For young couples who are about to get married, a house and a car are things that two people must prepare, especially a house, because since ancient times, a house has been a symbol of home. With a house, It just feels like home.
My husband and I met in college. When I was a freshman in college, because I liked calligraphy, I signed up for the calligraphy club when it was recruiting members. My husband did the same at the time. Because he had been practicing calligraphy since he was a child, he was chosen by his roommate for his good calligraphy. I recommended it to the president of this club, and then I naturally joined the club. When there are no classes, members of the club usually gather together to practice calligraphy, drink tea, chat, and get along very harmoniously. Therefore, my husband and I got closer and closer because we had the same views and very similar interests and hobbies. Finally, he confessed his love to me and I agreed to him.
Unknowingly, three years passed quickly. When we were doing internships in the fourth year, it was almost time to graduate. It is said that graduation season is the season of breakups. My husband and I have also witnessed many young couples parting ways after falling in love, but there are also a small number of young couples who persist until the end. For example, my husband and I are a couple, and the two of us Not only has the relationship not been affected by the breakup, but it has also gotten better and better. Therefore, I am very envied by the classmates around me. They often say that they will definitely be able to drink the wedding wine between the two of us, and they must be notified when the time comes. My husband and I felt very happy after hearing this.
After graduation, my husband and I chose to stay in this city, thinking that the company where we had interned before was very suitable for us. We were also very popular with the leaders, and it can be said that we were very good at work. smoothly. In terms of housing, my husband and I rent a house. Excluding rent, water and electricity bills, food, drink and transportation, our salary is very little. Although we live in poverty, my husband and I are very happy and have fun every day. Be happy and have no worries. And I always feel that the two of us made an appointment in the last life to continue to be together in the next life, but in this life we ??really met and fell in love and were together.
Later, as our careers began to stabilize and we reached the age of marriage, my husband and I began to face a problem, which was buying a house. It can be said that buying a house when you get married is like buying insurance for a car. It’s okay not to buy it. Maybe the parents of the other party are not willing to hand over their daughter to you because they don’t have insurance. If you buy it, you have to spend a lot of money. Money, the parents of the other party are willing to marry their daughter over for peace of mind, but for ordinary families, it is likely that it will take more than ten years, or even decades, to pay off the mortgage.
The conditions at my husband’s family are not very good. He also has a sister who is in college and is also spending money. Buying a house is a bit out of reach. Moreover, we have been working so long and renting a house. After excluding expenses, we have very little left and have not saved much money. We discussed it over and over again, but there really was no better way. My parents said they could provide us with the down payment to buy a house. In order to prevent my husband and I from feeling stressed, the monthly loan for the first two years was paid to us first. When we save money later, we can pay it back to them, and let us pay the rest ourselves.
This news is really a savior for us, so that my husband and I will not worry about the house, which will affect our relationship. My husband was also very grateful to my parents after hearing about them, and he also swore in front of the old couple that he would definitely be filial to them in the future, and would cherish and love me, and would not let me suffer any injustice. My parents were very pleased after hearing this and told us to live a good life. If we have any difficulties, we can solve them together. If we can't do groceries, we can discuss it with them.
When we started talking about the wedding gift, my mother-in-law only agreed to give her a gift of 20,000 yuan. The reason was that the family’s Juanjuan (the nickname of my husband’s sister) was still in school. After so many years, my mother-in-law Because I don’t have much work and I haven’t saved any money, I can only give so much.
To be honest, according to the customs in our hometown, the bride price of 20,000 yuan for a wife is too small to take out. But then I thought about it carefully. When I marry my husband, it is In order to live with my husband and care about him, forget it, don’t worry about it so much. After discussing the bride price, our two families then set a wedding date and began to prepare for the wedding. Just a few days ago, Juanjuan called me and asked my husband to go home for dinner. She said that her mother-in-law had cooked a large table of dishes to celebrate our upcoming marriage, so my husband and I bought some after get off work. Things went back.
As soon as she entered the house, Juanjuan was very happy. She took the things from our hands, brought me a lot of things to eat, and even took me to chat. To be honest, I really like this little girl. She is very sensible and talkative. Moreover, the age difference is not very big, and there is no generation gap. When it was time to eat, the little girl always brought me food, but in the middle of eating, her mother-in-law suddenly coughed twice, and Juanjuan, who was immersed in eating, raised her head and looked towards me with a red face. I stammered and said something like this: "Sister-in-law, the house where...you...were married...doesn't it have...my brother's name written on it?"
After hearing this sentence, I first He was stunned for a moment, and then replied, "My parents bought the house, and they also paid the monthly loan. Don't mention your brother's name, my name is not on it either." At this time, the mother-in-law said after hearing this, "How can that be done! I think the house must have my son's name written on it. After you get married, you will be a family. If you live in the wife's house and people in the village know about it, that's not allowed." I was laughed at so much, so I have to add this name.” After hearing what my mother-in-law said, I turned to look at my husband, “Aren’t you going to say something?” Unexpectedly, my husband looked at me and kept silent. I didn’t know what I was expressing, but I got angry at that time. As soon as I put down my chopsticks, I got dressed and left without looking back.
After I got home, I told my parents about this. They were also very angry and said, wait and see what my husband’s attitude is like. If it doesn’t work out, I won’t get married. . I was also very sad. I didn’t expect that my mother-in-law would be such a person, and my husband wouldn’t help me. After so many years of relationship with my husband, it’s not something I can just let go of. What do you think I should do?