I like a sentence in Bian Zhi Lin's Broken Chapter: "The bright moon decorates your window, and you decorate other people's dreams." Yes! For you, the bright moon makes you happy, but for others, you have not entered other people's dreams. From different angles, you will see different scenery.
Different people have different views on the evaluation of historical figures, attitudes towards life and thinking about life.
In the eyes of Qing people, Li Qingzhao was reviled and disdained. Some people say that she shouldn't drink and talk about politics like a man, because they think that "a woman without talent is virtue", and Li Qingzhao is not one of them. But in the eyes of people in our new era, Li Qingzhao is the embodiment of all the beauty in the world. Her poems are euphemistic, sentimental, full of patriotism, and have a keen judgment on political affairs, reaching an unattainable height, which is an immortal monument in China's poems. Different times have different ideas.
Modern people have different views on historical figures. After Cao Cao abdicated, people always had different opinions. Some people think that he is a wise man and a figure worthy of praise and learning, while others think that he is too insidious and cunning, and when he is mentioned, he will think of villains.
Even if you see the same scenery, people's attitudes are different.
When the autumn wind is bleak, the autumn wind is raging, and pieces of fallen flowers are unbearable to look straight at, we may think that the poor flowers wither so quickly, and its short life is regrettable. In Gong Zizhen's eyes, there is a saying that "falling red is not a heartless thing, but turning into spring mud protects flowers more."
In winter, the cold wind howls and the snow falls all over the sky. Most people hide at home and don't want to go out to see the scenery. They are just feeling or complaining about the cold weather. "If winter comes, can spring be far behind?" This hopeful and optimistic attitude towards life is admirable.
Net names should treat life like Gong Zizhen and Shelley, find more beautiful things and have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life.
Life is not a race, but a journey. What needs to be concerned is not the result but the process.
Everyone has a dream in his heart and will work hard and struggle for it. Some people may have succeeded, enjoying flowers and applause, which is really a wonderful thing. However, some people have experienced many failures, and they lose confidence and are devastated, which is not worth it. We should enjoy the process of failure and learn from it, so that we can move forward better.
Life is a journey, let us find more beautiful things in the journey, firmly go to the beautiful station of the journey, and have a colorful life. Different angles, different scenery.
I once heard a story: on the train, a passenger's shoe fell out of the window, but the passenger was not angry and sad because of it, but threw the other shoe out of the window.
Many people may not understand such behavior. In fact, passengers think from the perspective of the person who found the shoes-it is useless to hold a shoe by yourself, so it is better to be a shoe picker. In this way, people who pick up shoes get benefits, and passengers don't feel bad.
Sometimes, from another angle, the world becomes clear and happy.
There are many such examples in ancient poetry. During the Three Kingdoms period, when the war was approaching, all the soldiers were afraid. Moonlight enveloped the earth, and the soldiers said, "As bright as the moon, when can we rest?" I feel that I have to "worry from it and can't be cut off." In this cold moonlight, the soldiers are like "black magpies flying south". "Three turns around the tree, what branches can you rely on?" This also had Cao Jun's defeat in Chibi. It can be seen that different angles bring different mentality and lead to different results.
Isn't that what people do? Open the textbook, we learned how to "be kind to others" and how to "empathize". In reality, the unhappiness caused by some minor contradictions is endless. In fact, sometimes you just need to change your perspective, just like the book says, "consider the feelings of others." How can these contradictions become the "culprit"?
The same is true of study. Some people may ask, "Why do you read so many books?" In fact, the book gives us a platform, let us stand in the perspective of others and see different stories. Reading how steel is tempered, we face all kinds of difficulties with Paul's eyes; Reading "If Give Me Three Days of Light", we use Helen Keller's hands to "touch" everything; Studying the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, we stand in the perspective of the fierce in troubled times and experience the cruelty of history. "Books are the ladder of human progress", which broadens our horizons and allows us to see the world from another angle.
Being able to change your perspective is also a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. In the process of growing up, we face all kinds of setbacks. In the face of misfortune, whether we draw our swords and cut off the water depends on your choice of angle. Living in this all-encompassing world, it is particularly important to face the challenges in life from what angle. As julian assange said: "The story is there, the key is which story you see."
Looking at the world from another angle, you will see more beauty. Nowadays people often say, "Put yourself in the other's shoes and be happy."
There are milky fog on both sides of the road, and there is a long ancient road ahead, which is confusing and magical. I want to explore my life along this mysterious ancient road. I left my footprints on this ancient road and walked forward firmly ... Finally, I found that the road diverged into two forks at this time. One slope slowly extended upward and the other extended downward. Two gates floated in front of me, engraved with "Perspective and Life", and a rational stream flowed with vigorous fonts.
I opened the door to the uphill and found many small words engraved on it. I stared at it carefully, and the light of history reflected in my heart-
"When you look up, you will see your own gaps and shortcomings. Herb once gloated that no one could compare with him, but it was only when he saw Poseidon that he "looked at the ocean and sighed" and said, "I tried to laugh at the generous family". He crossed the door with shame and determination; Once, Tao Qian loved chrysanthemums alone, looked at their elegance and gained inner peace. He calmly stepped into the door; Although Liu Yuxi once lived in a humble room, he pushed the door and pushed in unhurriedly, comparing himself with Zhuge and Ziyun, which reflected the true nobility of the soul. Song Lian once "asked the pioneers in his hometown about the scriptures", but because of the cold, "four stiff legs could not move". Although he is poor, he always concentrates on the golden hall of knowledge. He walked leisurely in thick clothes and finally realized the true value of life. "
I read the history full of wisdom and fresh breath carefully, and a thought rolled in my heart: Zhuangzi said, "My life is limited, but I know it is also limited." . Only by looking up to the letter and moving towards the established goals can we reap the wonderful life.
I went to another door and opened it, which was also engraved with dense fine print-
"Looking down, it is easy to make people satisfied and slack off. Zhong Yong was quick-witted when he was young, and he relied on horses for literary creation. Faced with the praise of everyone, he was content and stagnant, and refused to take a new step on the road of literature, so he opened the door and went downhill. The Qing Dynasty was complacent about China's feudal tradition and implemented the policy of "closing the country to the outside world", which made China lag behind the west and the world and embarked on the road of cede territory and humiliation from here ... "
I don't want to watch any more. Touching the door leading downhill, I feel a kind of vicissitudes and heaviness. History is infallible! What is wrong is that they opened a door that should not be opened and embarked on a road that should not be taken. ...
I looked at the two doors in front of me and suddenly understood one thing in my mind: perspective determines life. Looking up, you will see your own shortcomings and constantly improve yourself; Looking down, we will feel proud and satisfied, and finally fall into a deep mire, unable to extricate ourselves ... Thinking of this, I no longer hesitate, and the door leading to the uphill shines with mysterious light. I went up to meet my wonderful life!
Time, like water, flows slowly in silence; Time is like the night, which passes quietly in silence ... Some people say, "Time flies." But why not slow down and feel the time from another angle?
Make a cup of tea at night and lean on the bed alone. Wearing headphones and listening to the familiar melody, my thoughts can't help drifting away with the breeze outside the window ... First, I landed on the beautiful Aegean Sea. In the distance, a red sun is rising slowly, and the water is blue. From time to time, several water ducks poke the river and slide slowly. Everything is so quiet and beautiful.
However, all this was broken by shouting and killing in the distance. Looking around, a dark warship is paddling fast here. At the other end, a small town is full of soldiers in shining armor. Among them, one person stands out. White robes and beards fluttered in the wind. His name is Archimedes, a great man who fought for his country.
Roman warships were getting closer and closer, and at his command, several huge wooden machines were pushed over the city. With the roar of terror, huge stones, such as stars, slammed into the Roman fleet. When the battle was won, his eyes could not help showing the joy of victory, as well as the loyalty that did not change with time.
Accompanied by the breeze, I stayed at the edge of Taohuatan. On the surface as quiet as the bright moon, a ship is about to leave. I saw the people on board looking into the distance from time to time, as if waiting for something. At this time, a beautiful chanting attracted my attention: a young man in a plain robe came up to Li Bai, still chanting poetry in his mouth. His voice is so beautiful, so sad, that is the sadness of parting.
Li Bai quickly jumped off the boat and took Wang Lun's hand. Only then did he discover that Wang Lun has the deepest friendship with himself in the world. Therefore, Li Bai was deeply moved and wrote a song "To Wang Lun" to the sparkling Peach Blossom Pond. At this time, I found that in his eyes, there were both reluctant parting feelings and praise for friendship. ...
When the breeze came, my thoughts came back to reality. After drinking all the light green tea on the table, I can't help feeling that the original time can also be understood from another angle.
Self-evaluation: I haven't written a blog for a long time, so my level has dropped. I hope you don't mind ~
The eyes should always look for the beauty of others, but the mirror can observe its own ugliness.
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The same tree, some people see lush trees, and some people see caterpillars on the treetops. Why does the same thing produce completely different observations? The reason is that some people know how to appreciate and praise, and some people only look at things with critical and accusing eyes.
I once read a story about a man who wanted to move because he didn't get along well with his neighbors. The moving car stopped at a crossroads and a driver next to it asked, "Where are you going in such a hurry?" I want to move to another place. "The driver said," you live well, why do you want to move? "The man complained," People here are all bad people, so they want to move to other places. " The driver asked, "Do you move a lot? "I have moved seven times this year." The driver asked again, "Are the reasons the same?" The man said, "Yes." The driver said, "You can't solve the problem by moving like this." The man said, "Do you have any good ideas?" The driver said, "There are seven places where people don't like you. Haven't you thought about it? " ? If you don't solve your own problems, people who move to those places every day will not like you! "The lesson of this story is that people are always used to complaining about people or things around them, and rarely look back and think about whether the problem lies with themselves.
Everything has two sides, and the definition of ugliness and ugliness lies in ourselves. See how we think, think from that angle. A cactus can grow carefree in the desert. Some people think cactus is ugly, because it is not as gorgeous as a rose, nor as fragrant as a tulip. On the other hand, some people like cactus because of its tenacious spirit. Two attitudes and two results, the critic pointed out countless shortcomings, while the appreciator saw many advantages of him.
We should learn to appreciate, learn to praise, and strive to tap the bright spots of people around us. Appreciation and praise are hope and motivation. Someone once commented on appreciation and praise: appreciation and praise are like wind to sails, just like rain and dew to seeds; Appreciation and praise are indispensable nutrients in our growth process.
When the rancher lost several lambs due to the disapproval of the Orion, when he tried to find a way to take the Orion to court, the judge's words made him take a sharp turn, effectively and happily solving the contradictions and disputes that should not have existed. Therefore, we can learn from ranchers. When we change our perspective or take a step back, there will always be a vast sky belonging to both sides. ...
Often like a rancher, from another angle, make your life carefree. The popular actress Sa Dingding has a style that ordinary artists can't learn. With the rapid development of economy, artists have long been blinded by interests. Sa Dingding lives in this smoky circle and sighs helplessly, but there is nothing she can do. When she resolutely chose to give up the luxurious life, she went to the prairie to fly her thoughts, feel the real life and find herself under the grape trellis in Xinjiang. In this way, her heart gradually calmed down and made her life happy and carefree. At the same time, when she came back, she brought a song "Everything is Born", which made countless "musicians" with yellow hair and earrings realize what music is. From another angle, choose different ways and get different results. Why not?
Different angles have different ways of doing things, just like ranchers, changing angles can make their lives carefree and properly handle the relationship with Orion. Shi Tiesheng is also such a person who knows a win-win situation. When he was young, he was told that it would be difficult to stand up again in his life. If he just lets himself live in pain and despair, what is the meaning and value of his life? However, when he realized that his experience and wheelchair situation could not be changed, he chose the road of literature and recorded his life's feelings and enlightenment in words in a wheelchair. Isn't this a great comfort to the people he loves? If it weren't for the change of his thoughts, perhaps the people closest to him would always live in fear and anxiety. Therefore, Shi Tiesheng changed his attitude towards life and chose a different way of life. His life has been enriched and his value has been realized, which is the greatest comfort and touch between him and his relatives.
Different angles have different life choices. Like Tao Yuanming, he lives in officialdom, intrigued and intrigued. He is very tired, very tired, but his thinking can be changed. He has a choice. So, he chose a different way of life, gave up his official position, chose to grow beans and lived in a hut in Nanshan. Therefore, although his life is no longer rich, his spiritual satisfaction is irreplaceable by any material.
From another point of view, they all chose the most suitable way to deal with and solve problems, and felt the joy of life.
From another angle, you may get the vastness of the blue sky and the beauty of the stream. ...
When you look up at a tall building at the bottom of the building, it will be as complicated as a mountain; And when you look down at the building from the sky, it will be as small as an ant. This is the topic of "angle".
Everything has its good side and bad side. The key is where you look at it. Just like in the market. Although selling out-of-stock toothpaste is a credit to the manager, it is undoubtedly a bad move for the dentist.
The word "failure" is a derogatory term in every popular mood. But scientist Edison also said: Failure is the mother of success. Life is like a road, which road is always straight? Who has never failed in life? As long as you look at it from another angle, you will find that thorns are not the end of failure, but the beginning of success. Don't put it into practice for fear of failure. Such people will not fail, but they will not succeed.
Just look at it from another angle, and you will find a new perspective.
Who do you think is happier, the runner-up or the third runner-up? Most people in the city say that although it is the runner-up. Please don't jump to conclusions. If you are watching, you will say that the runner-up is happy, but I am glad that the runner-up ranks high. But if you were a government official, you wouldn't say so. If you are the runner-up, you must feel a pity-you are so close to the champion. However, if you are the third runner-up, you must feel it is an honor-you almost didn't even make the top three. We often say, "The government is fascinated by the audience." No one knows what he thinks better than we do.
Mother often cooks some dishes that she thinks are delicious, but her daughter doesn't like it and doesn't want to say it-she wants to eat less for fear of hurting her mother's self-esteem. Although mom is not excited. Everyone has always been so confrontational, not to break through this layer of "yarn", for fear of hurting feelings.
We always look forward to it from our own perspective. No, we should judge other people's views and ideas, or simply impose our own views and ideas on others.
None of us is a magician, and we don't know our minds. We can't see through other people's ways, and our ways are beyond others' touch. Don't try to predict other people's ways, just ask. Confucius also said, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." It's not a costume drama at the moment. Whoever has the most power and the richest has the final say. Only the law has the final say in modern times. As long as you don't commit a crime, the chairman can't control you.
Occasionally, if you look at it from another angle, you may find new horizons and gain something.
Next to the excellent angle composition 8 is the peak on one side of the ridge. Different distances will lead to different views. In daily life, maybe if we look at the problem from another angle, we will achieve different success.
If Mandela hadn't stood in an inclusive perspective at that time, how could he have amazed all the special guests? If Gou Jian, the King of Yue, hadn't been lying down and tasting his salary at that time, he would not have talked about recovering and destroying Wu. If Tao Yuanming had not stayed away from the hubbub at that time, how could he have seen Nanshan leisurely? From one point of view, nothing is gained for nothing. Only by choosing the right angle can you get it after the difficulties. Mandela opened the inner shackles for 27 years and won the admiration of everyone; Gou Jian, the King of Yue, endured humiliation and the country revived. Tao Yuanming looks forward to a beautiful countryside and has an extraordinary and refreshing daily life.
Yang li Ping, a beautiful blue peacock, was born with a low diploma and was not very good at folk dance. She had never received technical professional dance training since she was a child, but she chose folk dance as a career and became the first amateur folk dance lover. What's going on here? Because Yang li Ping chose the right angle and studied dance hard, regardless of other people's language and vision, she finally became famous in CCTV Spring Festival Evening, and her charming and delicate hands almost interpreted the aura of the blue peacock to the extreme, which was recognized by anyone.
There was an old woman who wanted to knit a sweater, but her grandson influenced her. At first, grandma thought it would be safe to knit a sweater with her grandson in the guardrail. As a result, her grandson burst into tears. She couldn't work with peace of mind and had to take her grandson out. At that moment, grandma changed her mind and felt that she should focus on herself, not her grandson. It is very important for grandma to choose the right angle to successfully resolve the differences with her grandson, and each has its own position.
Shi Tiesheng changed his depressed mood in Ditan and stepped into My Talk with Ditan. Keller established his own position and mentality and got the story of my life. Angle and direction are navigation bars on the road of life. Without a proper navigation bar, there will be no suitable ideal of life, and it will be difficult to find the road to success if you can't find the direction in your journey. Establishing an angle depends on the importance of success, and mastering the perfect choice is the road to success.
In fact, many people's road to success is not smooth sailing. Everyone has encountered many difficulties, setbacks and tragedies on the road to success, but they have not given up, just changed their perspective to achieve the overall goal of success. From another perspective, the new success is a big surprise on the road of life, creating a happy life.
Excellent angle composition 9 My uncle's beautiful handwriting has made me envy for many years. I had the idea of letting him teach me calligraphy for a long time, and I didn't really start learning from my teacher until last Sunday.
I got up early that day, bought pens and ink at the stationery store and came to my uncle's house. As soon as I entered the door, I saw my uncle carrying a backpack, which contained water and dry food, as if to go out for a trip. When my uncle saw me, he said happily, "Today we are going to climb the mountain." I don't understand: "Didn't you say you would teach me calligraphy?" My uncle seemed to see through my mind and smiled mysteriously: "I don't need tools in the first class of calligraphy, and I'm not at home!" "
We drove to the foot of Yuelu Mountain. My uncle said as he walked, "China's calligraphy is extensive and profound, bearing thousands of years of long history and splendid culture. Learning calligraphy is like climbing a mountain, with different purposes and different gains. Professional mountaineers want to learn mountaineering skills, but we people, some for exercise, some just for browsing the natural scenery. Some give up halfway, and some will never stop until they reach the top of the mountain. Different ideas have different gains. "
I don't understand what my uncle is saying. Uncle went on to say, "the cultivation of an elegant art is the cultivation of character." Just as you read Yan Zhenqing's words, you will feel the fullness of his personality; When you read Liu Gongquan's words, you will feel his true nature; When you read Ou Yangxun's words, you will feel the elegance of his life. Books are like character, which is an old saying. "
I seem to understand. At this point, we have reached halfway up the mountain, and our vision has become more open. Let's sit down and eat some dry food, drink some water, take a nap and move on. Uncle said: "Calligraphy is writing. It is easy to get started, but difficult to get started.". If you want to enter the room, you need to concentrate. Just like a climber, only by never stopping before reaching the top can he become the ultimate climber. They not only enjoyed the beauty of the world, but also enjoyed their own body and mind. " Looking at my uncle who walked in front, I suddenly found that his back was getting bigger and bigger.
Unconsciously, we came to the top of the mountain and our vision became wider and wider. It's "the pinnacle, the other mountains all appear dwarfs under the sky.." . Uncle said, "since we have reached the top of the mountain, let's go to worship Buddha!" " The monk at the entrance of the temple said, "benefactor, buy wick incense!" " "Uncle said," The Buddha sits in my heart and worships the gods! " "I can't help but heartache. What a wonderful word!
This is really a unique calligraphy class! Standing on the top of the mountain, I felt the scenery of another kind of life.
10 There are always many problems in life. Questions, like coins, have two sides, and it is not easy to see through them at a glance. Therefore, when we observe problems, we should observe and think from different angles and solve them in different ways, so that we can solve problems more easily.
Looking at the problem from multiple angles can make the problem more comprehensive. Several blind people wanted to know what an elephant looked like, so someone brought them an elephant. Several blind people reached out and touched it. Everyone has been exposed to it in different places and knows different elephants. The same is true for dealing with problems. If you only observe them from one angle, you won't have a very correct understanding and there is no way to solve them well. The blind man touched the elephant again from beginning to end and knew what it really looked like. To deal with problems, we should observe them from beginning to end in many ways, just like a blind man touching an elephant, in order to deal with them better.
China's ancient medical technology has been quite developed. People have made a comprehensive observation of the human body and found many acupoints in the human body. People can achieve the effect of treating diseases by acupuncture points. Acupoints, a great science, have no better explanation so far. Western medicine has dissected the human body many times and failed to find acupuncture points on the human body. The ancients discovered acupoints because of their long-term observation and practice. Only by observing the human body comprehensively from multiple angles can they achieve the great science of acupuncture and moxibustion.
If we can't understand the problem correctly from multiple angles, we can't solve it correctly. A little bird asked the old bird where the forest was. The old bird replied, isn't this a forest? The bird replied, I am surrounded by trees, and there is no forest there. So the bird flew away again to look for the forest. When looking for the forest, the bird didn't know the forest correctly, and it couldn't really find the forest it was looking for. When dealing with a problem, we can't really solve it without a correct understanding of the problem and rational thinking in many aspects.
An old pioneer lost his horse-a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. In the face of losing his horse, Sai Weng realized that the problem was multifaceted and brought a series of blessings and disasters. Therefore, when facing a problem, we should look at it from multiple angles, never stick to our own opinions and go our own way, but think comprehensively and rationally. In the face of problems, we should put our minds straight, think calmly and handle them carefully, so as to solve the problems better.
To solve the problem, we need to understand many aspects of the problem and explain the problem correctly in order to solve the problem. What we have to do is to correct our mentality and meet the challenge with an optimistic attitude.
Excellent angle composition 1 1 The world is full of perspective. A peony picture is missing one side. Some people think it is "incomplete wealth", while others think it is "infinite wealth". Just like facing the same thing, some people think it is lucky in misfortune and some people think it is unfortunate. These two results are naturally caused by different perspectives.
One-way covered bridges are dreamless and lighter than ancient styles. I can clearly see your drunken eyes. Zhao's army was surrounded. At this time, you have nothing to do, heaven and earth should not. Once the emperor became a prisoner under the order, "the carved jade fence should still be there, but Zhu Yan has changed. Ask how much you can worry about, just like a river flowing eastward." This is your helpless singing to the moon. "I didn't know I was a guest in my dream. I am greedy for morning joy, the water is exhausted, and the world is also. " This is your heroic questioning of heaven and earth when you wake up. Some people think that this is the fate you will face in your life. How can you create so many famous sentences for future generations if you are not captured? Some people think that you should not be born in a royal family. In fact, it's just different views and perspectives.
What kind of perspective does he view himself from, the literati of past dynasties, and the romantic figure who was wiped out by the waves and sands? For a scholar who is devoted to serving the country, nothing is more sad than not being able to display his ambition. After Su Shi was demoted, he did not give up on himself. But issued a "bamboo shoes are not as good as horses, who is afraid?" The sigh of "a misty rain in my life"; Du Fu was still worried about his country and people when he was ill and had only one boat. When the snow ridge blocked the ambition, Han Yu once again looked back affectionately.
These scholars have different perspectives. They never give up optimism because of adversity and face life from a correct perspective.
Mountains and rivers face the despair of cliffs, but leap into spectacular waterfalls; The reason why Xuefeng is stalwart is because the remains of climbers are buried everywhere; The vast sea is littered with the remains of the victims.
Looking at the essence of things, different perspectives are naturally different. It is good to see the bad side of things, but it is easy to lose optimism because of ignoring the good side.
A smooth life will certainly make people comfortable, but without setbacks, life will become dull. Tagore once said, "Without hellish tempering, how can we create the power of heaven? Without bloody fingers, how can you pop up the swan song of the world? "
Choose everything that suits you from the right perspective and take off! Young heart!