"Those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black" vividly shows that the objective environment has a great influence on people, especially on teenagers. Therefore, people have always attached importance to the choice of their environment, and advocated that "you must choose your hometown when you are born, and you must be a scholar when you travel." The well-known story "Meng Mu chooses his neighbor" is an example. In order to choose a suitable living environment for Monk, Meng Mu moved three times, from the place near the mausoleum to the edge of the city, and then to Gong Xuebian, which shows that she attaches great importance to environmental choice. "Yan's Family Instructions" says that "people are young and undecided, and naturally close, but they don't know how to learn." It shows that living in a certain environment when I was a child naturally formed certain moral habits. As we all know, Wang Xizhi was a great calligrapher in the Jin Dynasty, and even Taking care of you was better than Lan. No wonder Mr. Lu Xun said: "The children of scholars are familiar with pen and ink, the children of carpenters can play with axes and chisels, and the children of military strategists have long known swords and guns ..." These famous sayings are not unreasonable.
Confucius said, "The winner has three friends, but the loser has three friends. Friends are straight, friends are cold, and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends are withdrawn, friendly and soft, and friends will be destroyed and damaged. " Zhang Heng is a well-known figure. He invented the seismograph and did research in astronomy and physics. Zhang Heng had many bosom friends when he was young, such as Ma Rong, Wang Fu and Cui Yuan. These were talented young people at that time, especially Cui Yuan, who studied astronomy, mathematics and calendar very early. Zhang Heng often studies problems and exchanges ideas with him. Zhang Heng's further research on astronomy, physics and other sciences was influenced by Cui Yuan.
There is a saying that it doesn't matter who you are, but who you are with. In ancient times, there was the "Three Movements of Meng Mu", so it is really important to be with whom. When the eagle grows up in the henhouse, it will lose its ability to fly. How can it soar into the sky and soar in the blue sky? When wild wolves grow up on sheep, they will also "fall in love with sheep" and lose their wolf nature. How can they control the earth? Originally, you were excellent. Because those negative people around you have influenced you, you lack the upward pressure and the motivation to move forward, so you become vulgar and so mediocre. Isn't there such an idea? Most people go to the grave with music that has not been played. If you want to soar in the sky like an eagle, you should fly with the eagle, not with the swallow; If you want to ride the earth like a wild wolf, you must run with the wild wolf, not with the deer and sheep; As the saying goes, "Thrushcross sparrow sounds different, but golden rooster crow nests different." This may be the subtle power and effect of hearing. If you want to be smart, you must be with smart people, and you will be smarter; If you want to be excellent, you must be with excellent people, and you will stand out.
As an objective fact, "those who are close to ink are black" is the theory of the development of things. The so-called "pro-Zhu can't be honest" is a change from subjective initiative to objectivism, and the development of society is accompanied by human beings changing the trajectory of things. However, all subjective ideas are based on objective laws. In other words, as an objective existence, it exists whether human beings admit it or not. Although it will be changed, it will continue to exist and develop once it loses its subjective additional binding force. Because "pro-Zhu Zhechi people are black" is an objective law, and its nature will not be fundamentally changed because of who wants to change. In other words, "near Zhu Zhechi, near ink is black."