Enrich your life
A scholar once said, "If you can talk to anyone for ten minutes and arouse their interest, you are a first-class communicator."
Because as far as "anyone" is concerned, this range is very wide. Maybe an engineer, maybe a lawyer, or a teacher, an artist and so on. In a word, it is not easy for you to chat with people from all walks of life for ten minutes and interest them.
Sharp tools can do a good job. Although this is an old saying, it still applies today. Therefore, we must first enrich ourselves and be "sharp".
A man with no ink on his chest can't expect him to give everything he wants. Learning is a sharp weapon. With this treasure, everything can be solved. Although you can't have exquisite research on all kinds of professional knowledge, some common sense is necessary. If you can skillfully use common sense, it must not be difficult to cope with an interesting conversation with others for ten minutes.
You can't tell everyone the same thing and the same professional knowledge. An academic worker will not be interested in doing business; Similarly, a businessman may not be interested in talking about philosophical principles.
A gentleman is eloquent. When someone asked him for advice, he said, "It's very simple. Tell him what he is. For example, talk to the butcher about pork and talk to the chef about dishes. " The person who asked for advice asked again, "If the butcher and the chef are present, what are you talking about?" He said, "I'll say braised pork."
Therefore, dealing with all kinds of people in society requires a wide range of knowledge. You don't know the law, but when you meet a lawyer, you might as well talk to him about a recent case, which was read in the newspaper. Let him express his views on the rest.
In a beauty salon, someone asked them why their business was booming, and the owner replied that beauticians were good at talking to customers. How to make the staff good at talking? "Very simple!" The shopkeeper said, "I bought all kinds of newspapers and magazines, and it is stipulated that the staff must read them before going to work every morning, just like their daily homework, so that they will naturally get the freshest conversation materials to win the favor of customers."
This is just one of thousands of examples. Knowledge is the foundation of any career. Your words will affect your career. You often read newspapers and keep all kinds of knowledge in your mind. Once you want to apply it, you can answer people selectively.
When you are reading a newspaper, take a red and blue pencils and tick the most interesting news or good articles you read every day. It would be better if you could cut them out. Write down a sentence or two that you think is meaningful. Just one or two sentences a day, and after two or three months, you will find that your thoughts are much richer than before. When speaking, you can easily think of them, use them in your own way, and speak naturally and fluently. When listening to others, you can always hear warnings or proverbs that show human wisdom. Over time, your mouth will become more and more proficient, and you can even talk eloquently, and everything you say is lively, interesting and orderly.
It is important to enrich yourself, so you can talk to all kinds of people. Every day, all kinds of events can be used as the subject matter of conversation, not just the subject matter and materials of conversation. Every fact and every sentence they tell you something, provide you with some views on people and things, and influence your views and attitudes towards life. Do not blindly absorb when absorbing, and do not smear aimlessly when smearing.
Similarly, when you apply them, you must also bring your own opinions. Therefore, every time you say a word, don't repeat what you remember like an endorsement or like a parrot. Instead, I use this sentence to explain my views on people and things, support others, or prove that I think it is right.
Training and using eloquence also depends on your attitude towards life, and there is no routine to follow; Enriching one's knowledge, coupled with an open-minded learning attitude, is definitely the cornerstone of success.