is good in essence". Maybe this is our primary subconscious when we get along with others. In fact, there is nothing wrong. When we get along with others with a kind heart, we praise others with our sincerity and treat others with a kind heart, and others will repay you with this attitude. Of course, attitude is important. When we get along with others with a sincere heart, the world will become beautiful. We really have to live in this world with a kind heart. Although heart and heart are always connected, sometimes scheming and scheming are mutually exclusive. When we are sincere and kind, others sometimes don't think so. The ancients said that people's hearts are all flesh, and only by taking care of each other can we achieve the relationship between life and death.
I think that living in the present world, we should have a dual mentality. Kindness and honesty are very important, but we should also have our own bottom line, so that the world can survive and develop better ~ Kindness is a kind of kindness, and we should hold a kind attitude and be grateful to all those who care about ourselves. I also believe that this is an attitude towards life and a moral character. When you make friends with others with a kind heart and know how to treat others with dedication, you will feel the beauty of life. If you are always kind, you will get the favor of good thoughts and your mood will be natural and peaceful. Being kind to others is being kind to yourself, which is a blessing. I often think so. I believe that even every little thing in life is like this. When we walk in the world this time, we will meet so many monsters on the road. But when we have a kind heart, the world will be fair and will not treat you badly. When others say yes, they will affirm their own views. This is the most basic respect, so that others can be kind to you. We all believe that a person's beauty is from the inside out. Appearance is important, but the beauty of the soul is the real beauty. Everyone can be ugly, but must be kind, because it is from the heart. Kind people will always reveal a different kind of light, just like lotus leaves mud but is not stained, and it has other properties. Cultivate your mind, be warm and kind, treat others with a kind mind, and treat others with kindness and sincerity, so that the world will treat you fairly. You give me a hug, I give you a smile, you give me a drop of water, I pour a sea, sow kindness and honesty, and the world will become better!
▼ Comment 3 on "The Weakness of Human Nature"
During this time, I read Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature" and benefited a lot. Reading such a book in such a late night is like enjoying a delicious life feast. It is really understandable and unspeakable to express this feeling. It is like a mirror, which helps me to know myself, understand myself, so as to improve myself, control myself and become a successful person who is good at managing my life. The long road of life has made me more aware of what kind of future I am facing while seeing the road clearly.
"Sincerely appreciate and praise others" is my deepest feeling after reading this book. I have read this book once and can only get a general understanding. You have to read it several times to understand its meaning. The so-called "know yourself and know yourself, and win every battle" is true on the battlefield and in life. A person who knows each other better and knows himself better can be comfortable and invincible in life. The weakness of human nature is the essence of Carnegie's thought and career. Through vivid stories and easy-to-understand principles, the book excavates 60 weaknesses hidden in the human body from the perspective of human nature. Only when a person knows himself and constantly transforms himself can he make continuous progress until he succeeds! Carnegie's writing style is not very profound, it is all ordinary little things, but Carnegie's artistic soul is embedded in the book. His reaction to these little things was unexpected, which shocked my heart and made me feel so small. The world will not stop turning because of losing Carnegie, but will become a better place because of him. With his insight into human nature, Mr. Carnegie used a large number of ordinary people to make continuous efforts to achieve success. Through his speeches and books, he aroused the fighting spirit of countless lost people and inspired our future generations to achieve brilliant success.
The tips and suggestions in The Weaknesses of Human Nature are highly operable and can be summarized in one sentence: If we recognize the weaknesses in human nature, we will get twice the result with half the effort and succeed smoothly. Rereading "The Weakness of Human Nature" made me realize that this weakness can be my own or someone else's. Knowing other people's weaknesses can make each of us make smooth progress in our daily communication; Knowing your own weaknesses can help you develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses, highlight your strengths, and build a better life. Working in a state-owned enterprise, I always remind myself to be prepared for danger in times of peace and constantly improve and enrich myself.
In the book, the author talks about how we should learn to appreciate others sincerely in our life and work. Carnegie said: "There is only one way to get others to do anything-give them what they want." "In your daily life journey, don't forget to leave a little praise for the world. This little spark of friendship will ignite the flame of friendship. " Yes!
Carnegie said: "People are like this. When they do something wrong, they only blame others, not themselves. " Perhaps this sentence is not strange to us and is often used, but we have made some changes to it. After the change, it became, "He is like this. When he does something wrong, he will only blame others, not himself. " Seemingly subtle differences, in fact, are very small, a thousand miles away. When you say this sentence with one finger pointing at others, maybe the other finger is pointing at yourself! Carnegie hit the nail on the head by pointing out this bad habit. We always like to talk about other people's right and wrong. Why can't we compare ourselves with them and look at ourselves? When others do badly, is what they do perfect? When you realize that you will make mistakes, you will rise to a higher level and sum up an eternal truth: "To err is human." ? The root of the disease is the lack of understanding and tolerance between people. I will always remember what Wei Zi said when he interceded for the Queen in the finale of the TV series Princess Zhu Huan II, that is, "the greatest virtue in life is forgiveness". What's your attitude when we are crowded with buses every day, when we are walking on the road every day, and when others accidentally hit you? Full of resentment, swearing or forgiving others and being kind to yourself? We are always used to thinking from our own standpoint when considering things, so everything others do is wrong when it is different from ourselves, and so is it for others! But if both sides can look at themselves from the perspective of others, the result will be completely different. Seeing yourself from the perspective of others requires understanding and forgiving others' qualities and achievements. Only people who are not smart enough will criticize and complain about others-in fact, many stupid people will do so. Only when we learn to care about our friends sincerely can we win their greatest trust.
Reading this book again inspired me to prepare for what will happen in the future.
First of all, I want to change myself and learn to treat my life and work with a happy attitude. The book says, "Don't forget, happiness doesn't depend on who you are or what you have. It comes entirely from your thoughts." I believe that happiness comes from the heart. There is an old saying, hoping to encourage you: "Life is only once, so do what you can contribute now.". Don't be slow, don't neglect, because you only live once. " Emerson said, "Everyone I meet is more or less my teacher, because I learned something from him." If this is true and feasible for Emerson, it is even more true for each of us. Let's not always think about our own achievements and needs, but try our best to find the advantages of others, and then, instead of catering, we sincerely appreciate them. Praise sincerely and generously, and people will cherish your words in their lifetime memories.
As Mr. Carnegie said: "Only 65,438+05% of a person's success is attributed to his professional knowledge, and 85% is attributed to his ability to express his thoughts, lead others and arouse their enthusiasm." Therefore, I think: as long as we repeatedly study the weaknesses of human nature, we will certainly be able to help us acquire 85% of the abilities necessary for success.
Now, I recommend this book to you who want to constantly improve yourself. I hope you can feel better and change after reading it. We don't have to regard it as a classic that can be regarded as a classic. It is a kind of relaxing reading, and it is a mirror to put on the bed, reflect on yourself and correct the route.
People say: correct thoughts will make people enjoy a correct and happy life! I wish every reader friend with human weakness a full and happy life.
▼ Reflection on "The Weakness of Human Nature" (IV)
Read it carefully, as if enjoying a delicious life feast and enjoying yourself. Although it was only a quick glance, I was deeply impressed by Mr Carnegie's wisdom. It seems that this is not just a book, but a philosophy of life that embodies countless experiences and lessons, and shines with wisdom everywhere. It is like a mirror, which allows me to know myself, to know myself, to improve myself, to be a slave, and to manage my life better.
"Sincerely appreciate and praise others" is my deepest feeling after reading this book. I have read this book once and can only get a general understanding. You have to read it several times to understand its meaning. The so-called "know yourself and know yourself, and win every battle" is true on the battlefield and in life. A person who knows each other better and knows himself better can be comfortable and invincible in life.
In the book, the author talks about how we should learn to appreciate others sincerely in our life and work. Carnegie said: "There is only one way to get others to do anything-give them what they want." "In your daily life journey, don't forget to leave a little praise for the world. This little spark of friendship will ignite the flame of friendship.
Yes! Carnegie said: "People are like this. When they do something wrong, they only blame others, not themselves. " Perhaps this sentence is not strange to us and is often used, but we have made some changes to it. After the change, it became, "He is like this. When he does something wrong, he will only blame others, not himself. " Seemingly subtle differences, in fact, are very small, a thousand miles away. When you say this sentence with one finger pointing at others, maybe the other finger is pointing at yourself! Carnegie hit the nail on the head by pointing out this bad habit. We always like to talk about other people's right and wrong. Why can't we compare ourselves with them and look at ourselves? When others do badly, is what they do perfect? When you realize that you will make mistakes, you will rise to a higher level and sum up an eternal truth: "To err is human." ? The root of the disease is the lack of understanding and tolerance between people.
Mr Carnegie's wisdom has undoubtedly opened a door of cognition for us, which is not only an exposition of life philosophy, but also a detailed analysis of human nature. Only by recognizing the weakness of human nature and facing it squarely can we improve ourselves better. Perhaps what the ancients called: "Be brave after knowing shame" is the truth.
▼ Comment on "The Weakness of Human Nature" V
I believe many people are familiar with Dale Carnegie, whose masterpiece The Weakness of Human Nature has become a household name. When I wrote this article, it happened to be the eve of Valentine's Day on 20 17. It can be said that rereading Carnegie's classic works is also a kind of fate. Many people have read Carnegie's books before, but the focus may be on how to communicate with people and deal with interpersonal relationships between good people. Actually, there's nothing wrong with it. After all, in China, where relationships are everywhere, how can you not pay attention to this aspect when you see such a person who specializes in analyzing human nature? But from another perspective, how to learn how to analyze people's hearts and guess others' hearts to read this book for your own good purpose, isn't it quite utilitarian?
Of course, these are all my extreme views when I was young. Today, I saw the complete picture book of Dale Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature" translated by Han Wenqiao, and suddenly thought, in fact, if you give this book to lovers and their loved ones, will there be unexpected gains?
Although this book is mainly about the handling of interpersonal relationships, it is not a kind of interpersonal relationship between lovers and couples, but more intimate than utilitarian. Of course, before reading this book, readers are advised to carefully read the "nine suggestions for getting the most benefit from this book" mentioned by the author. These suggestions are not only suitable for reading this book, but also for reading any other book.
Some people may retort that the relationship between lovers and couples is very special and cannot be concealed, but what I want to say is that it is precisely because of this particularity and intimacy that we should read this book. The text of this book is divided into six chapters, namely six parts. From the chapter names of each part, it covers a wide range, but it is precisely because of this breadth that I think it can be completely applied to couples.
For example, in the first article "Three Skills of Interpersonal Relations", interpersonal skills are interspersed with examples in three chapters (all marked in bold, which are more eye-catching). The first chapter is about: Blame and criticism can't make people change for a long time, but will bring resentment. It can be said that many couples, couples quarrel, basically this sentence is quite in place.
In interpersonal communication, you must understand that we are not dealing with reason, but with perceptual, biased, proud, vain and living people. It can be said that this sentence can seal up some couples' quarrels, and one party gives excuses such as "being reasonable and unreasonable".
Through this short example, do you think this is also a good Valentine's Day gift for fun run? If you are going to send a book to your lover on Valentine's Day tomorrow, then this book is a good choice. Finally, I wish all lovers in the world a happy Valentine's Day tomorrow!
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This world-famous Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature finally got up the courage to pick it up and read it. Today, when chicken soup is popular, drinking too much has made my taste numb and I have listened to too many big words and empty words. Therefore, the book "The Weakness of Human Nature" has not been published for a long time, although it is often placed in the most conspicuous position in bookstores and can be borrowed by every library. Surprisingly, this book is not as boring as I thought, but it is easily accepted by me. I read unconsciously when I am resting at work and reading before going to bed.
Only then can I understand that the global sales of this book are second only to the Bible and the Analects of Confucius, and it certainly makes sense. Many authors of similar articles take themselves, friends, classmates, girlfriends and seven aunts as examples. Many examples feel pieced together to cater to their own views, and some even make up stories. It may have been written to arouse some readers' scolding, but I turned around and forgot it after reading it.
But Carnegie did a lot of preparatory work and read a lot of information when writing this book, which is beyond the reach of those writers who write chicken soup quickly and casually to make money. He quoted a large number of stories and news materials of historical figures, which made this book highly readable and professional. These large numbers of true stories and cases support his views, suggestions and guidance, which are more easily accepted by people, so that readers will begin to face up to their own problems and rethink after reading them. This is also an important reason why the book "The Weakness of Human Nature" can last for tens of thousands of similar works. Classics are always classics.
For example, in chapter 1 "If you want to collect honey, please be kind to the beehive", Carnegie uses famous figures and their stories in history, such as "two-gun fugitives", American public enemies, notorious villains and so on, to draw his point of view-criticism and criticism can not make people change for a long time, but will attract resentment. Lots of news and historical stories make this article more interesting and readable. After reading it, I will look at myself. Indeed, in life and work, I sometimes know that I am wrong, but when my family and superiors strongly accuse me, I often feel impatient and bored, not guilty. But when they show forgiveness or understanding to me, it will make me feel guilty, embarrassed and reflect on myself.
Take care of others, too. Criticizing others blindly often can't solve the problem. A mild approach may bring better results. I have gained a lot from reading this book. I need to sort it out carefully and make good use of these skills and rules. As Carnegie said, learning is a process of exerting subjective initiative. Learning by doing can consolidate knowledge. If you don't practice, what is the point of memorizing all the skills of 1 1 10,000? After reading this book, I don't want to be a "heartthrob", but I just hope to gradually improve myself and be more popular at home and at work.
▼ Comment 7 on "The Weakness of Human Nature"
I mainly read the first three chapters of this book, but I didn't read much about the last chapter, because the first three chapters are universally applicable, and the fourth chapter is about how to become an outstanding leader, which is highly targeted, and then I feel that all the contents are discussed in the first three chapters. Summarizing this book is mainly to teach you how to communicate with others better and how to use the weakness of human nature to achieve your goals. First of all, talk about some basic skills when communicating with others, and how to think about what others think from the perspective of others; When you encounter problems, don't blame, criticize and complain, let alone argue, because these actions can't really solve any problems. You should think more about why others do it. If I were him/her, would I make the same mistake and react the same way? If you want others to do things for you and do good deeds, please sincerely appreciate the advantages of others and think about what others want, and how to make others do what you want them to do for you by helping others get what they want. If we think so, then I think there is nothing we want to do but can't do. The seemingly simple concept is actually not so easy to use, because few people can really do the above, and the most basic thing is not to blame or complain. I think a large number of people didn't do it. Although I try not to do it myself, sometimes I don't even know I have done it. O(∩_∩)O Haha ~, I'm not there yet, hehe.
Then, talk about how to make others like you more in communication. First of all, I want to say that everyone will have a sense of self-importance, that is, the feeling that they are very important. If you want others to like you, you must first show that you also like others and make others feel that you are highly valued. I summed up a few points: 1, really care about others and praise others. This is not flattery, it is a compliment to the universally recognized fact. Don't just agree in your heart, tell others. 2. Smile. The power of a smile is always the strongest. Don't be stingy with your smile, because it can not only take you away, but also bring you a lot, such as happiness, harmonious atmosphere, respect and so on. 3, remember each other's names and be able to call them out accurately. Personally, I think that even if someone says they don't like his/her name, the name is still very important to him/her.
▼ Comments on "The Weakness of Human Nature" (8)
The main message of Dale Carnegie's book The Weakness of Human Nature can be summarized in one sentence: Recognize the weakness of human nature, and the "weakness" here can be others' or your own.
We can regard this book as a practical manual of interpersonal relationships. Whenever we encounter a special problem-such as how to manage children ... how to satisfy an angry customer! These things happen all the time. When you open the book and try to make one of the suggestions, you will find a miracle.
This book is divided into seven chapters, which tells the weakness of human nature from seven aspects, namely, the skills of getting along with others, 6 secrets of being popular everywhere, 12 methods of cooperating with others, 9 skills of persuading others better, 7 coup of asking others for help, 10 suggestions of cooperation and competition, and 6 methods of making family happier.
Take one of the cases as an example: there are two people who are very close, regardless of you and me. One day, they walked into the desert, and thirst threatened their lives. In order to test their friendship, nature said to them: There are two apples in the tree in front, one is big and the other is small. If you eat a big one, you can walk into the desert safely. Hearing this, both of them asked each other to eat the big one and insisted on eating the small one. At the end of the argument, no one convinced anyone, and both of them fell asleep in a daze in extreme fatigue. I don't know how long it took, but one of them suddenly woke up and found that his friend had left. So he hurried under the tree and picked the apple. It is very small. He suddenly felt that his friend had cheated him, and he walked forward sadly and disappointedly. Suddenly, he found his friend fainted in front, so he ran over without hesitation and stood at attention and gently picked up his friend. At this time, he was surprised to find that his friend was holding an apple tightly, and the apple was much smaller than his hand. They have all stood the test of nature.
This case tells us not to doubt our friends easily. All kinds of guesses and doubts will widen the rift between friends. We should firmly believe that as time goes on, some misunderstandings will be exposed. People should learn to give, give sincere heart and love, and then your life will become more beneficial. In this crowded world, people who can give more love and tolerance will always find a vast world.
Many people congratulate you, but your bosom friend is one in a thousand. If you want to get a friend, you must test him before you can trust him. It is not good to give trust to others too early!
Some people are friends in peacetime, but they are unreliable in difficult times.
Some friends became enemies and began to slander you.
Some people are fair-weather friends, so they can't be found in misfortune.
A loyal friend is priceless, and nothing can compare with his value.
When you feel angry and depressed because of setbacks, it will help you to talk to a close friend. Otherwise, this depression will make people sick. Only when you are with friends can you talk about your troubles and joys, fears and expectations, doubts and troubles. In short, everything that weighs on your heart is shared through the shoulders of friends.
In a word, the peculiar function of friendship is: if you tell a friend happiness, you will get two happiness; And if you tell your troubles to a friend, you will be divided into half.
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