What is more important than the five senses?

HI~ I'm Shanna. Let's take the women of the CEO who have been in the forefront of public opinion recently as an example. Since the incident was exposed, there has been a lot of public opinion on the comparison of the face value and temperament between the president's wife and Zhang Dayi.

It is generally believed that when Zhang Dayi meets the president's wife, the "online celebrity temperament" is reduced to "factory flower", and the president's wife wins completely with the "sense of elegance of a lady", and the temperament of the president's wife in the world hangs online celebrity Zhang Dayi!

people who eat melons know that Zhang Dayi, as the first generation of online celebrity, has a black history of changing his head. Objectively speaking, the five facial features adjusted by cosmetic surgery are really fine. If the president's wife talks about the five facial features alone, she may not be as beautiful as Zhang Dayi after cosmetic surgery.

but. In judging beauty, what is more important than the five senses is "beautiful atmosphere". Aesthetic feeling is something on the perceptual level, which is essentially to arouse people's cognition and emotions. To put it bluntly, the emotions you convey to others will directly affect your image.

shanna introduces an important aesthetic concept in aesthetic psychology: aesthetic distance, which was put forward by American philosopher Bloch. Bloch believes that it is necessary to keep a proper distance between the subject and the object of aesthetics in order to appreciate and create beauty. To keep a proper psychological distance is to transcend all utilitarianism and examine the aesthetic object with a purely objective attitude.

If our aesthetic object, that is, the aesthetic object is too grounded and utilitarian, it is easy to have a "gap" with the aesthetic subject, a bad psychological distance, which makes people feel disgusted with the aesthetic object.

In the X-tearing incident between the president's wife and Zhang Dayi, Zhang Dayi is a typical case that creates a "gap".

As the first generation of online celebrity, there are too many "utilitarian" black materials that make people dislike the gap. Plastic surgery, copying big names, poor product reputation, fancy leek cutting, not to mention intervening in other people's marriages.

Even if Zhang Dayi's facial features are beautiful, the "gap" she has formed in the aesthetic subject's mind is already irreversible, which can only cause negative aesthetic emotions in the public's mind.

This aesthetic emotion is directly related to the beauty of the whole person's atmosphere. Everyone's atmosphere beauty is produced in this aesthetic emotion and is the embodiment of aesthetic emotion. Zhang Dayi has beautiful facial features, but he still lost to his wife, which is an important aesthetic link.

Therefore, what is more important than the five senses is the shaping of the beauty of the atmosphere. So, how to shape the beauty of the atmosphere? It mainly includes three parts: the impact of the five senses, the color of wearing and the internal energy.

1. five senses impact: in daily life, if you can make up, try to make up as much as possible, and it is best to make up completely, especially eye makeup! Before the end of kiku, it was a set of gorgeous makeup, red lips and snowy skin, amorous eyes and strong visual impact, which made the face that looked bleak at ordinary times instantly charming, and the aesthetic feeling of the atmosphere rubbed up.

2. Wear color: In the choice of wear color, it is suggested to choose according to personal image temperament. For example, Reba, who takes a gorgeous route, can use colors with high saturation and strong impact such as red, purple and green to enhance the glamorous atmosphere.

People as pale as chrysanthemums as the president's wife can take a pure, low-saturation and gray-toned Mo Landi color line.

From the perspective of color aesthetics, gray tones can often give people a gentle and elegant feeling, just like impressionist paintings. Quiet, natural, free and easy ... So, if you want to bring your own high-class atmosphere like the president's wife, you might as well choose Mo Landi clothes with gray tones to match in your daily wear ~

3. Internal energy: you are full of poetry and self-glorification, which need not be said by Xianna. Look at the president's wife's daily way of opening: there are both warm daily life with baby and her hobbies (jewelry appraisal and calligraphy art) ...

In terms of internal cultivation, the president's wife's pursuit of art itself and artistic lifestyle has rendered her aesthetic feeling. After all, beauty itself is art, aesthetics is philosophy of art, and the love of art can improve the beauty of the atmosphere.

This is why everyone generally thinks that the president's wife is more elegant and more "advanced" than Zhang Dayi, who has better facial features. Therefore, in the matter of beauty, what is more important than the five senses is the sense of human atmosphere.

A peaceful mind is to please yourself, while beautiful facial features are to please others. What is most worth mentioning here is Su Shi, one of the eight masters in Tang and Song Dynasties. He enjoyed good food, good tea and good travel in the mountains all his life. Although his career was not smooth, he was repeatedly demoted, but he was still optimistic, open-minded and unrestrained. Nowadays, the pace and pressure of life are increasing day by day, and such a good attitude is really rare.

instead of obsessing about beautiful and correct facial features, it is better to improve yourself in all aspects, be open-minded, learn to vent yourself properly, and be comfortable between being sober and content. People who live a full and happy life every day are the most attractive.

a good figure comes from self-discipline. The facial features can be decorated with makeup, but the figure is almost impossible. Behind the formation of a good figure, it is sweating in the gym, strictly controlling oil and giving up sugar, and persisting day after day.

A person's temperament is a comprehensive expression of internal speech, external behavior and peaceful attitude towards others, and the improvement of temperament and the change of manners need a good figure to support it.

Therefore, the external good figure and the internal peace of mind have a greater and wider impact on our lives than the five senses. However, we should not blindly deny the importance of the five senses, and it is best to adjust ourselves appropriately so as to focus on all aspects.

Three Views and Temperament

There is a saying on the Internet that villains are good-looking, and three views follow the five senses.

In fact, this sentence is also reasonable. Our first impression of a person is often the five senses.

There is also a saying: blind date depends on five senses, and marriage depends on three views.

on blind date, everyone likes to look good.

There is a poem written like this:

Like a person,

Start with face value, and get stuck in talent,

Be loyal to character, be obsessed with body,

Be obsessed with sound, and be intoxicated with affection.

If we are together like this,

we are married to love!

A beautiful face and a handsome appearance are always more attractive than an ordinary public face, but deep feelings between people often depend on the three views that fit rather than the beautiful facial features.

In our life, we will face many choices. In choosing friends or lovers, different people have different opinions on whether to rely on the five senses or the three views.

Everyone wants to pursue perfection desperately, but how many people have the same five senses and three views? Or, why should you be friends with such people?

Most people in this era are used to judging a person by his appearance and judging him only by his five senses, but whether a person really has connotation is determined by three views. The same is true of choosing friends and lovers.

So, how important are the three views in female-male communication? It can determine the final outcome of a relationship, and the five senses can only be a reference for the beginning of a relationship.

The five senses can decide who you are in love with, but who you want to live with depends on the three views. Everyone will like high face value, but what you like may not be suitable for you.

it's easy to fall in love with someone, but it's hard to spend a lifetime with someone. A person's loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is that two people with different views can barely spend the rest of their lives together.

No matter how beautiful a face is, it can't compete with the erosion of time. No matter how handsome a face is, it will be in the twilight years. The shelf life of a relationship will not be lengthened because it looks good, nor will it be shortened because it looks bad. The combination of three views is the most desirable appearance in a relationship.

Our life is too short, so why bother with the five senses? Being with people with the same three views is the right thing.

In the era of looking at faces, Yan value has become the first choice for us to look at people and make friends. The reason is that it is difficult for me to see a kind heart under ta's ugly and evil appearance. In fact, we are confused by this era, and the three views are more important than the five senses.

The five senses refer to the eyes, nose, mouth, ears and body. These organs are determined by us, and we have no choice. The body is influenced by our parents. Of course, I don't object to some people saying that cosmetic surgery can change the facial features and make them look more pleasing to the eye, but can this way of violating the natural growth of human beings change a person from the inside out? The answer is often no, people with delicate facial features may not have a kind heart, and similarly, people with ugly faces may not have ugly hearts. We can't judge a person's character by his appearance, because what is more important than the five senses is the three views.

The official meanings of the three views are world outlook, values and outlook on life. The three views can make us clearly understand a person's way of life, whether his attitude and opinions towards things are similar to his own, whether he has the same interests and hobbies, whether he can develop into friends, etc. You can't be friends if you have three incorrect views, and you can't be friends if you have three different views. Friendship between people who meet because of the five senses may not last long, because the aesthetic will change with time, but the friendship between friends with the same three views will last long, because the three views will not change easily. Therefore, the three views are the basis for judging people and making friends.

So, friends, please remember when making friends, what is more important than the five senses is the three views.