According to my own painful experience and the introduction of the experience of the great internet gods, I summarized the following tricks for the reference of novices in love. I believe that if I learn the following tricks, I should be able to grow into a veteran of love.
1. Appointment arrangement. About dating, we should pay attention to the arrangement of time, place and event. According to the degree of relationship between two people, the place of dating is different. For example, when you are in love or dating, it is suggested to focus on crowded places, so it is easier to let go, such as going to the cinema and choosing a suitable movie. When you are in love, you can date some relatively private places. As for where to go and what to do, we can consider it.
2, the skills of eating and ordering. I believe many boys have this experience. What two people want to eat for a long time may not meet her requirements. Personally, I suggest eating western food on the first date or when I just get into the mood. Of course, if the girl refuses, I will say it again, because there is nothing special about western food. After getting familiar with it, it is not difficult to know your girlfriend's native place, preferences, tastes, attention to details and dishes.
3. Establish a united front. If your girlfriend tells you her grievance, even if it is her fault, please don't call a spade a spade and don't act like a critic. In fact, she may know it's her fault, but what she needs is not the truth, but dependence. We should unite with her first, follow her words, and then tell her the truth at the right time.
4. Make full use of "love me, love my dog". Pull everyone around her into the water, and someone will help you speak when there is a crisis in the future. The channels of news are generally various. It doesn't take a lot of skill, it only takes a little thought to make people around her think that you are excellent, and you are half the battle.
5. Observe more and summarize more. The most important thing is to be careful Only by being careful can you observe more and pay more attention to details, and you can quickly grasp your girlfriend's preferences and habits. To sum up, love is a continuous battle, and the enemy comes from the outside as well as from itself. Only by summing up the gains and losses often can we make better progress.
The above is purely my personal opinion.