I used to think that everything between men and women was shady except love and affection. Now 30 years old, nearly 40 years old, I believe more and more that in this world, besides my tall husband, there are many outstanding members of the opposite sex worth making friends with, admiring, appreciating and communicating with. All excellent souls are regardless of gender and age. In ancient times, Wu Zetian could win over a large number of outstanding talents like Di Renjie and create a prosperous new century. Nowadays, Dong Mingzhu always stands out among the big shots. Wang Jianlin's trust in her is based on her charming personality. So, in the face of the rapid development of information technology today, do mortals, like me, have any concerns about confining themselves to narrow ideology?
Therefore, in the face of excellent souls, I take the initiative to make friends.
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Teacher Zhen met her when she was treating low back pain. I have long heard from my colleagues that "that man is very good" and was secretly praised by strangers. That's a character accumulated over the years. How can you not make friends when you have the opportunity? To this end, in order to successfully add himself as his WeChat friend, he also wrote a short article with stories he heard from colleagues. I didn't expect him to like it too, so he printed it out and posted it on the wall of the office. In fact, he has done such a thing so many times that at first glance he doesn't have any impression, and he doesn't even know that he is the protagonist in the story. In fact, I have always been very interested in this major. Now when I meet a professional, I feel like a duck to water, and I keep asking questions. Fortunately, the teacher didn't care that I was a rookie, otherwise I would have turned off the rookie. At the same time, it also gave me confidence and courage to explore further. The teacher also tried his best to teach me what he learned selflessly, which is really my great honor!
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Once, I was resting at home. Suddenly, the phone rang. I thought it was a strange number brought by the parents of students. I answered it. No, an old man. He introduced himself, detailed his name, age and home address, and explained his purpose. He said that when he saw what I wrote in the teacher's office, he felt quite good. He asked me to write an epitaph for him. He also said that I couldn't write for nothing, and I had to give him a little pen-wiping fee. I asked him, let's call him Liu Shu, to describe his situation roughly and let me think for myself. In fact, it doesn't matter whether the money is money or not, mainly because someone will admit me in the end. What an honor it is! Later, Liu Shu also sincerely said: "I asked Dr. Zhen for your number, and I gave it to me if I said something bad." Whether it is well written or not, of course I should pay attention to it. I've been thinking a lot these days, and then I'll find another opportunity to communicate with him and try to write more ways to satisfy him. In fact, I think Liu Shu himself is quite powerful. I've only heard his own manuscript once, and it feels good enough.
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Or a teacher, in fact, more accurately, Mr. Hao is a Taoist. Yesterday, my colleague added his WeChat. Inadvertently, two or three hours passed. I didn't realize that I had been disturbed for a long time until the teacher said, "Let's talk tomorrow and practice night shift". Mr. Hao was here outside when he graduated. I still remember that he was very shy. When he first met our head teacher, he politely asked, "What's your name, sir?" I was a study committee member in my class. In order to encourage us to write, he also gave me a hard-pen calligraphy for us to practice. It's really nice. It's been posted on the wall at home for years. I heard that the teacher went to practice the day after tomorrow. Yesterday I asked him what he was busy with, and he said he was practicing in Qingcheng Mountain. Maybe everyone will be silly when they talk about him. It's a nice day today, but what are you doing? I don't think so. Everyone has the right to choose how to live. Is it necessarily the best choice for us to live and die in the secular world? Is pure practice necessarily bitter? Not exactly. Yang li Ping, a famous dancer, is determined not to have children for her career. When she was not understood, she simply said: "Marriage is just a contract, a relationship, which has not brought me any changes, nor can it bind my heart." So I've always been free. Some people live to carry on the family line, some enjoy it, some experience it, and some watch it. I am a bystander of life. I came to this world to see how a tree grows, how rivers flow, how white clouds float, how dew condenses and how flowers bloom. " I think Mr. Hao may be that kind of mentality.
Think about it carefully, as long as you feel it with your heart, there are many excellent souls around you, living quietly in their unique way. As long as you feel it with your heart, you can always feel a different style. Making friends with excellent souls is one of my hobbies. There is no distinction between men and women, and there is no distinction between young and old. Excellent souls will always meet, as long as you have a sincere respect, I believe that along the way, you will certainly gain a different life!