The child's ideal has changed from a scientist to an online celebrity. Whose fault is this? When I was a child, I wrote down my ideal. Most children write about becoming a scientist and benefiting all mankind. Although the words are immature and even suspected of following the trend, the children's pragmatic and firm ideas now seem admirable.
Children nowadays are too precocious. How many children want to be online celebrities? Tong Mo? Star? Money comes quickly and is also concerned by the public. How tired it is to be a scientist. You should study hard, do scientific research, and earn less money than the bobbing anchors on the Internet.
When children are addicted to these virtual worlds, they have no time to see the real world. They forget that his parents earned the money to reward the anchor. Through the internet, children see the injustice of the world and indulge in it.
Stealing money from home, rewarding anchors, recharging games and competing with classmates, I am far more familiar with online buzzwords than English words in textbooks. When the brain is full of information that doesn't need thinking, the classroom knowledge that needs painstaking memory becomes boring.
The existence of garbage happiness may ruin a child's life. The saddest thing is that many children touch mobile phones because their parents have no time to accompany them. So I personally handed the child a mobile phone and asked it to accompany the child instead of myself.
What effect will garbage happiness have on children? Harm the body. Addicted to the happiness brought by electronic products, children will play electronic products for a long time. In this way, the eyes will be nearsighted and even blind. Playing mobile phones late at night, all kinds of diseases come to you. There was once a pupil of 12 years old, because he stayed up late for a long time and stole his mobile phone, which led to lung cancer finding his upper body, and there was almost no possibility of treatment.
Anxious to take a shortcut. The Internet has brought people closer together. When children see the success of others on the Internet, they always feel that they can do it. Many people once thought that Li Jiaqi could become a monopolist through live broadcast with goods, so many children decided to become Li Jiaqi. Children's ability to distinguish right from wrong is very poor. They can only see the charm on the screen, but they can't see how hard life was before Li Jiaqi became famous.
Stay up late to broadcast live, dare not stop when you are sick, hold a new product seminar in the middle of the night, and so on. After 24 hours a day, Li Jiaqi will spend 48 hours. Internet can give people a feeling that success is easy, so many children don't want to work hard, just want to take shortcuts, and their self-motivation is destroyed.
Lose self-control. Garbage happiness needs no thinking, so it is extremely addictive. Many children will play with their mobile phones for a while when they do their homework. After writing for more than ten minutes, I picked up my mobile phone and played for a while. Actually, I didn't see any useful information either. Just naturally pick up the phone, but reluctant to put it down. My self-control and attention are completely distracted.
To keep children away from garbage and keep happy, parents should do the following: don't use mobile phones instead of parents. First of all, you can't use your mobile phone to appease your child. We often see such a picture. When a child cries, parents will take out their mobile phones and play cartoons to appease the child. In the long run, children will form an idea of wanting a mobile phone if they are unhappy.
Parents use mobile phones to comfort their children when they have no time. They don't want their children to cry, so they also use mobile phones. This practice is very irrational, which solves the immediate dilemma, but brings long-term hidden dangers.
Strictly control the time when children play mobile phones. In this Internet age, it is unrealistic to keep children away from mobile phones. Children should be trained to play mobile phones from an early age. They should have time to plan, how many minutes they can play mobile phones after the completion of study tasks and family tasks, and the content should also be determined to be relatively healthy. Make rules to scare children.
Develop children's hobbies. Parents can't play mobile phones often, so they should take time out to accompany their children and take them to develop hobbies. Outdoor mountain climbing, musical instruments, painting, calligraphy, etc. You can use hobbies to distract your child's attention and improve your parent-child relationship.