Wash your hands, clean up the house, put the photo of your husband in front of you, kowtow to the photo and say, "Husband (or add your name)! I'm sorry, I apologize for the harm I did to you and your family in my last life. I hope you can forgive me. The previous grievances have passed, and we will live a good life in the future. "
In short, you can use your own "vernacular" to express this kind of words, say whatever you want, mainly to repent, apologize to the other party, be grateful, or say something like loving him. )
Step 2 pray for the blessing of the bodhisattva
"South without avalokitesvara bodhisattva! (3) Disciples sincerely pray for the merciful Guanyin Bodhisattva to bless my husband * * * to live in my kindness and love, and to stop quarreling and hurting each other. Pray for the Bodhisattva to bless us to live in harmony and to bless our children * * * to grow up healthily. The apprentice kowtows to you. "
Pray at the same time, at least a few minutes a day, the more the better. )
3. Put your hands together backwards (three times):
"May this merit of chanting Buddha, worshipping Buddha, repenting, releasing and giving alms be returned to me and my husband _ * *.
* _ _ _ (name) and all sentient beings and bodhisattvas who were killed, injured, prostituted and aborted in their previous lives, eliminate all karma and sufferings, resolve enmity, believe in the Three Treasures of Buddhism, recite Buddha's words to survive in the Western Heaven, and become the supreme Buddha!
Grateful to the Ten Buddhas, Bodhisattvas and Dragons! Be grateful to all sentient beings! "
Note: If you don't have time to do it every day, remember to recite "Mona Amitabha" every day.