As Jiang Defu's closest friend, Mrding changed from a young comrade-in-arms to a neighbor and relative. Many people can't understand this feeling, but if we look at Jiang Defu's life and Mrding's life, it's really different. Jiang Defu's career and family can be said to be full of pride. Life in Mrding is always unpredictable. When he died suddenly, he discovered that his life was the life of most people. Xin Qiji's words, "Sigh that life is often unsatisfactory."
In his career, Mrding didn't have too many ambitions, so on the whole, he didn't have too many regrets in this respect. The biggest regret in his life is his life partner. He told Jiang Defu that his dream has always been to find a woman with culture and knowledge who can talk to him. Until he saw that Jiang Defu had married Angie, his thoughts became stronger, but he could only think about it.
After Wang Xiue died in childbirth, although Mrding became a widower and had a chance to choose again, he still wanted what he wanted. Neither Mr. Ge nor Dr. Wu got it. Finally, he had to compromise and told Dehua that if they didn't get married, Dehua would cry with joy all the way, but I saw the weakness and sadness in Mrding's heart, and Dehua was full of pride.
Many people think that Mrding has no courage, so he can't get what he wants, but as an outsider, he has to say, isn't this a real life and a real marriage? Things in the world are not always what you want, and sometimes you have to do them. Mrding doesn't have the objective conditions for Jiang Defu to eat well and not be hungry. He is old and young. When he wants to marry Mr. Ge, the policy is stricter than when he marries Angie. For all these reasons, he had to lower his head.
Fortunately, Mrding wasn't always addicted to it. He accepted Dehua and his ideal, the opposite of his married life. After marriage, Mrding had no self-pity, and lived an ordinary and quiet life with Dehua. He is so absorbed in calligraphy that he can't see it at ordinary times. It was not until he was drunk that he asked the painter for a portrait of Anjie that we knew that he had never given up his ideal.
Mrding lived to the end and deeply understood this truth. He leads a very leisurely and comfortable life. His death was sudden and there was no sadness in the play. In a few words, Mrding's life was not as gorgeous as summer flowers, but when he died, he was as quiet and beautiful as fallen leaves.